cheried

oh i kno how you feel! i want another babyb to
if i had the money i would be having another 1 right now,
but i know i have to wait untill things settle down.

you have to be happy with what you are doing,
you are already a mommy to a beautiful baby,
so y not finish college then you can get a gr8 job
be a roll model to your baby and have more babies

hiya hunny,
please reconsider what you are thinkin about doing.

you are carrying a precious life!
please give that baby a chance. there are so many
girls who have bee in your shoes and they are great
mommies now. you can do it to,

tell someone you trust! your parents might be cross but
they will come around trust me i know.

your boyfriend, well he should be man enough to
stand up for his actions.
my boyfriend gave me alot of probs in the begining
of my pregnancy, once he held ashley, tears just filled
up his eyes. and now he is the most amazing daddy to ash

it seems like now abortion is the only way out,
i promise you its not, choose life for your baby
we are all here to give you support!

hiya hunny

well first of all, when was your last period?

those are symptoms yes. symptoms usually only start
around 4-5 weeks pregnant though (differs with every woman)

the most common sign of prenancy is the missed period

let me know?

Mwah*

hi sugar!
so you pregnant after all.
you know the joy a baby can bring you, and you
know the financial difficulties and stress that it brings
to. at the end of the day, its a life! a life is so so
precious. it can be taken away within seconds!

you know that as a mom you will do ANYTHING to provide for your babies
now i know you only 17 and have a baby right now that
you caring for, and it wont be easy to have a second

BUT
with saying all this i really think you should take
a test and see if you really are pregnant again
before jumping the gun you know?

if you are pregnant talk to you partner – if you
really think you cant handle it maybe adoption is best
but still one da that baby will grow up and want to know
why mommy and daddy did not want him/her
you really have to think about it carefully

let me know how it goes
mwa*

im sure those things are not really true hehe, only
a ultrasound can determin the sex, but hey who knows…
good luck

i think at times like this we all feel like we cant make it
and we look for the quick way out.. so before we think about it
we act.

i think deep down inside your bf really wants this baby,
y not give him a chance?
well does he want to be with you?
you know that you say he is addicted to pain killers,
maybe having this baby could make him see he has to be a role model
or not, you could help him sort his life out,

honey abortion is never the answer, you know if you abort
you will spend your whole life wondering about that baby.
a mommy will always make a plan for her babies, even if its hard
you will get through it.

i hope you make th right choice good luck and im always here
if you need to chat

Hey there. You are not alone! My daughter is 12weeks on wednesday and ever since the moment i gave birth i gave this urge to have another baby. Now just like you i love her so much. I dunno Why i would feel this way. Its not that i dont love my daughter im just longing for another 1. I spoke to my doc at my 6week app he offered me anti depressants but i refused. He said alot of woman feel this way. He put me on the pill. But i struggle every morning to take it Lol. My doc said it will pass and the feeling will go. But it has not. I try keep myself busy. Training and getting myself into shape but somehow i always find myself talking to my bf about another 1. Your not alone. Its strange. I dunno Why i feel this way either i kno i cant have another baby right now even tho i want one:(

hi im cherie im 28 weeks preg wit a baby girl
your baby is gorgeous!
welcome to da site

hi honey- congrats on the pregnancy!!

i know how you feeling with your boyfriend i had a
similar experience.

i think maybe you should try talking to him- exactly what you told us here
in your post – tell him. you two are having a baby
and you have to communicate with each other
and about your feelings otherwise alot more pressure will fall on you.

maybe he is just scared about how they will react?
but i do agree with you- his parents SHOULD know-
it is there grandchild and if they are mad… so what
they will get over it trust me. tell him you want to meet
his parents and tell them. do your parents know that
his parents dont knw? maybe you could talk to your bf and get
your parents to talk things out. the thing is at the end of the day
your baby is all that matters- dont cause yourself stres

good luck- with you all the best

p.s. im 28 weeks so our babies are like 4 weeks apart
heheB)

hey hunni my favourite out of those names are clara and
philip…

congrats on your babies luv

yep and that would be right- before jumping
to any conclusions get yourself a test. see what the results
are!
good luck

its very normal!
i think to be a mother is something very special.
i miscarried in april- all i wanted was a child. i eventualy
told myself il let it happen wen it happens.
now im 16 weeks pregnant everythng is going great.
non of us really no the joy a child can bring once we find
ourselves pregnant/ or have a pregnancy scare. (and get over the shock)
my advice would be- if you cant have one now- prepare yourself
for that child you going to have one day,
get your body fit healthy, take a vitmain etc.
this could help put your mind to ease, and reassure yourself one day
you will have that baby. good luck with everything!