Featured Dear Becky Letters

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A Stand Up Guy

Hi, my name is John from Gauteng, South Africa. I got your email address on the standupgirl.com and I thought maybe you could be the right person...

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New York News

Update!Teka's baby arrives on Inside Edition. We were at a party and both of us got really drunk, which led to us having sex. 4 weeks after that...

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pregnancy and respect

I Respect All Of You

Hi Becky, It has been over a year since I first emailed you about being pregnant to my friend and he wanted nothing to do with it. Even though I...

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my child is my life

I Know How You Feel

Hi, I know exactly how you feel. I was 31 when i became pregnant. It was an unplanned pregnancy as I had been saving myself for my husband, but...

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love and choices

Sex And Real Love?

Hi Becky, I really appreciated your website and so wish there had been something like it out there for me when I was 17. I am 30 years old now,...

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I want To Help!

Hello, I know it may not be Becky who gets this, so to whoever gets it :), I have had an account on this site for a long time and first off I...

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Stats And Me

I am currently doing a research paper on teen pregnancy. To read the statistics and see how many odds are against me is some what depressing. I...

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The Last Ultrasound

My 16th birthday had come and I decided to write my mom a letter. I told her how much I already loved this child and how I was ready to give up...

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When I See Her Smile

Hi Becky, My name is Alisa and I'm 17. I have a 5 month old daughter named Brooklyn, who I love with all my heart. When I first found out that I...

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A Single Parent

I was 18 when I got pregnant by a 16 year old boy. I contemplated abortion, but just couldn't do it. I had my son about a month after my 19th...

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