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Pregnant, Alone, Scared?

I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care! Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms and use the pregnancy calculator tool.

I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours.  If we can do it, so can you!
We girls need each other.  Remember, You are not alone!

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Featured Real Stories

I Was Homeless

Homeless living in my car a Ford Explorer at the time with my husband along with our blue heeler pup. When I found out I was pregnant we ended up squeezing a twin blow up mattress in the back just to add some comfort and support when we slept. I was five months into my pregnancy before I found a...

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My First Baby

I am currently 37 weeks pregnant (unplanned pregnancy) with my first baby with my boyfriend, and I have had issues with giving up substances during this pregnancy due to a multitude of factors. I need help with resources, counseling, anything. We live in an isolated town in New Mexico, and I don't...

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I Don’t Get a Do Over

There is help for women who are in a crisis pregnancy. If I had known of a resource like StandUpGirl.com in 1978 even though I was Pro-Choice, I would have chosen Life. All these years it has been a true heartbreak for me. The guilt I feel at having aborted my own Baby is horrible.

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Mother Forces Abortion

When Tonuya Rainey, 38, learned of her 16-year-old daughter's pregnancy in early March, she felt her daughter's stomach and told her she didn't feel a baby, according the Miramar police search warrant application. Despite her daughter saying she wanted to have the baby, Rainey said she was too...

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I Am Awesome

A wonderful encouraging powerful inspiration motivation message to all woman. We’re precious and worthy of love and kindness!

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15 and Having a Baby

I'm 15 and I'm having a baby. I'm scared, and I don't want to mess this up. My baby is due May 27. I don't know yet if I'm going to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. I hope I make the right choices..... Thank you for all you comments!  I have made the choice to keep my baby. More...

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Welcome to StandUpGirl.com

Hi, My Name is Becky!

I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care. Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms, pregnancy calculator tools.

Think you are the only one dealing with something this huge? I felt that way, too. Finding out I had an unplanned pregnancy turned my whole life upside down. I felt like I had nowhere to turn…no one who could understand. I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours of planned or unplanned pregnancy…if we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other.

Since I’ve gone online so many of you girls have emailed me your powerful stories. It has really been amazing! You can check out some of these stories in my Dear Becky column, or contact me yourself! You can register to join our Hot Topics Forum StandUpGirl.com Help Forum.

Remember, You are not alone!

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I Am Awesome

A wonderful encouraging powerful inspiration motivation message to all woman. We’re precious and worthy of love and kindness!

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15 and Having a Baby

I'm 15 and I'm having a baby. I'm scared, and I don't want to mess this up. My baby is due May 27. I don't know yet if I'm going to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. I hope I make the...

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Hard Time Pregnancy Journey

My pregnancy journey...I'm 29 years of age, 23 weeks pregnant and expecting baby girl soon. This is my 2nd pregnancy after 6 years. We've been trying to get pregnancy for almost a year and thanks to...

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Sweet Nightmare

Pregnancy is such an experience. Some people says its beautiful and some don’t; however, the end result is priceless. I cannot say that I enjoyed pregnancy. It was horrible not physically but...

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My First Born

I was 16 years old when I felt pregnant with my first born. She was born this year 2018 but my pregnancy was very stress full like if I'm going to be a good mom or if I will be able to look after...

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Anything But A Heroine

My friend recommended this site to me. She said that it helped her heal from her decision, and although mine was almost 10 years and 8 months ago now, time, and pro-life advocacy groups have done...

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