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Pregnant, Alone, Scared?

I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care! Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms and use the pregnancy calculator tool.

I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours.  If we can do it, so can you!
We girls need each other.  Remember, You are not alone!

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Featured Real Stories

Greatest Gymnast of Her Generation

Simone Biles — the five-time Olympic medalist who’s described as the greatest gymnast of her generation — made history on Friday with a spectacular beam dismount at the U.S. Gymnastics Championships. Competing in Kansas City, Mo., 22-year-old Biles became the first gymnast ever to attempt a double-twisting, double somersault dismount from the balance beam, according to Team USA.

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Graduate with Twins in Tow

Good things come in twos for one hardworking Alabama woman, from dual college degrees to twin baby girls. On Aug. 16, Montoya Major will graduate from Nova Southeastern University in Florida with a bachelor’s in cardiovascular sonography and a master’s in health science — an accomplishment all the...

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I Wasn’t Supposed to Be Born

‘Ninja’ Gamer Reveals Abortion Story to Millions: ‘I Wasn’t Supposed to Be Born’. Celebrities routinely praise abortion and abortion providers, like Planned Parenthood, to their millions of fans. But their narrative is constantly being challenged by other, more powerful testimonies – stories of stars alive today because their mothers refused abortion and chose life.

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Tim Tebow Did Survive!

Tebow’s parents, Pam and Bob Tebow, met as University of Florida students in the late 1960s, according to a 2007 article in The Gainesville Sun. A year later, they went on their first date - to the Georgia-Florida game in Jacksonville - and married in 1971, Pam skipping graduation to tie the knot....

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I Was Homeless

Homeless living in my car a Ford Explorer at the time with my husband along with our blue heeler pup. When I found out I was pregnant we ended up squeezing a twin blow up mattress in the back just to add some comfort and support when we slept. I was five months into my pregnancy before I found a...

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Welcome to StandUpGirl.com

Hi, My Name is Becky!

I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care. Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms, pregnancy calculator tools.

Think you are the only one dealing with something this huge? I felt that way, too. Finding out I had an unplanned pregnancy turned my whole life upside down. I felt like I had nowhere to turn…no one who could understand. I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours of planned or unplanned pregnancy…if we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other.

Since I’ve gone online so many of you girls have emailed me your powerful stories. It has really been amazing! You can check out some of these stories in my Dear Becky column, or contact me yourself! You can register to join our Hot Topics Forum StandUpGirl.com Help Forum.

Remember, You are not alone!

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Tim Tebow Did Survive!

Tebow’s parents, Pam and Bob Tebow, met as University of Florida students in the late 1960s, according to a 2007 article in The Gainesville Sun. A year later, they went on their first date - to the...

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I Was Homeless

Homeless living in my car a Ford Explorer at the time with my husband along with our blue heeler pup. When I found out I was pregnant we ended up squeezing a twin blow up mattress in the back just...

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My First Baby

I am currently 37 weeks pregnant (unplanned pregnancy) with my first baby with my boyfriend, and I have had issues with giving up substances during this pregnancy due to a multitude of factors. I...

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I Don’t Get a Do Over

There is help for women who are in a crisis pregnancy. If I had known of a resource like StandUpGirl.com in 1978 even though I was Pro-Choice, I would have chosen Life. All these years it has been a true heartbreak for me. The guilt I feel at having aborted my own Baby is horrible.

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Mother Forces Abortion

When Tonuya Rainey, 38, learned of her 16-year-old daughter's pregnancy in early March, she felt her daughter's stomach and told her she didn't feel a baby, according the Miramar police search...

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I Am Awesome

A wonderful encouraging powerful inspiration motivation message to all woman. We’re precious and worthy of love and kindness!

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