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I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care! Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms and use the pregnancy calculator tool.

I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours.  If we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other.  Remember, You are not alone!

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15 and my baby
15 and Having a Baby

15 and Having a Baby

I'm 15 and I'm having a baby. I'm scared, and I don't want to mess this up. My baby is due May 27. I don't know yet if I'm going to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. I hope I make the right choices..... Thank you for all you...

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sisters are there for each other
To Tell My Parents

To Tell My Parents

Becky, Your website address was in my church's bulletin this week, and I am so glad that I visited your site. It is amazing how one person can positively touch the lives of many. My sister was that person for me. I became pregnant at 19, and I...

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Our choice not parents
What Is Done Is Done

What Is Done Is Done

We had planned everything. We had decided to have this baby. Our baby… I am 18, I just graduated and have already applied and got into the best university of interior architecture. However, we have been talking about this for a few months now. I...

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pregnant and waiting
Pregnant and Perks

Pregnant and Perks

Hey I'm Mariaih and i'm 17 and pregnant. I don't really have a huge story right now ha ha because my baby isn't here yet but i'm pretty much always at home resting and taking care of myself for my baby because my boyfriend and my family want me...

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pregnant and parents
Hey Dad, I’m Late!

Hey Dad, I’m Late!

Hi Becky, I was 19 years old when I got pregnant. My mom and sister already got their menstrual period so I was thinking maybe I'm just delayed or something. But then again thoughts came to my mind. We just moved in Canada. Before we left the...

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life is precious
Adoption Over Abortion

Adoption Over Abortion

If My Little Voice Could Speak By: Shelbea Riddle -An Adopted High School Senior 10 little fingers 10 little toes I am so cute. But nobody knows. Only God, Who fearfully and wonderfully made me. He knows. He knows I am perfect. If I could have...

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Jack Nicholson

jack nicolson“My opinions on abortion were formed by personal experience.  I discovered the woman I thought was my sister was actually my mother, and the woman I knew as my mother was my grandmother. My mother became pregnant as a teenager and was encouraged to have an abortion, even back in 1937, but she chose life for me….it made me pro-life.” #jacknicholson

Jack Nicholson | Actor

Kenny Chesney

kenny chesney“Chesney’s pro-life advocacy is in the song he has called one of his favorites, ‘There Goes My Life’. Story of a teenager whose girlfriend gets pregnant and has the baby rather than having an abortion. Iin the end, he realizes how much of a blessing his child is.” #kennychesney

Kenny Chesney  | Singer  

Jordan Sparks

jordan sparks“Sparks participates in pro-life conferences as a volunteer and singer. She sang at Arizona’s Right to Life 2005 conference. Sparks hasn’t been shy about her pro-life beliefs. Asked about a ring she wears on her wedding ring finger …it’s my Purity Ring, symbolizing I am waiting until I am married, and saving myself for true love.” #jordansparks

Jordan Sparks | singer

Jim Caviezel

jim caviezel“Being Pro-Life is important to me. How are we so arrogant to not think of the 51.5 million babies who have died in this country… Look, I am for helping women. I just don’t see abortion as helping women. And I don’t love my career that much to say, I’m going to remain silent on this.” #jimcaviezel

Jim Caviezel | Actor

Nick Cannon

nick cannonNick Cannon has been known to speak out against abortion before, most notably in a song he wrote about his own mother who had considered aborting him. In the song, Can I Live? He thanks his mother for choosing life.

Nick Cannon | Actor/singer

Phil Robertson

phil robertson“Duck Dynasty’s Robertson in what appears to be a religious sermon – declares his pro-life stance on the issue of abortion. When discussing the ethics of, and that there’s a debate on the issue, he asks, “What in the world happened to us?.” #duckdynasty #philrobertson

Phil Robertson | Duck Dynasty

Kevin Sorbo

kevin sorbo“Sorbo recently tweeted his support for the new Gosnell Movie that will profile the gruesome late-term abortion practitioner. This is something that my wife and I are behind because we believe in this project. It’s long overdue for this story to be told, it wasn’t covered by the media nearly as much as other murder cases were.” #KevinSorbo

Kevin Sorbo | Actor

Mel Gibson

mel gibson“God is the only one who knows how many children we should have, and we should be ready to accept them. One can’t decide for oneself who comes into this world and who doesn’t. That decision doesn’t belong to us.” #melgibson

Mel Gibson | Actor/Director

Patricia Heaton

patricia heaton“Every 36 seconds in America a women lays her body down, forced to choose abortion out of a lack of practical resources and emotional support. Abortion is a reflection that society has failed women.”  #patriciaheaton

Patricia Heaton | Actress   

Kathy Ireland

kathy_ireland“I was told it was a lose-lose situation and would kill my business to pronounce I am Pro-Life. But I thought if I did this maybe one woman watching wouldn’t kill her baby. We need to support these women who are in a crisis pregnancy… I have no choice but to defend the most vulnerable among us.” #kathyireland
 
Kathy Ireland | Supermodel   


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Hi, My Name is Becky!

I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care. Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms, pregnancy calculator tools.

Think you are the only one dealing with something this huge? I felt that way, too. Finding out I had an unplanned pregnancy turned my whole life upside down. I felt like I had nowhere to turn…no one who could understand. I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours of planned or unplanned pregnancy…if we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other.

Since I’ve gone online so many of you girls have emailed me your powerful stories. It has really been amazing! You can check out some of these stories in my Dear Becky column, or contact me yourself! You can register to join our Hot Topics Forum StandUpGirl.com Help Forum.

Remember, You are not alone!

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Distance is no help for Pregnancy

Everyone knows that an unexpected teen pregnancy is a scary ordeal, be it you're keeping the baby, aborting, or adoption. My story is no different, because a scare is just as scary... You have all your plans flash before your eyes, everyone telling you their input...

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pregnant team scared

15 and Having a Baby

I'm 15 and I'm having a baby. I'm scared, and I don't want to mess this up. My baby is due May 27. I don't know yet if I'm going to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. I hope I make the right choices..... Thank you for all you comments!  I have made the...

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15 and my baby

Pregnant & Nervous

Hi. I'm 17. And a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. I'm nervous, I don't know how to tell my mom. I'm scared of how she will react. And the money isn't the best right now. I don't want her to hate me, we have problems anyways. I am just so scared to tell her...

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I Was a Party Girl

I had a abortion when i was 17 in 2016 . i dropped out of high school my senior year . i was a "party girl" i guess you would day . i started dating this guy who sold pot and he became controlling and mentally and verbally abusive. i wasn't allowed to talk to my...

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12 Years Old – My story

My story starts when I was 11. I was being raped by someone I knew. The day after I turned 12 I found out I was about 6 1/2 months pregnant. I was so scared I didn't know what to do. They had to tell my father he was so sad. We hid it from my mother as long as we...

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12 Years Old - My story

A Story Like Many Others Before Me

So i decided that in order to get over the past maybe i should write about it, so this is my story. I'm 16 years old and currently staying with my grandma as things at home deteriorated. I'm in a situation were i have to grow up fast and become an adult. I try and...

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A Story Like Many Others Before Me