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19 pregnant no family support

I have been dating my same boyfriend for three years now and this isn't our first pregnancy. Our first year together, I got pregnant and was forced into an abortion by my parents and him as well. Anyway, now a few years later, I was actively taking birth control...

the choice friendship

Leading Up To The Choice

I've never blogged before.. Or talked to anyone about this besides the people in my life I'm closest too so this is a new thing for me. I guess the way I'm going about trying to get better just isn't working so it's time to try something new. You can't get better...

i Need Answers Please

OK. So, I'm 15. I had unprotected sex on November 2nd. He didn't cum in me and I got my period the next day. It's now December 18th. I usually get my period on the 3rd, so I'm late. Is there any way I could be pregnant?

My Life Thus Far…

It's December 16th, just a week and a half before Christmas. This year will be my second Christmas with my daughter and my first as a married woman! That's right! I'm married! I met my husband on October 2nd, two years ago, and we became good friends, hanging out...

For the third time.

I already have a two year old daughter. I got pregnant a year after having her and ended up having an abortion. Now, I'm pregnant for the third time. I'm very torn. I don't want another baby but I don't want to go through the abortion process again. I look at my...

might be pregnant

I was a virgin till I started dating this guy about 6 weeks ago. Now everything was going great, i lost it to him and then went on the pill. Didn't feel any different till about 3 weeks ago. I started peeing a lot more, was hungry all the time, my back hurt, and my...

It all started……

It all started in November... My boyfriend and I were having sex. We didn't know the condom broke... And after that, I never ended up pregnant. and so we never used condoms... In August. I started my period... Then September came, no period. In October, I had a...

muttered words

It takes a lot of energy to not think of you, to force myself not to feel the flicker of my heart as it beats for you. The painful wrenching as I tear your heavy presence out of my very soul. The taste of your lips still haunts me, the touch of your skin, the very...

My story

So I am new to this and I am not sure exactly what to say. I am sixteen years old and right now, I am almost 4 1/2 months along. I don't have a problem with a good support system, because I have one of the best support systems with my family. I don't talk to many...

Complications

I am new to this website and first things first: my fiancé and I are having a baby. We are scared, but excited at the same time. I am just overwhelmed because of the different emotions I am experiencing. I hate getting mad at my fiancé, for little things (sometimes...

Scared & Don’t Know What To DO

Okay so I've never used this site before, and well I just need help, someone to talk to. Okay I'm 15 years old, well just turned 15 the 18th, and so I think I'm pregnant. I had been having irregular periods for a couple months now, but this month I haven't had one...

My little zachary

6 month appointments!

My son was 6 months old last week. So he was due for 6-month checkups. He had an appointment with the midwife this morning, just for general checks. Everything was great, he's now 14 lbs. 4 oz...that's 12 lbs. 2 oz heavier than what he was when he was born. It was...

My story.

For those of you that don't know my story, here it is. My name is [redacted] and I got pregnant when I was 14. When my boyfriend and I found out we had no idea what to do. Of course, the first thing that came to mind was abortion. Yes, I am totally against abortion...

The Beginning of My Journey

Posted by a Guest Hello everyone in this awesome community, I guess I'll start with an intro. My name is Kari and I'm 18 years old. I'm in my last year of high school and my boyfriend of 3 years, Brad, (19) is in his first year of university. A few days ago I...

Questions without judgement

So, I have never used this site before and I don't really know how to work it, but I am in need of help and I think this site may be able to answer my questions without judgment and or disbelief in me. My story is not unusual, it is actually quite common, But it's...

When reality hits

So I had my son a little over 5 months ago. Before he was born, Lee and I were hardly together... He wanted nothing to do with us when I found out...He then changed his mind and proposed when our son was in the NICU. I thought everything was going perfectly. It was...

I am so proud!

Hello everyone, I came across Stand Up Girl like many of you did, trying to find an answer to this problem that had crept up unexpectedly. I was 5 weeks pregnant when I found out, but now with the help of Stand Up Girl & the wonderful, strong women who have...

School school school!

So you all know my son, who is 10 months old now! (I was 14 when I gave birth and now I'm nearly 16). As you guys know, I went to school up until the day before my induction (emergency induction). Yes, it was hard with the big belly and all but, you gotta do...

Need advice

I have just found out that I am pregnant. The father and I broke up a few days ago and he keeps telling me to abort this child. I don't know how to deal with all of this. We were a very happy couple and have been together for some time. He just moved a few hours...

I know…

I know I shouldn't want you, I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. Every time I close my eyes, say a prayer, watch a sad movie...You cross my mind. I want nothing more than to deny it with my every breath. I long for you to be safe, to think of me, to remember...

My son’s father

My son's father has just decided to take responsibility for our son. I have mixed feelings about it. I just think that not having him in our life was easier for me to handle because I didn't have to worry about losing my son. I am frustrated, scared, and confused....

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It’s been a while!

Well, it's been a while since I've been on here, but I think it's about time I started using this site again. It really did help me a lot and I could use the support. My little boy is now 5 years old & my little girl is now 3. Her father & I are not only...

too nice???

Am I too nice to the men in my life who have done me wrong? I never shout or act out my anger, never try and seek revenge even though it's deserved. The way things have been going through many of my past and present relationships, it's as though I am not able to...