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Congrats on the Pregnancy..were you trying for another?
I had an ultrasound at 9wks 6 days with my second bub and yep i couldn’t believe how developed he was for that stage…and thats how i cant understand how they still do abortions up to 22weeks….I hope all goes well for you!
i dont wanna put a downer on you but after about 5mins the test results can be inaccurate so i wouldnt believe it but id do another test in about 3 days time or a week but dont read it after 5mins. Good Luck
Sorry to hear about your losses. I know its hard but you have to think positive, its not good for you or the baby to stress. take care and good luck
im sorry to hear about your loss and it goes to show that also being over 12 weeks isnt the safety zone its meant to be is it. Its not fair when these things happen to the good people, i mean i dont wish it upon anyone but you know what i mean. I hope things look up for you in the future.take care and dont go blaming yourself either!
well said girls… it seems like you have ur head on your shoulders and you know what u want in life. Thats true that age doesnt depend on someone being a good mum..i have seen girls older than me that dont have a damn clue what they are doing.. i had one even ask me "am i meant to have checkups when im pregnant" its just common sense!
Good luck for the rest of your pregnancy darlzi think you made an extremely brave decision.. no one should tell you what to do with your baby, if Daz doesnt want to live with the responsibility that he has a son then its his problem and i bet he will regret it when he gets older and his son doesnt know who he is. Most people out there hearing that they are pregnant with a DS child would give it up straight away but i think your strong and you can do it.Glad to hear also that you have family support and they didnt shoot you down for becomming pregnant so young. Good luck and keep us posted
yep, i reckon let him go and get it done…maybe it might make him realise too that he has a child to stick by. Don’t stress about it!
Well said Ashmo!
At 13/14 i was still playing with barbies not thinking of having babies…Sure i absolutely loved them and knew from the start i wanted to a young mum but wow…noway at 14..
I have seen a few fakes around so i just know not to give them any advice, they are only here to seek attention so don’t give it to them.
I’m glad to hear that you did something about his behaviour and got away. It was the best thing for yourself and your little girl.
I hope the future is alot brighter for youSounds like you’ve stood up for yourself which most girls wouldn’t and done the right thing.
If he cant grow up and be a man at 27 then when will he. It sounds like he will still hang around and maybe even realise what he has lost but hun dont let him get the better of you and just use you for the sex.
Take careIt sounds like you really want to keep this baby so i would.You couldn’t live with yourself if you gave it away or aborted it. I think that maybe your mum might be not happy with you for getting pregnant again but i reckon she would be there to support you with your decision.
I hope it works out all good for you.I’m from Australia too but i really like this site…
I like to help out with advice on where i can etc.I’m Kerry 22yo and married to Rick 30yo.We have a 2yo daughter Skye and a boy due in 14 days but im hoping nxt week..lol
Anyways im off to catch up on posts.Only you can make that choice but if are still unsure..maybe leave it til the actual time of the scan, you might change your mind. I think first baby is always good to find out but the others leave it a surprise. I wanted 2 find out for both but first didnt co-operate and second we were told its a boy but i wouldn’t fully believe it anyways coz something that has a lump between the legs might also be the cord in the way. I will find out pretty soon though. I hope all goes well at your scan and u get the results that you want!
You sound like a lucky one to have just dropped the baby weight, i kept mine from my first pregnancy and im due in 22 days with number 2 so hopefully i lose some of the weight. I’m not one to stress over what i look like. It take your body 12mths to get back to normal they say.
I hope you are losing the weight safely and not starving yourself. Stretch marks take time to fade but they dont stay purple..i was so worried they would stay purple too as i got them all over my tummy, bum, boobs but they ended up changing to a silver colour which blended in with the colour of my skin so they weren’t that noticable.That was wrong for someone to tell you to snap out of it. I’m glad you are standing up for yourself and i hope things work out for you.
I dont think you are being selfish. I think it would be cruel if you were to get pregnant and then neglect a baby you dont want but if thats what u want its your choice.
You’ve probably heard it all b4 but you are still young and when u get to ur mid 20’s late 20’s you might find a great man and decide to have a family with him. So never say never!you’re exactly right. You hear about teenage mums blowing their money etc etc
It only takes a few teens to tarnish it for the rest of us who do the right thing and care for our kids.
When i was in hosp having my first, they looked at me like i was stupid when trying to breastfeed coz i was 19.Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and good on you for working and still going to college.
Hon, i would come clean to him and be straight up and honest and tell him. If he is for real he will be there for you no matter what and as you did say he regretted the last termination.
I’m glad you have chosen to keep bubs!
YEP ive heard of it before but it would be hard dealing with that because you wouldnt know whether u were bleeding from miscarriage or not. How far are you darls?
Do you have family to support you? Congrats and enjoy the rest of the pregnancy.
I hope all stays healthy for you.I have been reading stories on here about how girls say they could not bring up a baby and in the end they gave birth and everything was fine and nothing they expected.
I think that ANYONE can bring up a baby no matter what.I hope you make the right choice.
