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It Can Be Done

Here I was 20 years old with 3 children no education, no guidance, not one person to truly help me.  To make a very long story short. I knew I had to do better for my children. By the time I turned 16 years old I had 2 beautiful daughters. Not quite understanding...

18 and nervous

Just last week I found out I was pregnant. This is so very hard for me because I am in my first year in college away from home. My boyfriend lives back home and just got a job the day that I found out I was pregnant. Although I was terrified, I told my mother and...

that empty feeling

dear becky, I am 17 and went through a lot with my pregnancy, heres my story. My fiance' and i have been dating for almost a year we got engaged in March of 2008. We did decide that we wanted a baby.I know babies are very hard to take care of and all that...

Life after Abortion

When one speaks of abortion one is often judged, offended, scorn and scrutinised. What did i really expect???I've been on the giving out side...now i'm on the receiving side! No one could have told or warned me what the effect would be on my life and the...

Abortion????

I'm 19 years old and I have a 2 1/2 month old Baby boy.Hears the BIG!!!!! Problem.... I'm 3 weeks pregnant and thinking about having an abortion. I talked to my husband about it and he thinks that i should get the abortion becausewe cant afford...

Where oh were to start…

Hey everyone. I'm new to this site, but i'm absolutely in love with it!! So kudos to those who created it. Anyways so I personally think i have a lot to offer and advice to give on almost anything. So let me dive in.I am 18 years old and only remember,...

pro-choice what now?

There are times I go back and forth. I am going through so much right now. I got married on a whim a few months ago, he already has 2 kids from 2 different mothers. I found out today that my husband has been with another female. I have been in legal trouble because...

what should i do before its too late?

Ok I have loved this boy since i was 18. I got pregnant with my daughter Feb 2005, while i was a freshman in college and doing very well. We decided to have her regardless of how young and unsure we were. In Sept 05 he was arrested and spent the next 2 yrs locked...

Sad,But happy!

ok so me and this guy were together for 2 an a half years an we had i wouldnt say alot of problems cus what couple doesnt have problems??Well he cheated on me more than once and nobody ever had to tell me it was just an instinct!! I know it sounds bad but we were...

help us please

6 years ago I was in love with my bf. He went off to the army and we went our separate ways. 2 years ago i find him online and we finish where we left off. He promised me he wouldnt treat me the way he used to. He said i was a good woman and deserved to be treated...

wierd

lately i been havin these crazy dreams about me giving birth to twins and it's like every dream that i has had they have came true. i am not the type of female that have alot of dreams esp. those fairytales because i live in the real world.. but anyways i had a...

Shock

    I was 16 I knew him for years. We kinda grew up together but we were never friends. We went to the same school since 3rd grade. I was in and out of placements always gettin into truble. So i really didn't have time to pay attention to him or...

I wish I was like other girls..

I'm not like many girls who after they have sex they worry about being pregnant. I don't have too worry about any of that, and I wish I did but I don't. Why? Because I can't get pregnant. It's not any fun nor is it easy especially when you are...

I was feeling trapped

At first I was excited and looking forward to the baby, I couldn’t wait to get home to tell my boyfriend. On my way home all I could do was day dream about prams and cots and baby’s first day of crèche, and how we are going to live happily ever after. After telling...

First Kicks!

I always wondered "wow, I wonder what it'll feel like"  and  "how do i know if its actually him kicking and not just butterflies?"WOW!  trust me, you will know when it happens. My little guy is one heck of a nudger. Its mostly...

It’s a Boy!

We were so excited to find out that our first child is going to be a boy. It really hits you when you find out what exactly you're having. I love the idea of having a boy first, because I've always wanted an older brother myself. It just makes me feel...

Ch.4

Tim and I ended up moving to Ohio, to live with his parents and to have a fresh start at a new life together. It's a lot cheaper to live in OH than to live in MD so there were a lot of pluses. But I had to change so much. I still had one more year of school...

Ch.3

We got married! But that wasn't easy. You see, theres two ways we could do that. Since I was 16, In the state of MD you can get married with your parents consent OR if you have a proof of pregnancy. My parents wouldn't sign, so we went to the clinic to get...

Ch.2

I didn't know how exactly to tell them, so I wanted to wait until the right moment. Tim told his mother right away and she was so excited. I remember thinking that I wish my parents would be like his, because I knew they wouldn't have the same reaction.So...

My Story- Ch.1

Ok. So here it goes. I had started a job at sears when I was 16, just to really get away from staying home all day and I met this guy, whom I started to date on Oct. 14th and I fell completely head-over-heels in love with him. I know thats soo cliche, but when it...

he knows her…and life still the same

He left long ago, when i was 2 months along.Never cared, or at least i hid i did care because down here in south Europe we all are so " proud" to be rejected or to be judged by others.I carried on with it...all by myself.I had my daughter Rocio, I had a...