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Is it not going to be pain getting an abortion too???
Most likely more regret coz u know the child isnt even living but adoption u still give the baby a life.If it came down to keeping him or the baby i know what id choose but it is your life and you are the only one that has to live with it.
Maybe you aren’t able to find the right guy because you are afraid of losing someone again? Or in the back of your mind u are worried about Caden and finding someone who will treat you both right.
Yep you won’t be able to make him do anything and honestly you want him to be real about it if he is to meet him.
It would be a hard thing to deal with but id have to prefer him not being there than just being there because he was made.hugs
Ohhh hello! I always wonder how the people i used to see on here are going.
everyone grows like weeds hehe
Congrats on the birth of a boy. How is it going with the 7? I guess u wouldnt notice seeing as there was 6 anyways.
Main thing is he is here and healthy.You guys are doing both a great job. You are very mature than your age.
I love to see ppl like you and help others through some tough times.
I to followed you Autumn and so proud of you..(even though i dont know u personally)
Having kids makes it even more special when u have trouble having them as im trying for a 3rd and its just not happening. I have polycyctic ovaries and im so greatful for the 2 i have now.
id say go for it and go through the pregnancy. If he doesnt wanna stick round then thats his problem. He obviously doesn’t have the respect anyway. You have made the right choice to leave. Maybe your instincts kicked in from there.
Good Luck with it.
My hubby does that one Meg. It it like a wake up flick..hey stop what you’re doing etc.
I haven’t dealt with much naughtyness but i tend to say stop then if that doesnt work i yell and then smack. Yes i do smack. It never hurt me as a kid. There is a difference between bashing and smacking.
At 18mths i noticed my girl taking off her nappy etc. she saw what happens when you sit on the toilet.
So i brought one of those cheap pottys to start off with and stuk her on it..sort of like playtime with it but told her it was for wee wee’s etc.Eventually she ended up using it. So even if they dont use it straight away its there and you tell her to go in the potty or the other option is the seat attachment for the toilet.
welcome back..i wondered how you were going. She has certainly grown up. I remember my 2nd and Isa isnt that far apart. My boy was born 6 May 07.
It goes so fast!She is very pretty. She looks like a very happy little girl.
I’m going to agree with the others again.
You want this baby but you have the added stress of them telling you what to do which shouldnt be the case. Geez your not that young. I had my first at 19 and i didnt feel young.
Anyway i dont think age is the barrier. Its maturity.Men handle things like this in different ways maybe he wasnt thinking straight. sounds to me like he is warming to the idea but just scared about it. Get a scan and listen to the heartbeat and i bet it will change peoples minds.
The other option is Adoption but if you go with Abortion against your will, you will probably end up with depression which will end up with your relationship crumbling so choose wisely.
12 days sounds about time for implantation and i have heard some ppl can actually feel when the egg implants BUT im not a dr so get a test in about 2 weeks i reckon.
i am guessing it wouldnt be because implantation doesnt happen straight away. It takes about 6-12 days or something(look it up) for an egg to implant so could have just been spot bleeding after sex. It sometimes happens
omg omg im so happy you made that decision.. Did your mum fall in love with her??
Lovely name. She’s so cute too.Big congrats
I really don’t know what to say.
My advice if there was no-one else getting their sticky beaks in would be to keep the affection up and maybe he will see that you need him. He still wants you as you’ve said.
How many hours away is it from where you are now(im in AUS-so not sure)It would be nice for you guys to move in together and be a proper family and work on things together.
it is weird to be your first time bleeding after sex.
It happens to me all the time so i know its normal for me but have you maybe checked for a urinal infection or you could grab a test?
OR maybe you guys just went a bit hard this time lolI wouldnt think you were due to only being 2 days after your period. If you are regular with youe monthlies you wouldnt have ovulated so it could be just stress BUT grab a test r go to the drs and get bloods to ease your mind.
thats excellant that the option is still there for you. Your mum seems like she wants this too. Grandparents fall in love once they meet their grandhchild. I hope it works out for you.
[b]i notice this too and i have 2 kids aged 4 and 21mths.
Its almost like flutters or Pops.. it is weird.[/b]1. About how much weight did you gain during your pregnancy?
Both pregnancies i put on 9kilograms2. How old were you when you first got pregnant?
19 with first baby and 21 with second baby3. How long did you wait to tell your parents?
Straight away4. How did you break the news to them?
Dad lived with us at one stage, then by text, Rang my Mum5. For those at school, how did you deal wtih everybody staring at you?
n/a6. Around what month did you begin to “show”?
1st baby i started to show about the 4mths. 2nd baby i started to show about 16/17weeks7. Did you have to change your diet at all? Or increase your calories? How often did you work out?
I ate the same. Just eat more vegies. Take some prenatal vitamins and iron tablets.
I didnt work out but while pregnant you can walk for exercise.8. How long did you have to wait to get a positive test result?
I only did one with both and they were both positive. 1st baby was at about 11weeks. 2nd baby was 8w 6dys.9. Did you ever battle with thoughts of abortion? how did you overcome them?
NOWAY!!! i didn’t have much money and not a big place but we got help and managed fine. A baby needs love and bare materials.10. Any other tips or suggestions?
Don’t stress. Everything will be fine. I honestly couldnt imagine my life without kids now. They bring me so much joy and i would never do what others tell me too.thats god it has been checked out BUT when the dr says rest..it means REST. None of this walking. You don’t want to go into premature labour.
From what i have heard it is very common to want another baby straight away to take away the pain and emotions, but you have to grieve first before thinking about another. The same thing might happen again. Did your parents push you into abortion?
