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kafina18
Participantfirst of all, im shocked you’ve made it this far without telling anyone and without anyone knowing….
secondly you need to tell someone asap, you are supposed to be taking prenatal vitamins all now…..what i would suggest is telling whom ever you feel more comfortable with either your mum or dad, its going to be tough but it needs to be done, you have to get a check up to make sure everything is ok with the baby
kafina18
Participanthey there, im still late took another test this morning and got a BFN which stands for Big Fat Negative……oh yeah im not really scared just confused its either im pregnant or not, the waiting game just sucks
kafina18
Participantthis is so powerful, i mean such a beautiful poem. im so sorry to hear you went through all of that and with all the sadness that you’ve been through came the miracle of your lil boy soon to be here. i wish you all the best of luck and blessings and your family will be in my prayers
kafina18
Participantwell congratulations are in order and no i havent been pregnant although i might be and im 18 so i know we have different stories but i really needed to tell you that this is your baby noone else’s and you need to make this decision no matter what anyone tells and you need to know that there are teens out there that has done this and im not saying its going to be easy but you need to be strong for you and especially you’re unborn child.
oh yeah and these are the times when your true friends stick close to you, so i really hope that you have at least 1 friend thats really close to you that you can trust and if you can google and see if you find a crisis pregnancy centre near you that will help you along would be nice too. stay strong and keep your head up high:)kafina18
Participantim so sorry to hear the pain that you’re going through right now and please dont blame yourself. drs can be so ridiculous sometimes. your son seems like a true fighter so i know he’ll get out of this safe and healthy.
your son is in my prayers please stay strong he needs you to be strong for him, hang in therekafina18
Participantok so let me start off by saying congrats and babies are a blessing not a curse and i really wish you would keep it cause it might seem like things are going to be bad if you have a baby but the guilt of having an abortion is so much worse, i mean i dotn know from experience but i’ve read the stories of some girls on here, but its your decision and hopefully with alot of research you would do whats best for you.
ok so i know how it feels to know in the back of your mind that you wouldnt have support from anyone no matter how you try to explain it but i just want you to know im here an di know that other girls are here anytime you feel like you’re going to explode from all the stress. i dont know much about canada but maybe you could google crisis pregnancy centre or see if there is a place near you where you can go in and talk to someone privately, have you been to the dr as yet, some are not so nice so i hope you find a very kind and thoughtful one. and things will get hard but dont give up.
maybe you could find a part-time job, noones saying that you cant finish school if you have a baby i know alot of people who have finished and have their beautiful babies with them, i mean it might not be easy and this is the time when you find out who you’re true friends are but dont study it anh with the situation with your mum maybe she might get upset but thats just how some parents are, yes she will be disappointed but if you tell her your plan on what you want to do maybe after some time by herself she will see how you really want this to work out and be there for you no matter what.
no matter what you decide im here for you when you need to talk, oh yeah please go to the dr ASAP incase anything is wrong and keep us updated laterz:)
kafina18
Participantok so awhile back i thought i had this too i went searching for info and i found this site:
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/pcosinfo.html
if you need anymore info just google itkafina18
Participantwell i could be that you’re pregnant but maybe you should wait until your period comes and dont stress or study that you might be pregnant cause that could cause your period to be late. and even if your late wait at least a week after being late to take a test. good luck!!:)
kafina18
Participanthey i just wanted to say congratulations on your lil girl and ava and mia are really beautiful names:)
kafina18
Participantok so i just had to be the first to say congrats on your lil boy, im so happy for you 😉
kafina18
Participantwell sometime this week, still not sure although i know that i should get a HPT ASAP, i’m kinda stalling cause i’m getting frustrated looking for a job:unsure:
kafina18
Participanthey congrats they’re going to be two gorgeous baby girls:woohoo:
kafina18
Participanthey i just wanted to say congratulations and i wish you all the best with this pregnancy:)
kafina18
Participantwell i’m too scared to get tested but from the pregnancy calender i’m due 16th february 2009 🙂
kafina18
Participantok but i havent taken a test as yet so i dont know if i’m pregnant but if i am, i will be 4 weeks on 20/06 but thats all i know for now. i’m planning on taking a test but i’m very nervous of what the results might be so i’m kinda stalling
kafina18
Participanthey well i would suggest you wait another week then take another test, caus eif you think about it too much the stress can cause your period to be late but for sure wait a week then take it
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Participanthey well from what you’ve said you could be, it must be too early that’s why the test said negative but you should get a blood test done to know seeing that not all HPT are accurate
kafina18
Participantwell hi i’m 17 and might be pregnant and seeing that you know you are i kind of know how you feel i mean, DONT STRESS OUT, been there done that and got pills for stress you just really need to relax give yourself some time to really think this through and come clean to your mum. mums are sometimes the hardest to get through, i should know my mum is the same, but you could write her a letter or sit her down nad be very mature about the situation, although she would be disappointed, she’ll just need some time to fully gasp the situation and please remember a child is a blessing not a curse
kafina18
Participanthey well the funny thing is i had a feeling 3 days after having unprotected sex and well i did a test 2 weeks before i was surposed to have my period but it was negative then i was 3 days late and not the same period, well have i had my period all my symptoms just stopped so i thought i had a miscarriage but thinking about it now it was only stress but now my lower back hurts sometimes and i not slim so you really wouldnt tell if i was pregnant if i began to show but i feel something hard and these days i feel extra heavy so i’ll take another test like 2 weeks later just to be sure but i really want a child although i know everyone will disagree. sorry for giving you my story but what i’m trying to say is if i’m pregnant i knew from the beginning, and everyone’s different so just wait about 2 more weeks then take a test, oh yeah about your ex if you are pregnant see him leaving from the beginning as kind of like a good thing cause better he leaves before so you can become independent than leave when you’ve already gotten use to him being there. keep me updated:)
kafina18
Participantokay well the story is about me and well the situation is really weird cause i might leave and go live with my mum far away and if i do get pregnant it would be better for the child to have my last name. but then again i’m not trying to get pregnant, i just wanted to know what some women would do in this situation. but thanks for the advice anyways
kafina18
Participanthey well my story is something like yours, just i didnt tell my parents, they found out and well they have high expectations and i now joined a college, but i’m not sure if i’m pregnant but i took a test but it said negative. but after the doctor gave me a tablet to take because of my headaches and my sleepless nights, i’m not getting any of my symptoms but i just feel heavier, so i’m waiting to see if i miss or not. laterz
kafina18
Participanthey well my story is something like yours, just i didnt tell my parents, they found out and well they have high expectations and i now joined a college, but i’m not sure if i’m pregnant but i took a test but it said negative. but after the doctor gave me a tablet to take because of my headaches and my sleepless nights, i’m not getting any of my symptoms but i just feel heavier, so i’m waiting to see if i miss or not. laterz
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