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No you shouldn’t feel bad hun, I am 16 and I am also very excited. People act like anyone under 20 should look upon pregnancy as this horrile demeaning thing, when really it is the most beautiful thing a person can do. it makes me so happy that you are enjoying and making the best of your pregnancy:) You are an inspiration for all girls to Stand Up and not be ashamed. Just make sure to take your prenatals and everything will be fine:) Take care xox
-EnyaHey hun, i remember reading in a birth control pamphlet once that the change of a woman becoming pregnant if no “protection” is used is about 80%. I would suggest waiting 10-14days then taking a test, then again if you miss your expected period. If you are really concerned you could go get a blood test, they are usually the most accurate, best of luck email me if you wanna talk!
-Enya <3hey hun,
There is a chance you could be preggo, and although you might not “feel pregnant” at the moment i wouldn’t exclude the possibility that you are. On the other hand, don’t stress too much as it may cause you to see symptoms that you dont really have. Maybe wait a week or so then take a test? Or go in for some blood work?
Best of luck
-EnyaYour story is proof that becoming pregnant at a young age does not mean your “life is over”. You are a true success story. Take care hun
-Enya <3Hey hun
I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. I myself have never had an abortion but I cannot begin to imagine the pain and guilt which comes with the decision. Please try not to be too hard on yourself, in time you will be able to accept what has happened and carry on with life. The pain will never go away but it will get easier. Just hang in there.. Maybe talk to a counsellor/church pastor(sp?) in the area if you need some help dealing with the decision. Please take care hun and keep us updated <3
-Enya
I think that because the woman is the one carrying the child to term that she should have the final say when it comes to termination. I don’t think that the man should be able to end a life once it’s begun because ultimately the woman is the one who has to live with the consequences of abortion.
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Hey hun PLEASE reconsider getting an abortion. it’s not worth it, check out this site if u dont believe me, aboriton is barbaric.
http://www.abortionincanada.ca/methods/index.html
please try to calm down, think about this. if you get an aboriton, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Even putting the baby up for adoption would be better. it’s not just a clump of cells, its a BABY, human life in the making. That child will grow up to have likes and dislikes and opinions and favourite colours.. I mean I know you are young, i mean hell im only 16, but please, try to think of how getting an aboriton would haunt you for the rest of your life.
I wish the best for you, keep us updated.
-Enya <3Please hun,:( whatever you do, do not get an abortion. They are so barbaric and cruel. Check out this site if you dont believe me.
http://www.abortionincanada.ca/methods/index.html
Every woman who’s had an abortion regrets it. And I mean, you say you come from a christian family, so im sure they would respect your decision to keep the baby instead of killing it right? Just take things one step at a time love. THhy will be mad at first but will soon get over it. I wish the best for you, keep us updated.
-Enya <3hey hun, just try to relax.
I would suggest taking another test, maybe wait a couple days. Or, go see your family doctor and they will administer one for you. Best of luck, just take things one step at a time.
-Enya <3Hey Steph
Im so sorry to hear about your mom being so unsupportive, but Im glad that you are keeping the baby:) Maybe try talking to someone you trust, is there a Nurse or counsellor at your Uni you could talk to? Things will be tough but just try and take this one day at a time. Im sure that your mom will come around, maybe she just needs time? And as for your dad, I would sugest just telling him upfront and expressing your concerns.. maybe he will appreciate the honesty? Idk, but I wish the best for both of you. Keep us updated! <3
-EnyaOh Hun, I am so, so sorry. 🙁 You will be in my prayers, I wish the best for you, please take care
-Enyahey hun 🙁 the best advice i can give you is to maybe wait a week or so and then take another test.. if you are pegnant then maybe tell someone you trust about it, since abortion is not an option you want to choose. I hope things work out for you, keep us updated!
Im so proud of you for deciding to keep your baby 🙂 Things will be tough but you will make it. There are plenty of single mom’s with children who lead happy lives. My best of luck to you hun. Keep us updated!
