Real Girls, Real Stories

Find yourself feeling alone, scared? Read stories of other women who have been there. Need someone to talk to? Contact Becky!

new beginnings with my son

A Story of Hope, Courage, and New Beginnings

Greetings from South Africa: A story received from one of our affiliated pregnancy centres touched me so much that I wanted to share it with you, as it captures the essence of hope and love that we strive to nurture in our community.

Read More

lesson about babys life

Lesson About Her Unborn Baby’s Life

A pregnant girl not ready for parenthood, struggles to reconcile that her life will change forever. She resorts to ending her pregnancy. Her mother makes one last desperate plead to save the unborn baby's life.

Read More

I'm pregnant

I’m Pregnant Conversation with my Parents

Telling your parents "I'm pregnant" can be a challenging conversation but approaching it with preparation can make it easier. Here are some points to help you have the conversation. StandUpGirl has resources to guide your pregnancy journey.

Read More

More Real Stories

Adopted A Half-Dozen Sisters

When Lacey Dunkin first thought about becoming a mother, she saw one thing in her future: boys. “It wasn’t that I believed I could only bond with a...

read more

I Went Through With It

Dear Becky, On the 18th of August I found out that I was 4-5 weeks pregnant. The father of my baby was my best friend and was already in a...

read more

I Was a Party Girl

I had a abortion when i was 17 in 2016 . i dropped out of high school my senior year . i was a "party girl" i guess you would day . i started dating...

read more

Single Teen Mom

I was a freshman in high school when I dated a guy who graduated 2 years ago. I Was Only 16 and he was 19. Before we started dating, he would talk...

read more

I Had A Secret Abortion At 18

Those who know me already or read my blog, know I had a secret abortion at age 18. But for those of you who don’t know me, let me give you a little...

read more

I am a birth mother.

Hello, everyone. I found this site and I wanted to share my story just in case it might be of use to someone. I was a "victim" of an unexpected...

read more

Amazing Video

This is such a great video. It takes you through conception to birth and is definitely worth a watch!

read more

30 Weeks.

I'm a junior in high school and Well, it's 30 weeks and I'm about ready to *pop!* I just want to meet my baby boy already. He's always moving and...

read more

My Story

I'm 15 years old.  I met my boyfriend (16 years old) at a party a few years ago.  We've been together ever since.  I became sexually active about a...

read more

Could I be pregnant ?

I'm a junior in High School. Me and my ex were dating 1 year and 2 months before we broke  up recently because I told him I might be pregnant. I'm...

read more

Don’t know where I stand…

I'm so new to this that I'm not even sure if I'm doing this right haha. I need some advice. I have a feeling that I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure if...

read more

Baby Cravings

I had my baby when I was young. We didn't wait until we had careers, education, a house, two cars, and a nursery painted pink or blue. We wanted to...

read more

Sacrificial Love

“I’m not going to kill a healthy baby because I’m sick.”  Ashley Bridges, a courageous 24-year-old woman, decided to prolong receiving treatment for...

read more

Could I be pregnant?

I had got the depo shot twice this year. The second time I got it, I was late for it. I can't remember when I was supposed to back. So in other...

read more

How I Ended My Future

When I was 8 years old, my uncle started abusing me. At the time, I was scared, vulnerable, and confused. I never knew quite what was happening. I...

read more

Creating a Baby Nursery

Creating a Baby Nursery Creating a baby nursery seems simple, and therefore is left for the last minute before the baby arrives.  However, if...

read more

If You Had Told Me

If anyone had told me three years ago that, in 2013, I would miscarry with my first child, then have another pregnancy scare, become engaged, and...

read more

What To Do??

I just don't know what to do. I just turned 18 and I had a baby 2 months ago. I just found out that I am 4 weeks pregnant.  My boyfriend of 3 years...

read more
contact Becky
Stand Up Guy Zone
standupgirl free video lessons on child birth and parenting