lissy012207

I don’t believe in abortion, BUT, its understandable that you panicked and wasnt sure what to do. I’m not exactly sure how you feel or what your going through b/c I’m 32 weeks prego now, but i would definitly seek professional help and talk to someone. I’ve been in counseling for multiple things in my past and I might persue a career in it and it really does help. maybe you can be put on anti-depressants. I got put on them in 1999 when my cousin died in my arms and I just stopped taking them b/c of the pregnancy. They really do help. goodluck

[color=#008000][color=#008000]Dont let anyone tell you what to do. I was in a car accident last February and now I cant lift my left arm. i can only move my fingers and wrist. I have to get 2 surgeries to fix it and theres an 85% chance that the movement wont come back. On May 30th, I was scheduled to have my surgery. At this time, the chances of it coming back were 90%. I was waiting for the doctor and then he came in and told me that I couldnt get the surgery until after my baby was born. I was like, "WHAT BABY?!" and he told me i was pregnant. So if i aborted the baby, i could move my arm. I chose to keep my baby and now the surgery probably wont work. We’re going to TRY it when the babys born. So, I am 17, I cant use my left arm, I have no help other than my fiance who just lost his job, I dont talk to ANY of my old friends. I have one friend who stayed loyal to me, I’m 17 and hes 22 so he cant even sign the birth certificate till im 18 next october. I had people telling me to get an abortion so i can move my arm again but i would never kill my innocent child… even for my own arm.. I’m not telling you what to do. I’m just telling you that if i can do it, then you can do it and dont let ANYONE try to talk you out of being a mother. The first time you feel the baby kick, you will understand why you kept it.
if you need anything, email me. Im not one to judge.

-LiSsY-[/color]

Eh.. It depends on which test you got. if it was a cheap test from the dollar tree then maybe but most tests are accurate. Hey, she got her period on my bday :-p lol anyway, the tests are unlikely but theyre there. maybe she peed too much or too little. I am 30 weeks prego now but last year i had a scare and i had a false positive b/c i didnt pee enough. Id get another test or just go to the doctors or the free clinic and get one

Look, its not like you knew. It’s not your fault. It happens. Your not selfish. You gave your life to your little boy and im sure that he will understand when he gets older. Email me if you need to talk.

I just turned 17. I found out I was prego when I was 7 weeks along. The dad is still in my life and I love him to death. I have to raise the baby using one arm thanks to a car accident that I was in. I’d tell your parents asap. You need OBGYN appts and most of the time, parents that you think will flip out will be supportive of you. i’m lucky that I have the babys dad/my fiance to help me though all of this but even if he wasnt there, i still would have the child. You can get child support, WIC, Cash Assistance, etc

If your bleeding heavily then Id run to the doctor. But if its just light, spotting, then i’d just call the doctor

Fer real. I turned 17 today and im 28 weeks prego on monday. Your due 11 days before me lol :-p were awesome hahaha seems like things are finally workin out for both of us

I hate to say it, but youre probably gonna have to wait a week and see. Or you could get a pee test but im sure you already know that. the only way to be 100% sure is to go to the OBGYN and get bloodwork. Sometimes your hormone level is high enough to be pregnant but not high enough for a pee test to read. thats what my OB told me. I wish you luck on concieving. That must be terrible to not be able to conceive. Mine was unexpected. I’m only 17.

id just get a prego test and find out. It may be b/c of your period or you could possibly be pregnant.

Listen, I tell my story to everyone but i really want you to listen to me. I’m turning 17 on October 27th. I got pregnant in April. i was in a bad car accident in february and i cant move my left arm. I cant lift it or anything. I can only move my fingers and wrist. The day i went to get my surgery, the dr told me i was pregnant. The dad is 22. I have to try to get around the system so he can sign the birth certificate and i have to be a 17 year old mother, raising a child with ONE arm. Most people can barely raise a kid with two arms. I havent talked to any of my family besides my mom in 5 months when i found out i was pregnant. I still kept the baby. If i can do it, then you can do it. Please dont kill an innocent child. Theres always adoption.

you have to tell them. If youre a teen living in their home, then definitly tell them. You need to go to the OBGYN and get all these tests and you have to watch your diet, etc..plus theyll eventually find out anyway when you start to show. The sooner you tell them the better

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I’m 16, gonna be 17 next week 🙂 and my fiance is 22. I thought my mom would kill me and him. I told her that he was 22 and not 19 when we found out i was prego. She was KINDA upset at first. but now he lives with me, and after the babys born in january, we’re going to get a place. I really thought my mom would send him to jail. She is actually so supportive of it. She says "if i send him to jail, then the baby wont have a dad." and she likes him now that she knows him. He just got off paroll and he now has to serve 5 years of probation. So, his family thinks im 18 😉 b/c if they find out that im just turning 17, then he could go back to jail. I’m talking to an attorney and shes finding out for me if he can go to jail considering it WAS consential. Since, i was 16 at the time and not younger, then i should be able to get around the whole jail thing if anyone finds out. So, message me or sign my guest book so I can get ahold of you easier and when I find out about it, I’ll let you know 🙂