stagitory rape… :/

Depending on what state you live in, there are ages of consent. I can relate to your problem because I’m 15 and my boyfriend is 20. So I’ve done a little research. Just discuss the situation with your parents and how sending him to jail won’t help anyone. It will have a negative impact on everyone including them. Hopefully they will be understanding and feelings won’t get in the way of whats best for the baby.

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I’m 16, gonna be 17 next week 🙂 and my fiance is 22. I thought my mom would kill me and him. I told her that he was 22 and not 19 when we found out i was prego. She was KINDA upset at first. but now he lives with me, and after the babys born in january, we’re going to get a place. I really thought my mom would send him to jail. She is actually so supportive of it. She says "if i send him to jail, then the baby wont have a dad." and she likes him now that she knows him. He just got off paroll and he now has to serve 5 years of probation. So, his family thinks im 18 😉 b/c if they find out that im just turning 17, then he could go back to jail. I’m talking to an attorney and shes finding out for me if he can go to jail considering it WAS consential. Since, i was 16 at the time and not younger, then i should be able to get around the whole jail thing if anyone finds out. So, message me or sign my guest book so I can get ahold of you easier and when I find out about it, I’ll let you know 🙂

Well, you say it was consentual but thats why they call it statitory rape…its consentual w/ an adult & a minor. Giving up your baby should be out of the question too, because when you see that baby believe me you will want it. Even if you dont see it…you will want it eventually! I think you just need to keep it and tell your parents. They might not even turn him in because they would want the best for the baby & for your BF to be there for the baby. I hope everything works out for you sweetie 😉

stagetory rape is a very serious thing and even if you dont think you are a victem of it you are. you may not feel victemized but by allowing a man who was already in kindergarten when you were born to have casual sex with you is a big thing. My brother is always going after "little girls" he says that they are old enough to make the decision for themselves which may be true but I would always tell him that he is the adult and the resposible party and he should have more respect for these young girls. Please have more respect for your body I am 25 and I let guys take advantage of me for years and it caused so much emotional damage. it doesnt hurt at the time when you are having fun but after it happens over and over again you feel empty used and worthless. Also if you end up loving an older man especially with kids think about their life and how having sex with you could classify them as a sex offender for life and the harm their families will go through for it. this guy could loose his daughter over being tagged as an offender. these are big things to think about. I pray that your pregnancy will go well and that you find a good way to tell your parents. and please if they press charges on this guy …let them be your parents and let them protect you just as you would this little baby you are having 🙂 take care