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That was a great birth story to read 🙂 I guess you just know when labour is the REAL thing. Your instincts just kick in.
i agree with Alexanders Mummy 🙂
Having a child isnt all about materialism, its love. Hey not every child has to have everything out there, a baby can sleep in a drawer if you had to, i was given that advice if i didnt have anything and that was from an old lady. If the baby has the bare essentials ur sweet.
So many people told me babies cost alot of money- yeah right they do! thats only if you spoil ur kidYep, Could be baby moving down into the right position too. I got pain in my privates it almost felt like the baby was pushing down to get out..Ouch! Maybe try giving your belly some massages too and lay down if you can manage 🙂
I have heard that pregnancies can still happen even when your tubes are tied so Do a test just to ease your mind and so you can work out what to do next if you are..
ahhh i got this with my second pregnancy.
Was meant to have 4hrs of antibiotics before birth so they told me as soon as labour starts, come in to the hospital WELL i had my baby at home because of his quick arrival, he didn’t catch it but kept an eye on him with monitoring his temps etc. I read up on it when they said i tested positive and it did say WORST case it can cause death BUT thats the very worst, its like when you get the epidural they ‘have; to tell you that it can paralyse(sp) you.
Don’t stress about it and the drs know what they are doing 🙂First off i say. Anyone else’s opinion, if its bad let it fly out the window so to speak. This is YOUR life, you have made your decision. Keep schooling until you cant do it anymore or can u still keep doing it althrough pregnancy?
Stop stressing, i know it may be hard but it wont do anyone any good. I reckon just go with the flow and let things happen naturally. There is so many ppl out there that become pregnant and worry too much about having a baby, and they go on to be just fine even if they arent rich. Its the LOVE that really counts and you are showing it already by keeping this baby:) Good luck with the rest of the pregnancyYou have brought up one child so you CAN do this again. You said its hard but very rewarding. Would you want to be in a position to tell your son when he is older that he could have had a little sibling, not to mention what sort of emotional impact its going to have on ur life if you do abort. I’ve heard from girls saying that they are pregnant and financially they cant do it BUT they do and its not as hard as it seems honestly.
I hope you figure out what u want and dont make a mistake on ur behalfFor a first time mother the thought of pain in labour is a scary thought. Because you are small it shouldn’t matter, your body will accommodate if you get what i mean.
My first birth i was in pain and then had the epidural and felt nothing, yeah it was great when the pain went but i ddnt feel the birth which i regret now.
My son was born at home by accident which meant i didnt have anything and the pain that i thought was the worst was the burning sensation but i guess everyone is different. Try not to think of that now, you still have ages to go and enjoy the pregnancylittle nikki- yep thats true. I think you only ovulate for 3 days and u have to be ovulating to get pregnant. If you know your cycle WELL then you can actually use the guide as contraception. So only 3 days a month you can get pregnant, not much is it.
stress is not good for you or the baby it increase the heart beat f the baby i think. Read up abit on it. I’ve also heard that when you stress the baby gets it too and a friend of ours about 40+ yo when she had her baby and grew up she asked her if she stressed alot when she was pregnant coz she sensed something etc and it was true!
kids will know when they are ready, i still have the odd occassion where she see;s me putting a nappy on Jordan and she gets a nappy and i tell her she is a big girl and doesnt need a nappy during the day
Skye is getting a playdoh creative table.
Jordan will be 7mths so he is just getting a fisher price noahs ark train that sings and lights up etcare you having any diff symptoms? is ur period usually on time?
If aunty flow hasnt shown up, wait another few days i reckon do a test just to ease ur mindthat is exactly right. Girls are told how hard is it to look after a baby and its going to wreck ur life..all the negative things but when u weigh up the positives and negatves the positives outweight the neg ALOT!! anyone can do it, you’ve just gotta put the work into it, they it is all worth it.
Congrats on the birth and she is absolutely gorgeous…
its so hard watching ur baby in pain. My daughter had big problems with poops. I tried prune juice which didnt work, boiled water and sugar, also didnt work and coloxyl drops which went into the bottle and they kind of helped after doubling the dosage. I cried once watching her. pushing the knees into the chest does work a little. I hope you get it sorted soon
my daughter is nearly 3 and still has her bottle at night and she is the same if she doesnt have bottle and dummy she wont go to sleep so i figure if its what keeps them secure then let it be, no-one else see’s what goes on at night time. It during the day you worry about it.
Just reading about it started after she went to Daddys house it happened so its obviously stemmed from there. I say ask if he had any problems with her. If it was for attention she would be crying not screaming. Hopefully it gets sorted out.
My Babies 1st & What age!!
SKYE- 6th Feb 2005
Slept Through The Night- 2mths
Held Bottle- 4mths
Rolled Over- about 3 mths
Sat Up Alone- She wat late about 7/8mths
Crawled- cnt remember im thinking about 7/8mths
First Step- walking around furniture at 8mths
First Word- 7mths dada then didnt speak again for ages
Laughed- about the 5/6wk
Stood Up- around furniture 8mths unattended nearly 12mthsJORDAN-7th May 2007
Slept Through The Night- 3mths
Held Bottle- 4mths
Rolled Over- 3mths
Sat Up Alone- Still cant but nearly
Crawled- Nearly getting there another few wks he will be so 6mths
First Step- n/a
First Word- n/a
Laughed- about 6wks
Stood Up- n/aive never heard of that show thing before. If it was a concern im sure the drs would have raised it with you b4. Dont stress, its amazing what ur body is capable of doing.
I waited about a wk after a stopped bleeding. It was hubbys idea coz he didnt want to hurt me.
I think the first time it was 5wks and the 2nd time it was about 3wks but im not 100% sure. It does feel weird waiting all that time, i noticed ive lost alot of muscle down there but you get that after having kids but some ppl are lucky and dnt notice the tightness going. Sorry if its too much info but best to describe it so you get an idea.
Your first time again after birth just go gentle.
