Jonluver

Your life is only just beginning!!! Being a mothers is the best and most rewarding experince ever!!! I’m not gonna lie, money can get tight sometimes but you’ll get by. Plus at your baby shower you’ll get almost everythig you need, and i’m sure your chruch will help you.
It gets crazy sometimes. Like when your trying to brush your teeth or do the dishes or trying to grap something to eat and your baby won’t stop crying. but when you see your baby smile and giggle your heart melts and makes everything worth it. I love waking up every morning to her smiley face. I love knowing that at the end of hectic day i can come home to her and none of that stuff matters. She could care less about what brand of clothes she’s wearing or what her swing looks like. all that she wants is love attention and thats all that matters, not what you buy her (or him in your case. which ever you have)

good luck!! i’m sure you’ll do great!!

You can probably get through labor without it but when it comes time to push you’ll be compeltly drained! Thats what happened to my sisters best friend.
she was so exusted when came time to push that she couldn’t and ended up with an emergency csection!
i got the epidural ASAP!! As soon as i got to my room they ordered my epidural. I slept through my whole labor!!! i pushed her out under an hour. I wasn;t tired afterwards and spent the whole day bonding with her. I was so alert during delivery i got to pull her out myself! i wouldn’t have changed it for the world! It was so amazing! I will defintly be getting it next time. Did i say "next time?" :blink: lol!!!

I had horrible morning sickness, Actually it was all day sickness. I vomited like 7 times a day. I had to go to the hopital twice to get an iv. I tore my esphogus (sp?) three times from throwing up so much. And my stomach swelld shut because i became so irratted. My doctor finally gave a prescription for Zofran. That was a life saver!!! Once i started taking that i only threw once a day! and by 20 weeks i felt fine.

no! if your on the pill and taking it regualry you have less than .5% chance of getting pregnant. And seeing as how he pulled out, i doubt it. Although that should not be used as a form of birth controll!!!!

i’m so sorry you had to go through this. And yes someone cares. I care. We all care here!
That was so wrong for your mother to push you into that.
If you ever need to talk i’m here. Just reply to this post (it goes to my email).

not being able to go your prom is not a reason to have abortion!
You can still go. i was still gonna go to my senior ball when i was pregnant but i had miscarriage.
And if you didn’t go that just one of the sacrifes you make for your child.
But they give so much love back to you it’s all worth it. I think you need to tell someone. Talk to someone about this. Have some one take you to the doctors to find out for sure.
If you need to talk i’m here.

Please don’t have an abortion. I know excatly what you are going through.
The first time i got pregnant i was only 17 and still in high school. I freaked out!! When my mom found out she flipped out and told me i was going to have an abortion. i fought with her everyday about. Well i ended up having a miscarriage. It was the worst this i have ever gone through.
I’m 19 now and 9 months pregnant! Due an day. When my mom first found out she flipped out again. I was so scared of my family. I wouldn’t go anywhere that anyone in my family was. I thought they were gonna hate me.
i was sooo scared!! They didn’t react as bad as i thought they would. Actually my sister was the worst. She ignored me and we ended up getting into a huge fight. I spent a lot of nights crying about it. But now my sister and i are closer then we have ever been.
I can’t even begin to describe to you how i feel whenever she moves (it’s a girl by the way). It’s so amazing!! I can’t love her so much!! And the first time i saw her on the u/s was soooo wonderful. I started crying! I can’t wait to see her and hold her.
I’m not saying that it will be easy. i had horrible morning sickness. i was hospitalized twice because of it. I was put on bedrest early in my pregnancy for bleeding (for a month). Then at 26 weeks i went into preterm labor. i was again but on bedrest and meds. My fiancee has to pay ALL the bills!!
But it’s all worth it!!
Hopefully this weekend i will get to met my precious baby girl!!

If you just stopped taking the pill in the middle of a pack it screws up your hormones. That can delay your period.

i know what you mean. i’m 5 months know and sometimes it’s so bad i think my water broke!! lol!! you should read jenny macarthy’s book "Belly Laughs" she talks about that in there. Try wearing panty liners, it’ll save your panties.

pregnancy is nothing to be embarrsed about!!!! on that note most of the girls here (with a few exceptions) didn’t plan on getting pregnant. The condom broke, they forgot to take their pill, or just just plan got caught up in the moment. There are so many emotions these young women go through. At first they’re scared. Who wouldn’t be? but after a while when you actually think about it’s so exciting. And feeling your baby kick is the one of the best feeling in the world! Having a baby is best gift in the world. And i think that all the girls on here are heros. They took a situation that wasn’t in their favor and turned it around. They didn;t take the cowards way out. They stood up and fought for their childern. That is defintly something to be PROUD of!! They chose life!! They are brave. THey took on a challenge and concorded it! Their lives now have meaning to them!!!!