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The Past My Story

This all started a little over three years ago. I was sixteen, a virgin and - quite frankly - sick of it. I was always the party girl who was labeled as a "cock tease" and I constantly "led lads on". Well, one day I decided that I wanted to have sex...and I did. In my...

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12 Years Old – My story

My story starts when I was 11. I was being raped by someone I knew. The day after I turned 12 I found out I was about 6 1/2 months pregnant. I was so scared I didn't know what to do. They had to tell my father he was so sad. We hid it from my mother as long as we...

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Whose Is It?

I found out I was pregnant when I was 19 years old. I was in love with the guy called Sam, and we had an argument. I met this really nice guy, Israel. He was really sympathetic about what had happened, and we started meeting up quite a lot. Then, after five months, he...

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Pregnant & Nervous

Hi. I'm 17. And a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. I'm nervous, I don't know how to tell my mom. I'm scared of how she will react. And the money isn't the best right now. I don't want her to hate me, we have problems anyways. I am just so scared to tell her...

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My Abortion Story at 17

I was 17, and I was a vulnerable girl thinking that she needed a boyfriend. So I was with the wrong boy. Very immature and really only after one thing. Sex. I wasn’t ready. I always thought that I would save my virginity for my wedding night. But I caved and consented...

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My Sister Had an Abortion

Hi my sister had an abortion when she was around 15 or 16 and I have no one I talk to. The baby wasn't growing right and likely wouldn't survive. My friend found out somehow and told my other friend. I am still not allowed to talk to them about it even thought they...

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Scary Beginning Great Ending

Our daughter was a junior in high school when she told us she was pregnant. You already know about all the scary stuff so I won’t dwell on that. I will say the biological father (17) & his parents were a problem, then gone, then back but not in a good way, then...

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Adopted A Half-Dozen Sisters

When Lacey Dunkin first thought about becoming a mother, she saw one thing in her future: boys. “It wasn’t that I believed I could only bond with a son—when I was daydreaming about having a family, I just saw myself with a boy,” says Dunkin, 32, of Fresno, California....

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I Went Through With It

Dear Becky, On the 18th of August I found out that I was 4-5 weeks pregnant. The father of my baby was my best friend and was already in a relationship with another girl, who is also pregnant and due in September. After we found out, I immediately told my parents...

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I Was a Party Girl

I had a abortion when i was 17 in 2016 . i dropped out of high school my senior year . i was a "party girl" i guess you would day . i started dating this guy who sold pot and he became controlling and mentally and verbally abusive. i wasn't allowed to talk to my...

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Single Teen Mom

I was a freshman in high school when i dated a guy who graduated 2 years ago. I Was Only 16 and he was 19. Before we started dating he would talk to me nice and treat me like a princess. Months passed and i started liking him more then a friend. One time when we were...

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The Miracle of Five Prayers and Two Brothers

Posted to my Facebook page on November 21st... November is National Adoption Month and today is National Adoption Day. In 1976, Massachusetts Governor Michael Dukakis announced an Adoption Week in his state to promote awareness of the need for adoptive families for...

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Beautiful Quote

I just wanted to share a quote by Pope John Paul II: "The human person is a good towards which the only proper attitude is love" I find this so beautiful, and I hope you do to.

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I Had A Secret Abortion At 18

Those who know me already or read my blog, know I had a secret abortion at age 18. But for those of you who don’t know me, let me give you a little background. I became a Christian as a young child. I loved Jesus and grew up in Christian school. My dad is a pastor and...

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I am a birth mother.

Hello, everyone. I found this site and I wanted to share my story just in case it might be of use to someone. I was a "victim" of an unexpected pregnancy, but my situation was quite a bit different. I'll tell you why. I was in a terrible marriage. My husband was...

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30 Weeks.

I'm a jr in high school and Well its 30 weeks and I'm about ready to *pop!* I just want meet my baby boy already. He's always moving and has the hiccups. I just wanna hear him laugh and see his eyes. As for high school.. well I'm struggling. I only have 9 days left...

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My Story

My name is Lyndsey and I'm 15 years old.  I met my boyfriend Braxton (16 years old) at a party a few years ago.  We've been together ever since.  I became sexually active about a month ago.   We used protection and made sure we were as careful as possible. I'm...

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Could I be pregnant ?

I'm a junior in High School. Me and my ex were dating 1 year and 2 months before we broke  up recently because i told him i might be pregnant. I'm 16 and will turn 17 next month and he's 19 and will turn 20 in August. He has changed his number and blocked me from...

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Don’t know where I stand…

I'm so new to this that I'm not even sure if I'm doing this right haha. I need some advice. I have a feeling that I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure if I really am or if it's all in my head. There have been a few times where I've thought I was pregnant, but I wasn't. Now...

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Baby Cravings

I had my baby when I was young. Liam and I didn't wait until we had careers, education, a house, two cars, and a nursery painted pink or blue. We wanted to be generous to life and accept whatever happened with adventurous spirits. Well, we got what we wanted! Nine...

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Sacrificial Love

“I’m not going to kill a healthy baby because I’m sick.”  Ashley Bridges, a courageous 24-year-old woman, decided to prolong receiving treatment for bone cancer when she found out she was ten weeks pregnant.  The decision to prolong treatment most likely will mean...

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It Haunted Me All Of My Life

Recently Nicki Minaj spoke publicly about having an abortion when she was in high school.  She describes her abortion experience by saying, it has “haunted me all my life.”  She says that when she found out she was pregnant, she felt that she “was going to die” and it...

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Could I be pregnant?

I had got the depo shot twice this year. The second time I got it, I was late for it. I can't remember when I was suppose to back in get so in other words Im late for my depo shot a month or more. I've had spotting & I've also had lightish spotting with like I'm...

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How I Ended My Future

When i was 8 years old, my uncle started abusing me. At the time i was scared, vulnerable and confused. I never knew quite what was happening. I mean what 8 year old girl would understand what was happening. As i grew up i started to realize what was happening to me....

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I Only Hope To Help Others With My Story

At 19 I became pregnant by someone I had only known for 3 months or so… When I told him he automatically said that I should get an abortion. That we weren’t ready and we were too young. Abortion for me had never been an option. I had been against it for myself and...

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Creating a Baby Nursery

Creating a Baby Nursery Creating a baby nursery seems simple, and therefore is left for the last minute before the baby arrives.  However, if parents want their baby nursery to be a cozy place that they can retreat to with their little one, they should prepare their...

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If You Had Told Me

If anyone had told me three years ago that in 2013 I would miscarry with my first child, then have another pregnancy scare, become engaged and then single. I wouldn't have believed you. If you had told me that a month after the year anniversary of my miscarriage that...

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What To Do??

I just dont know what to do. I just turned 18 and i had a baby 2 months ago. I just found out that i am 4 weeks pregnant.  My boyfriend of 3 years is very supportive and keeps telling me everything is going to be ok but i just cant believe him. Its hard enough taking...

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Pregnant and Perks

Hey I'm Mariaih and i'm 17 and pregnant. I don't really have a huge story right now ha ha because my baby isn't here yet but i'm pretty much always at home resting and taking care of myself for my baby because my boyfriend and my family want me too. My boyfriend is...

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Pregnancy Blues

I'm a teen expecting my first baby in a few short weeks. I have been experiencing a few issues with my boyfriend and i don't know if its a normal things that everyone goes through. i have felt my emotions going crazy as it is really easy for something to tip me off...

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Being 18 and Pregnant

Hi everyone. I am 18 years of age and I would like to share my story with you. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and throughout our relationship we have talked about having a family together as most couples do. My story begins here. I have PCOS...

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I think I’m pregnant again

Hi, I was pregnant before on September 18th 2013! I had a miscarriage on February 20th 2014! I was 22 weeks pregnant! Her name is Misa Grace Parkinson! She supposed been born on June 25th 2014! So it been like almost 10 weeks now! I thought I would of gotten lesser...

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Bi-sexual and Pregnant

I found out i was pregnant in February, My girlfriend/partner made me take hpt. I was nerves and scared, i thought she was going to break up with me. Even though it wasn't surprise to me but just to have her in the bathroom with me made me feel shocked to see a...

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At Present, My Story

Today, in the present day, I am faced with the chance of pregnancy again. Once again, to a one night (or four day) stand. We met through my old blog (since deleted) and began emailing back and forth. Not small emails either, lengthy ones that are worthy of being parts...

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Pregnant at 17 With Baby 2

When I was 14 I my boyfriend and I decided we should start a family (he was 17), well.. What were we thinking!? Anyways, about 3 months after trying to conceive, I got pregnant! But I was definitely in denial! I missed my period each month and just made myself think...

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Where It All Started My Story

Well i was 16 and was loving life i wasn't the best behaved teenager i had messed around in school and left with nothing so was looking to get a job to sort my life out but what happened next changed me changed my life and my future - well it was a Friday night and me...

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Just Hit Me!!

When you do take the home pregnancy test, it doesn't quite seem real. But when you see the baby and the heartbeat on the ultrasound, it's so incredible! It just hit me that i am going to be a mother. i have been feeling like i am getting very connected with my son...

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Spirit Sports Baby

I found out I was pregnant during Spirit Sports Northeast Knockout in January of 2013. It was day 1 of the competition and we were at warm ups and I felt sick. I've been cheering since I was 3 and I always felt sick during competition because the nerves were getting...

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Thinking i am pregnant … Please give advice

okay so here is my story i need advice on what to do and if im making the right choices : I am 17. I been on the depo shot for 3 years and i have been off now 6 months or so and i had a one day period on Aug 16th and that was all and then on September 3rd i had what...

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Please Help

okay so here is my story i need advice on what to do and if im making the right choices : i been on the depo shot for 3 years and i have been off now 6 months or so and i had a one day period on Aug 16th and that was all and then on September 3rd i had what some...

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Dear Me 3

Dear me, It's been a year since I miscarried. Wow has a lot happened... Lets start with how messed up I have had to become to realize how hypocritical I've been, and how hypocritical I was. I've been intimate with 5 different guys, and it's taken me being in 13...

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