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Hopeless Romantic

Hopeless Romantic

 Dear Becky, I'm so encouraged and almost in tears by your site. Reading everyone's stories and just wishing that something like this was around when I was in high school. Here is my story. I met my first boyfriend when I was 15 years old and I was a hopeless...

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The Love Behind Adoption
The Love Behind Adoption

The Love Behind Adoption

Dear Becky- We adopted our one and only boy almost eight years ago. His birth mom chose us out of so many wonderful families. There are no words to describe this amazing, most awesome experience. The birth mom asked if I wanted to watch our son be born. Of course I...

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So Not Worth It

So Not Worth It

I looked around me, woman around me , with no feeling in their eyes – while mine prickles with close tears.  They sit there laughing and joking like nothing is wrong and that the smell of murder is not hanging in the air.  I sit there staring at a white wall, their...

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Behind My Parents Back

Behind My Parents Back

  Hello Becky, I thank God for your ministry on the web!!! This web site offers such an abundance of truth for a young man or woman who wants to know the truth about the horror of abortion and the freedom in making the right choice to choose life. I feel such a...

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Mom, She Was So Happy

Mom, She Was So Happy

I was 19 when I found out I was pregnant. I had been raped by my boss and I did not have a boyfriend or otherwise at the time. I didn't have very many close friends to talk to. I was very alone. I was also living by myself at the time. When I the doctor told me...

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Trying To Be Logical
Trying To Be Logical

Trying To Be Logical

Hi Becky. I've searched for advice from many sources and no one has answered back. I desperately need some help and I think that you're the right person to talk to about it. I am 4 months pregnant. My boyfriend and I have been together a very long time. But, I'm...

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Teenage Mothers

Teenage Mothers

I know that many of the teenage mothers out there are dealing with the thought of abortion and trying to figure out if they really want to give up their teenage years for a baby. I just want to share an encouraging word with them. I know that if I was strong enough...

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I Had To Feel That Way

I Had To Feel That Way

  I was so scared because I had a feeling already but i had been denying it for about two weeks. And finally my reality hit me in the gut. I watched the test read the first line, and then the second. I checked the box so many times because I thought for sure it was...

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Single Father

Single Father

Hey Becky -- You probably don't get many emails from guys, but however, I am one. My name is Andy Kiser and I am currently 17 years old and a single father. About two years ago I started dating a girl who was a year younger than me. Even at 15 I was already known...

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My First Born

My First Born

I was 16 years old when I felt pregnant with my first born. She was born this year 2018 but my pregnancy was very stress full like if I'm going to be a good mom or if I will be able to look after her.  When I went into labor it was painful.  A pain no one can bare...

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I’m A Young Mom

I’m A Young Mom

Hi Becky,I’m writing to day to hopefully inspire one girl, somewhere. I found out I was pregnant a little after i turned 17. I was a run away and heavily addicted to drugs. When i found out i cried for hours and when i told the father of my baby i was pregnant he...

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My Family’s Advice

My Family’s Advice

I was 17 and pregnant from a one night stand.  My father tried to convince me to have an abortion, I already knew immediately that wasn't an option for me.  My mother wanted me to give the baby up for adoption.  My Uncle offered to pay for my college (4 year...

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Pressure From Mom

Pressure From Mom

Dear Becky, I am 15 and 17 and 1/2 weeks pregnant. I had an abortion over a year ago, and it was the most horrible thing i ever did. When i found out i was pregnant this time. I knew from the beginning i couldn't abort it, but with pressure from my mom and from my...

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You Can Get Through It

You Can Get Through It

Dear Becky. I am writing to you as I hope that my story can be shared with all at SUG and hopefully will help other girls who are torn between choosing life and abortion.  I was 21 and had been with my boyfriend for 3 years when I found out I was pregnant in...

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To Tell My Parents

To Tell My Parents

Becky, Your website address was in my church's bulletin this week, and I am so glad that I visited your site. It is amazing how one person can positively touch the lives of many. My sister was that person for me. I became pregnant at 19, and I was very alone. My...

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Right Now

Right Now

I am almost 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have not yet had sex but we want to but we also want to have a baby RIGHT KNOW. And i want to know if that is the right way to go. I know I probably soound stupid because I mean no 14 year old in there right mind...

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