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But That Little Pink Line

But That Little Pink Line

 I stared at the little pink line as I sat on the bathroom counter. No, I thought. No, this isn't happening. I'm going to wake up right now and I'm going to live the rest of my life. Needless to say, I broke into tears. I didn't wake up. This was real. I was...

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The Love Behind Adoption
The Love Behind Adoption

The Love Behind Adoption

Dear Becky- We adopted our one and only boy almost eight years ago. His birth mom chose us out of so many wonderful families. There are no words to describe this amazing, most awesome experience. The birth mom asked if I wanted to watch our son be born. Of course I...

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This Was Illegal

This Was Illegal

Dear Becky, Thank you for your Web site. I have read some of the stories, and touched by all of them. I have a story that I would like anyone who is thinking about having an abortion to know. I was 22 years old, separated from my ex-husband with a 18 month...

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Morning Kicked In

Morning Kicked In

 Dear Becky, I was inspired by this site and I wanted to help some of the girls that are scared and feeling alone by sharing my story. I was a senior in highschool when my boyfriend and I discovered that I was pregnant. We were ... really scared. The hardest thing...

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pregnant in school
School And A Baby!

School And A Baby!

Dear Becky- I am a junior in high school, popular, cheerleader. I live with my mom and she has always supported me in everything I do. My dad on the other hand, just married his 6th wife and, as usual, his children get booted out and the new wife and her family...

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had a baby so happy
Tons And Tons Of Joy

Tons And Tons Of Joy

Hello! My name is Carol Anne and I'm 24 years old. Perhaps my problem is not that important compare to other girls, but for me it is, because it's making me very blue. 7 months ago, I was dating a guy and 3 months later, I got pregnant. Honestly, I felt deeply...

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Little More Than Kiss
Little More Than Kiss

Little More Than Kiss

I have always been one of those people who thought abortion wasn't for me, but who was I to judge other people or tell them what's right. I was a "good catholic school girl", with no life experience. I was with "Jake" for four years and had done little more than...

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A Poem For You

A Poem For You

 Dear Becky -- God has blessed me with 2 beautiful little girls. Ever since I was a teenager I wanted to be a mom. I was married at 25 and then had 2 little girls. I feel very sad for any woman who is in a situation where abortion seems an option. I am not standing...

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I Told My Mom

I Told My Mom

  Dear Becky,My name is Lynzie and I recently celebrated my seventeenth birthday at the end of January. I am also 31 weeks pregnant. One day I was on the internet and I am always looking for information to help me along with my pregnancy, that's how I stumbled upon...

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love my son and I chose Life
If I Can Do It You Can

If I Can Do It You Can

Hi Becky, I’m writing to day to hopefully inspire one girl, somewhere. I found out I was pregnant a little after i turned 17. I was a run away and heavily addicted to drugs. When i found out i cried for hours and when i told the father of my baby i was pregnant he...

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He Wouldn’t Help Me

He Wouldn’t Help Me

 DearLisa-- Just today I found today this web site and I love it. It made me feel like I wasn't the only one going throught all this. Abortion was something I never could talk about, I knew my friends weren't going to understand so I never told them. I really could...

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So Not Worth It

So Not Worth It

I looked around me, woman around me , with no feeling in their eyes – while mine prickles with close tears.  They sit there laughing and joking like nothing is wrong and that the smell of murder is not hanging in the air.  I sit there staring at a white wall, their...

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After The Abortion

After The Abortion

  Dear Becky, I would like to take this opportunity to tell you my story in the hopes it might help someone in making their decision. I was 18 years old when I found out I was pregnant. I instantly fell in love with the baby. I knew my family would react negatively...

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Is That The Cyst?

Is That The Cyst?

  Dear Becky, As of a week ago, I was exactly three months pregnant. My doctor keeps telling me that the nausea and vomiting will taper off anytime now, but I am absolutely convinced that I am going to spend the remainder of the entire pregnancy curled over the...

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What To Do?

What To Do?

Hi Becky, I am 24, just started a new job and am in a relationship with a guy that was my best friend....  I have a 5yr old son and he is Great, i had an abortion 3yrs ago with my ex because he didn’t want the baby. I just found out that i am about 2 weeks pregnant...

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