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Too Late

So a couple of days ago, I found out that I couldn't have kids... I am 19 years old and this was a huge surprise. Not that I am planning on having kids just yet, but one day I did want kids... Anyway, I am dating this guy and he has a kid, a year and six month-old...

career and teen mom

Hello Stand Up Girl!

Hi Guys! You have no idea how happy I was to find out that this website still exists! This site was my refuge back in my teenage years--with pregnancy and all that stuff. I just want to share my story and how StandUpGirl.com has helped me become who I am today. I was...

pregnant and in college

Someone Help Me!

About 5 months ago before I started college I found out I was pregnant, I was only 16. I didn't know what to do, I was so lost and confused. I wasn't sure what I really wanted. I had always loved the fact of having a baby, having a family that I never really had, as...

My Sick Little Girl

I am seeking some advice on how to cope with the overwhelming stress of having a constantly sick child. My daughter has severe asthma and has been constantly struggling to breathe since she was about 15 months old. She is now 3 1/2 years old and in the last 4 months,...

No idea what to do..

When I was 16 years old, I had my beautiful little boy with a guy I loved with all my heart. About 2 months after our son was born, he took off. He wasn't ready to "grow up". My son will be 2 in February, and his dad started coming back around again in September. We...

19 pregnant no family support

I have been dating my same boyfriend for three years now and this isn't our first pregnancy. Our first year together, I got pregnant and was forced into an abortion by my parents and him as well. Anyway, now a few years later, I was actively taking birth control for...

the choice friendship

Leading Up To The Choice

I've never blogged before.. Or talked to anyone about this besides the people in my life I'm closest too so this is a new thing for me. I guess the way I'm going about trying to get better just isn't working so it's time to try something new. You can't get better if...

i Need Answers Please

OK. So, I'm 15. I had unprotected sex on November 2nd. He didn't cum in me and I got my period the next day. It's now December 18th. I usually get my period on the 3rd, so I'm late. Is there any way I could be pregnant?

My Life Thus Far…

It's December 16th, just a week and a half before Christmas. This year will be my second Christmas with my daughter and my first as a married woman! That's right! I'm married! I met my husband on October 2nd, two years ago, and we became good friends, hanging out...

For the third time.

I already have a two year old daughter. I got pregnant a year after having her and ended up having an abortion. Now, I'm pregnant for the third time. I'm very torn. I don't want another baby but I don't want to go through the abortion process again. I look at my own...

might be pregnant

I was a virgin till I started dating this guy about 6 weeks ago. Now everything was going great, i lost it to him and then went on the pill. Didn't feel any different till about 3 weeks ago. I started peeing a lot more, was hungry all the time, my back hurt, and my...

It all started……

It all started in November... My boyfriend and I were having sex. We didn't know the condom broke... And after that, I never ended up pregnant. and so we never used condoms... In August. I started my period... Then September came, no period. In October, I had a normal...

muttered words

It takes a lot of energy to not think of you, to force myself not to feel the flicker of my heart as it beats for you. The painful wrenching as I tear your heavy presence out of my very soul. The taste of your lips still haunts me, the touch of your skin, the very...

My story

So I am new to this and I am not sure exactly what to say. I am sixteen years old and right now, I am almost 4 1/2 months along. I don't have a problem with a good support system, because I have one of the best support systems with my family. I don't talk to many...

Complications

I am new to this website and first things first: my fiancé and I are having a baby. We are scared, but excited at the same time. I am just overwhelmed because of the different emotions I am experiencing. I hate getting mad at my fiancé, for little things (sometimes...

My little zachary

6 month appointments!

My son was 6 months old last week. So he was due for 6-month checkups. He had an appointment with the midwife this morning, just for general checks. Everything was great, he's now 14 lbs. 4 oz...that's 12 lbs. 2 oz heavier than what he was when he was born. It was...

My story.

For those of you that don't know my story, here it is. I got pregnant when I was 14. When my boyfriend and I found out we had no idea what to do. Of course, the first thing that came to mind was abortion. Yes, I am totally against abortion and adoption for this...

Questions without judgement

So, I have never used this site before and I don't really know how to work it, but I am in need of help and I think this site may be able to answer my questions without judgment and or disbelief in me. My story is not unusual, it is actually quite common, But it's...