Evangeline

I’m 100% with you on how fun baby names can be 🙂
i think Jasper has to be my favorit, but i suck at choosing girls names lol but i think eliza is very cool.

Good luck with the pregnancy.

best advice that I could give you, is to wait untill you’ve missed a period and then take an hpt. Anything is possible depending on what phase of your cycle you were on during the time that you had unprotected sex.
just play the waiting game.

there’s nothing wrong with an FML post… sometimes a good vent is just what we need. Please please please get an hiv test… pregnancy could be the least of your worries.
keep us posted

hiya, doesn’t sound likely to me, just judging by the time frame and where you are in your cycle…. but starnger things have happened. Give it a few days and take an hpt. Keep us posted 🙂

LOve Eva

Hi Maia…. you just need to tell them it’s your body, your baby and your decision. It’s so easy for everyone to tell you what they think you should do, when they’re not the ones that ultimately have to live with the very far reaching consequences of a termination.

I know that there are women who have terminated their pregnancies without any emotional backlash, i am not one of those women…. And since you’ve already decided that you want to keep your little one, i believe that you need to stand strong by that decision.

I wish you all the best
Eva

[i]Hi Carson 🙂 welcome to SUG. I am truly sorry that you’re in this situation and feeling the way that you are. I wish that I had a quick fix for you, but I’m afraid that it’s not always that easy… The best advice that I could give you is to let your emotions come to you naturally. If you want to cry… then cry, don’t let anyone stop you from mourning your little angel. It gets a little better as time passses, honestly, I can’t promise that it ever goes away completely, but you’ll learn to live with the decision. There’s also nothing wrong with missing or remembering your baby, and it’s normal to regret such a big decision.
I guess that the whole healing process depends how you start handling it from day one.

If you need someone to talk to, who knows what you’re going through, feel free to pm me.

Love Eva[/i]

Hi Lupe 🙂 It is possible for you to conceive naturally (if I’m not mistaken) but I believe that it depends on the severity of your PCOS. If that doesn’t work, you will have to indergo fertility treatment.
If you do fall pregnant, there are ALWAYS risks, but more so with PCOS. The medications that you take to treat your PCOS is not suitable during pregnancy, so that’s something that you’ll need to discuss with your gynea.

There’s also a link of PCOS and high insulin levels during pregnancy ( I’m not sure of the proper medical term for this though). ANyway, too much insulin can cause the baby to grow too big, which apparently brings on preterm birth. Also the insulin can cause blood clots in the placenta, depriving the baby of vital nutrients.

Please, if you do TTC have a serious discussion with your gynea. I know that you’ve had a forced termination and I’m so worried about what a m/c could do to your state of mind.

Love Eva

I agree 100% with modeling mommy. My Biggest regret is having an abortion and as someone with major depression and anxiety disorders, it was not good for my mental health. Three years down the line and I am still affected by it.

Your baby is not a lump of tissue, and that is what the abortionists fail to tell you and its not “crueltly free”.The further you are into your pregnancy, the more complicated it gets… Love Eva

I dont think that people always understand why we react the way we react after an abortion… to put it simply, they just dont get it.
Honestly, I know what you’re going through. I miss my little ones incredibly and it gets more intense when I’m around someone who’s pregnant or has a new born. I had a total freak out in the car just yesterday and my fiance looked at me like I’d turned into a four headed dragon.
So, if you wanna chat, rant, share stories or coping mechanisms… just pm me. I’m always willing to help when and where I can.

Love Eva

Hi there, I think what you’re refering to is known as “phantom kicking”. Sometimes women experience this when they had a difficult pregnancy… But sometimes its also caused by stress or nerves. If you’re really concerned that it might be something else, then you should speak to your gp… But I dont think that there’s anything that you need to worry about.

Hope this helped put you at ease a bit
Eva

Hi there hun… it does get better after a while. I had my abortion a little more than three years ago and there are times where I don’t think about it every second of every day… and then there are weekends (like the one that’s just passed) that it’s all that I think about.
No one is going to look at you and know… and no one has the right to judge you… every single one of us has done something that we regret, that we wish we could undo, rewind and start over. It might never go away… but you will learn to cope with it and when things get bad, come online and blog (it always makes me feel better).

I really hope that you start feeling better soon and if you ever need to chat or rant and rave, you’re more than welcome to pm me.

Love Eva

Hi there Amy 🙂 I think both of you are just a little overwhelmed by the new addition that will be joining your relationship soon… Praning gave some awesome advice…. sit down and lay all your cards on the table, both of you need to be honest and open about what your fears and expectations are…. then when you have a better perspective of where your relationship stands, take it from there. But dont stay with someone who makes you unhappy, just because you’re afraid to be alone.

I hope this helps, even a little.

Love
Eva