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A Story of Hope, Courage, and New Beginnings

Greetings from South Africa: A story received from one of our affiliated pregnancy centres touched me so much that I wanted to share it with you, as it captures the essence of hope and love that we strive to nurture in our community.




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Lesson About Her Unborn Baby’s Life

A pregnant girl not ready for parenthood, struggles to reconcile that her life will change forever. She resorts to ending her pregnancy. Her mother makes one last desperate plead to save the unborn baby’s life.




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I’m Pregnant Conversation with my Parents

Telling your parents “I’m pregnant” can be a challenging conversation but approaching it with preparation can make it easier. Here are some points to help you have the conversation. StandUpGirl has resources to guide your pregnancy journey.




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When I was 20, I found out I had PCOS and told I'd have a real hard time conceiving. Here I am at 24 and just discovered I am pregnant after...

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Hey girls! Let’s talk…

Hey everyone, OK... I know you all know what it feels like to struggle with stuff, go through hard times, have fears and questions, and feel lonely...

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Faking it

I've gone through the last few years faking .... faking that I'm OK and that I'm happy and stable. I guess that I'm a better actress than I gave...

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Picture of Purity

She was the picture of purity. Of innocence. Of grace. She had a beautiful child-like mind, filled with excitement and joy in life, and with...

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pregnant again?

Hi, so I'm 16 and have a 4-month-old baby boy and recently started a pop birth control 34 days ago. Well, I never got my period this month and it's...

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yayyy babyyy news!

So, I'm starting to feel like my boobs are going to explode! They're soooo swollen!!! I still haven't told my parents, but I have told my siblings...

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Today is the day

Today is the day. I am so scared because I'm going to be taking the pill which means that the abortion will happen within the next three days. I...

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Hoping..

I'm not quite sure what I'm hoping for... I'm a few days late on my period and despite the circumstances, I know I'd be a really good mum and I'd...

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What can I do right?

I could be pregnant and I haven't even been trying. Right, I'll just cut to the chase. I could be pregnant. I and my boyfriend don't want to do the...

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what do you want?!

So the random food cravings have kicked in full. All I can seem to eat is eggs, roast beef, and pickles! I hate eggs! I'm all bloated and puffy! I...

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How You Killed Me

To see you go, It breaks my heart I love you so From the very start I'm finally letting go I will soon be free I finally know I finally see I see...

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14 and expecting any advice?

So I just hit 5 weeks and my fiancé started talking about how to break it to the parents. This, so far, has been the scariest part of the pregnancy....

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confused ; what should i do ?

Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. About 4 days ago, I found out I was pregnant. I told the baby's father. He seems so happy. But the worst...

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Friennds<3

Well, after the abortion, the only person I wanted to be with was my friend. For she also is one here. I normally won't cry in front of anyone, but...

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what can I say?

I am only thirteen and I know what it's like to watch someone you love walk away. "Maybe," I always think to myself, "-maybe if they were still...

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Wrong choice

Hi Becky... I'm 21... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years... We mean everything to each other... In September, this year, I found out I...

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Abortion, love and regret

Sorry for the length of this post, but I am posting it in the hopes that it can help someone else... Either to make their decision or to realize...

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Broken Wings

Stained glass heart, shattered again.  No one left to pick up the pieces.  No putting it back together this time... I was his angel til he ripped...

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Back again….

So this is my 2nd time on this site. 5 years ago, I created my first account. I had just gone through an abortion, something that still bothers me...

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abortion

Why can't teens wait? I mean I know it's hard to wait when you both love each other, but you should wait. If you know anyone who has had a baby, you...

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i wish i knew

I wish I had known about this site when I got pregnant, but of course, I didn't till now. if I knew there were other girls going through the same...

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Ever felt this way?

I wrote this late one night, based on a combination of what I was feeling and what a friend of mine was going through.  Have any of you ever felt...

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so annoyed!

OK. So I found out I'm pregnant a week ago, 9 weeks approximately (I'm still yet to have my ultrasound to confirm how far along I am). My boyfriend...

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