OK. So I found out I’m pregnant a week ago, 9 weeks approximately (I’m still yet to have my ultrasound to confirm how far along I am). My boyfriend is 100 percent supportive. but his parents most definitely aren’t. Let’s call his parents B for the mum and C for the dad (I’d rather not mention names).
In my boyfriend’s family, there’s been a history of teenage pregnancies. My boyfriend’s mother had her first child at 18, his sister at 16, and his brother’s girlfriend at 15. Might I add his brother’s girlfriend is the devil’s daughter and treats B & C like crap! Yells and screams at them, refuses to let them anywhere near where she’s living (which is a house that they own), only ever talks to them if she needs money, never lets them see their granddaughter, steals, accuses, and never shuts up about absolute nonsense! Oh yeah, and she’s 3 months younger than I am (so she’s seventeen now ) and pregnant again- Yet she gets full support and a congratulations, this, that, whatever. And I get the dreaded abortion speech simply because I’m *too young*
COME ON! What is it about me that makes them think I’m incapable of looking after a child?!?!? I babysit their one-year-old daughter on a regular basis, and I know that’s not like having my own child, but it still means they trust me with children! They don’t even trust the devil’s daughter when she has a daughter one week older than theirs, and how can THEY accuse me of being too young when I’ll be having my child when I’m 18 and that’s the same age B had her first child….?
Hypocrites….. I’m so angry and stressed and annoyed and frustrated and just downright upset at their behavior. And the worst part is, if I don’t agree to terminate my child ( and I definitely won’t be agreeing), then my boyfriend and I get booted to the streets. They claim that they’re 100 percent against abortion – So why are they suggesting it?!
It’s ridiculous! and I have absolutely no idea how to cope with it without biting their heads off.
So annoyed.