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  • in reply to: Pregnant and all alone… #23627
    TooHelp
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    You may feel alone now, but your not.

    22 is not too young. An abortion is not the answer, though it would be easier. However, I believe you are better than that. Don’t give up, things will get better in time.

    in reply to: Irritable? #23617
    TooHelp
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    Talk it through. Find out what your mad about and ask yourself if it is worth being mad it.

    It not then just let it go. You don’t need the added stress of being mad over something that isn’t more important to you then your boyfriend or baby.

    Although, I’ve never been in your shoes, so I can only hope this helps.

    in reply to: I just need to tell someone #23616
    TooHelp
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    Migraines are hell to go through. You are going through a lot just so that you will one day be able to have children. Don’t give up.
    Even if you eventually have to have your ovaries removed, you will be worth more than gold to the man you eventually get married to.

    in reply to: What to do? #23615
    TooHelp
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    I’m so sorry you made that choice. I am sure you will feel better about it in time however, I don’t think you will ever be the same.

    Every choice we make has an effect on our lives.

    You can choose to turn this into a positive experience by being there for others in their time of need.

    I wish you the best.

    in reply to: everyone says to forgive yourself #23014
    TooHelp
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    Don’t give up, it will take time. You must be patient.

    in reply to: Really need some advice #23012
    TooHelp
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    You will do well. Stop listening to the pessimistic comments made by those who don’t want you to be happy. Keep smiling, don’t give up.

    in reply to: TWINS #23011
    TooHelp
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    That is great to hear Kayla. Good luck and God bless.

    in reply to: Help… #22967
    TooHelp
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    You should talk to your parents. I am not sure what your story is but, you should at least talk to an adult you trust.

    in reply to: positive. #22966
    TooHelp
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    Good luck to you and your baby.

    in reply to: questions #22965
    TooHelp
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    I agree, she is just rocking herself to sleep because, her parents don’t MAKE time to rock her themselves.

    in reply to: Should I tell her mother? #22964
    TooHelp
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    You could always send an anonymous letter to her mother however, that would probably back fire.

    I would talk to your friend. Show her information concerning the importance of going to the doctor and just be the loving and caring friend that you already are. Sometimes we just have to let our friends make mistakes and be there to help them up when they fall.

    in reply to: only a dream #22963
    TooHelp
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    You have the heart of a great woman. That heart will become the heart of a Great Mother, one day.

    in reply to: misuse of this site #22962
    TooHelp
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    I agree. Young (meaning girls in their teens) girls aren’t ready to be mothers. They shouldn’t be encouraged to try and get pregnant until they have grown up.

    in reply to: My Story #22961
    TooHelp
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    yes I have talked to my mom and she just says she dosen’t want to hear it. I have tried everything trust me. I don’t think I can stand to let my little girl go..I mean its almost like she is part of me. I have never met her but I love her more then anything on this earth.

    She is a part of you. She always will be. Your mother doesn’t want to hear it because this is not the life she wanted for you. She didn’t want you to become a mother at the age fourteen.

    Try and think about it like this: When your daughter is 14 years old, do you want her to get pregnant?

    in reply to: fun, being free, vs having a baby without him #22960
    TooHelp
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    Your boyfriend like a control freak. He needs help and you may or may not be able to help him.

    You need to focus on doing what is best for you and your pregnancy. Too much stress can cause your body to abort the pregnancy.

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