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ha. i get yu. i thought pregnancy couldnt be that bad. and even though its so friggin wonderful. oh my its hard. especially becasue its getting hotter as well. it makes me so much more sicker. uh. my son kicks my cevix or a weird nerve down there. and it jerks me so hard i cant stand it i fall almost everytime he does it. he will either snuggle into my pelvic bones with his whole body, kick my ribs, or kick my bladder or cervix. and it is so annoying. i get so mad. then so happy, then so confused. and just like you, nobody is going to stand in ebtween me and an apple lol. lol i was the type of person who woudl give up a good food to hand to someone because they wanted some. but now whe they want it uh i cant help but put it in my outh and say too bad. lol sounds so rude but its mine mine mine im so greety with food now that im preggy. i know what your going through.
ah i hate this subject for personal reasons.. I love love love my babys dad to death, but im so sick of arguing, it isnt and doesnt get bad. but its over the stupidest things ALL THE TIME. I sometimes just want to end our relationship, some how everytime I say leave, w emake up. and it just gets old! I dont want him to go because I really do love him. and I want my sons dad to be 100 percent involved like a dad should with a son I dont want him to have anothor daddy, or step dad for the same reasons. I know my sons dad will be great with him, and thats what makes me not want to leave him more and more. because he will be a wodnerful daddy, but i dont know whats more important.. and in the end i dnt know if i will be happy or hurt over it all. whether we stay together or break up. so i just try and make it all work out. But you should just do what you feel is right. watch out for your son. make him your number 1. get your degree to be a doc and be all that you can be. things may change in the future its still too soon to know.
well either way your baby shower will fill you up with clothes most likely. my sister decided not to find out the gender andcouldnt really buy anything unless it was yellow. and they had boy and girl names ready. it was fun for them (her bf and her) they wanted a boy and as soon as HE popped out they both borke down and cried over it. they were happy. me on the other hand i couldnt help btu know. i HAD TO. lol
WOW. im so sorry to hear about your loss. and its sad that guy has to do that. after all it was his baby too. maybe losing the baby made him realize how young he really is and how he wants to and can have fun now without the burden or holding back of a child. which is really immature but alot of guys are like that. i think if it wernt for my child me and my boyfriend would be split up. i cant believe your bf though. thats horrible i would leave him regardless. its gonna be hard. but it will eb ahrder when he leaves you for this girl later on in life. dot leave regrets on your back, because you decided to stay with him. it will only hurt you ore in the end.
sorry to hear that. But if the talk about babies drives him crazy. maybe he shoudl do more to prevent from havign anothor one yu know? Thats tough being a mom of one at that age, and two i probaly extra hard. I know someone who ahd three by the time she was 23, her first born at 15. But things did work out. She loves her kids more than anything.
I heard about the girl in UK and from what I understood they trie taking her away. what happend I do not know. But I did hear about that story. The mom didnt care that she drinked thats why they tried taking her away. Yeah thats sad. But some girls even at 10 may develop different and she may ahve looked older and acteda little older. but idk. everyones different.
maybe hes trying to slowly work his way into your lives, or let you know he cares in some kind of way
scary situation, makes everything a little mroe intense because its twins.. its always good to have parents to help you through things, but honestly there a questions they would still forget and or may not be able to answer. my mom passed away 3 years ago when i was 13.. i got family thats been pregnant. but i dont really ask them things, there isnt much they could tell me that a doctor couldnt.. but if you want to know if things are normal, like the things your feeling then youve always got us girls on this site.
oh my… that must be hard to hear… hold your head up and pray that they only made a mistake……. i will keep you and your child in my prayers.. think of thigns as though they are not.
you never really see things the way you should until somebody dies or leaves… Its good he is gone, for you and your childrens sake. its sad that he was that way and im sorry to hear about your painful story. be strong for your babies.. i would never take him back even if he did come back. lifes hard, and raising children on your own must be very HARD but your doing it! by yourself. and that only has made you stronger.. his miss may be big.. but its great to not get hit right? and who knows what he could have done to your babies now or when they get older… be strong hold your head up… be strong.
stickky situations… thats sounds hard. my cousin was and is in a similiar situation her bf was out and about all the time, planned on getting her pregnant he did, and because of his immature ways he isnt really involved in the babys life. but when he is there he makes it worth it from what i see. its just sad because he couldnt and cant grow up for his child… hold your head up and just be there for your baby..
i started leaking the costrum around 16 weeks along… i am now 26 weeks along and still leaking the costrum it hasnt turned into milk but those things happen.. its normal
think about how you were raised and the things that you could do now differently. Do all that you can do for your daughter, and be by her side. remain a mom and stay away from becoming a friend… be strong hold your head up. and listen to your heart.. you can guide her but you cannot live her life remember that..
Im so sorry to hear about that I couldnt imagine that happening with my child… Not even for a second… It would be hard going throughout 6 months of pregnancy, meeting you child, finally having him or her there, then losing them.. again I am so so so sorry for your loss, questions that others ask about your child will always bring you down, and its always going to be hard.. but hold your head high. have hope..
you get pains when your prego. sometimes they hurt.. if it gets so bad you can barley move or walk go to the hospital and get checked out. gte more than one opinion.. if they say somethings wrong. but i doubt it.. i always felt like that.. and since im so small and my body didnt or hasnt developed yet, it streched way more and made room and got ready for baby.. its normal. some people dont get them. but when you ask and someone says ‘thats no normal’ it is…
uycould be sounds like it. but since you ahd your uterus scraped that could be what it is too. if you really think your prego wait another week then take a pee test. doesnt seem like it would be too early but it could be
well for starters everything happens for a reason. and as much as your heart fluttered for that boy wait until you see your first ultra sound. hear the heart beat etc etc.. you fall head over heels in love, which mother lsnt scared to be pregnant with her first child at any age.. i went to parenting class and there are some late bloomers in there i talkin around 40 years old with their first baby together, they asked some pretty funny ?’s because they didnt know but i am in no place ot judge because ive been there and asked the same ?’s… i am 16 and pregnant, at the current time i had a job, and was doing great in school, oh wow the best ive done, i was happy and still ready to keep going, but then i got pregnant. and it all fell right in front of my eyes! but now i look at it like ‘well at least i got my baby’ most moms regret abortion but never regret having a kid, and if your kids a hellion, hey you still got him/her etc etc. theres always adoption for yu.. me personally im against everything except for raising your kid, if you can. i mean you did it, the both of you did it.
that safe zone thing had me stressin so ill pray for yu.. congrats.. orning sickness sucks if you get it..
if you didnt think much about it then, by this time you still got many options your still early in pregnancy, and your also still pregnant.. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.. SAY THAT YOU ENGAGED. HAPPEND FOR A REASON.. A UNPLANNED PREGNANCY HAPPEND FOR A REASON… AND THEM NOT BEING ABLE TO SEE THE BABY ON THE ULTRASOUND HAPPEND FOR A REASON.. YOU GETTING ADVICE HAPPEND FOR A REASON.. EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID.. PEOPLE USUALLY REGRET ABORTIONS, BUT NEVER REALLY REGRET BABIES.. ONCE YOU FEEL YOUR CHILD MOVE. SEE A KICK ON THE SCEEN. GET THEIR FIRST PICS (ULTRA SOUND) YOU FALL. HEAR THE HEARTBEAT AND YOUR HOOKED.. WELL WITH ME THATS HOW IT WAS/IS. I HATE ABORTION, STAND 100 PERCENT AGAINST IT… THAT IS FOR MYSELF. YOU ARE OLDER THAN ME.. AND MORE CAPABLE THAN I AM, AND I AM GOING THROUGH WITH HAVING A BABY.. YOUR FIANCE IS A MARINE. THE ONYL DIFFERENCE ABOUT HAVING A FAMILY NOW OR LATER IS YOUR STARTING A FAMILLY A LIL BIT EARLIER…THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT..
if you cant wait it out, anothor week.. go by a test it will satisfy you.. and athletics do make your periiod screwed whether its late or early.. yes pregnancy can happen without sex., its rare but has been known to happen… i heard sperm die within 2 sec of touching the air.. but idk… be careful.
IF you CAN DO IT GO FOR IT.. I WOULD DO IT if i were you. I DECIDED TO get pregnant for some wrong but right reasons.. You will make a wonderful mom, your alreayd doing a good job at it… worrying lol… just dont worry too bad.. and go for it.. you seem ready so do it! and motherhood comes natural, you will do it good.
i went through thost horible things except i lost more, than my grandfather.. i lost my mom, and 5 siblings…. just when you think you had it bad, theres someone out there who has it worse.
met a guy who became my best friend, fell head over heels in love. lost my virginty to him, and then later on he raped me, I didnt want to do it because i had a bf (who im with now), i thought i was pregnant with his kid. i called him to tell him. because i thought what he did was okay….. and he freaked out on me… your a hoe… a slut.. there aint no way that baby is mine… your trippen.. thats when it hit me..
THIS WASNT LOVE, THIS ISNT TRUE… WHEN THE ‘TEST’ SHOWED UP NEAGATIVE, I PRAYED TO GOD AND SAID THANK YOU.. IM GLAD I WASNT FORCED TO SPEND MY LIFE WITH SOMEONE SO HORRIBLE.. WHO I CLAIMED LOVED ME.. AND NEEDED ME.i am now over him 100 percent… AND THANK GOD FOR THAT.. GLAD I WASNT PREGNANT WITH HIS KID…
MORE THAN HAPPY TO BE ENGAGED TO THE GUY IM WITH NOW, I AM HAVING HIS BABY. AND THROUGH THICK AND THIN I KNOW WHAT LOVE IS, NOW.. ITS NOT FIGHTING OR RUDE, ALTHOUGH IT HAPPENS.. ITS NOTHING OR EVEN CLOSE TO AS IT WAS IN THE PAST
I GOT RAPED BY A PERSON WHO WAS A BEST FRIEND, AN EX, A DREAM, LIKE A BROTHER..I THOUGHT…
I RECENTLY TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT WHAT HAPPEND.. AND HE CRIED WITH ME. HE WAS HURT FOR ME. AND SURPRISED BECAUSE IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO TELL HIM, (1 YR 4 MO)BUT NOW THAT I HAVE TOLD HIM ITS MADE ME CLOSER TO HIM..
