Ashleii

Wait until after you miss your period if you do and if the test is negative, test again in a week but if you still don’t have a period after that week go to the doctor’s for some blood work. There is a good chance you could be pregnant, and it also depends how many times you have taken the plan B pill (as I am assuming that’s what Next Choice is). Update us when you can and good luck! I was 14 when I got pregnant with my first child!

Yes you could be pregnant, but don’t get worked up too much. You did state how your period is irregular, and maybe that is why it is later than you expected it to be. Many early pregnancy symptoms can be a sign of your period as well. So maybe wait about a week or so and if your period does not show, take a test. Wish you luck!

ME:
Ashley, 17yo
Son: Dallas, 2yo (11/09/11)
Baby #2: 10 weeks in tummy

Education: High school senior
Relationship: Engaged to children’s father

It sounds like you are trying to make your own sense of the situation, but still sounds like you are still a bit confused and could use someone for a vent or talking to. I am here.
You may think they are just “cells” in you at the moment, but truly in reality, you know that is more than what you think. It is probably a little Zygote/Embryo by now, which does lead into a fetus, a baby. It may be already forming depending how far along you really are.
I know having a child is extremely hard but there is ALWAYS help. There is adoption, and if you decide to keep him/her there is welfare/government assistance.
I was 14 when I gave birth to my son and in the beginning of my 10th grade. I did homeschooling from a teacher for 2 months and decided to go back to school shortly before my exams started. I have been able to keep my 80-90% marks. Trust me, anything is possible as long as you try, and have determination.
Even if adoption was an option for you, there are some great people out there that would love to take on a baby, simply because they want to help out a younger mom or because maybe they are infertile.
Bottom line is, and at the end of the day, it is YOUR decision and don’t let anyone sway that. All you can ask for is opinions and suggestions, advice, and information. But it all comes down to how you feel and what you think is best.
I will always be here for someone to talk to and for someone to vent to. All you need to do is get a hold of me. I hope you do what you think is best and I hope you are doing okay still. <3

Please keep us updated on Isabelle <3
You guys are in my thoughts!!
-Ashleii.

Heey, my name is Ashleii. I know it’s going to be hard, there is no doubt about it, no matter what.. Being a first time mom is difficult. I am sorry to here about your sickness and illnesses as well.
I think for your situation, if you want to get married first, get your diploma, etc. first (before having a child/starting a family) adoption would be the best option.
This is just my opinion because at one point, I didn’t know what to do either.. I am only 14, going on 15 in December, still in school. And I am 30+4 weeks pregnant. We decided to keep it, and parent our son.
I feel bad for you with the pressure of your boyfriend.. I know it’s hard having you wanting one thing, and your boyfriend wanting something completely different. Because really, no matter what decision you choose, it’s going to change your life.
Just make sure you make the best decision for you! I think between parenting or adoption, and that’s my input. No matter what you choose though, you will have support and friends.
Good-luck!
And I hope everything works out soon.
-Ashleii.

Don’t stress too much about it! It’s neither good for you and your babies.
If they have them stopped for now, that’s good. And if it happens to happen again, go back in so they can stop them. I am sure they will be able to stop them until your babies are old enough to breathe on their own, and are strong enough. If they come early, you know how technology has become, your babies will be safe. Just keep thinking of the positive!
Hope everything is still going alright!

Wow, you have been through a lot. I give you credit for being able to do this and make al lthe decisions. I know how hard it is for your boyfriend to want something different then you do, becuase then you are torn in the middle.
I am sorry about your parents, and that your boyfriend does this for a living. But yes, once again.. I would try talk to him, I mean.. This IS the baby’s father, and the baby does need a chance to get to meet/grow-up and live with him. If he does fail to listen after knowing you are serious, and aren’t joking.. Then that’s when you make your decision. I think if worse comes to worse you should atleast let him see his child, but only let it be at your house, whre you can watch both of them. Once the baby is older and you can trust him more, then let him start taking the baby out for the day. Just try to build your trust up with him again if he listens to you after he knows you are serious.
I am too pregnant, about 26 weeks.. And I have been so stressed. I actually still don’t know what I am going to go yet. I also look up to you since you already decided to keep the baby, and you want to give this baby so much.
I hope everything gets sorted out!
If you ever need a helping hand or someone to talk to, just email me or message me on my wall!
Lots of love.
Ash.

Heey my name is Ashleii and I am 14 and about 7 months pregnant. I have not told my mom, the only ones who know is me and and my boyfriend. I am going to a heath center to talk to someone to get more information, and how to exactly break it to my mom. I am very scared at how my mom is going to take it, like you have no idea!
But yes, this is something at soemtime me and my boyfriend both wanted, so it happened.. And now we are un sure of it.
I am pretty sure it is too late to abort mine, but that is something iwould not want to do anyways.
Yes, it is going to be a struggle.. Through everything, but everything that does happen will make you a stronger person.. No matter how hard it is to get through it.
I think you shold keep the baby, but you are only 13 and have a lot of life ahead of you, highschool, college.. And so do I.
But that’s a decision you have to make.
Possibly talk to your mom about it.
If you really think you can’t do it, then there are a lot of people that will support you if you do put it up for adoption.
If you ever need to talk I am just a click away,
send me an email or add me on msn or something.
Hope to hear from you!
Best of luck.
Ashleii.

I agree, I do not think you should get an abortion. I am against those, but I am in a pretty tight situation too. I have been with my boyfriend for alomst 9 months, and I will be turning 15 soon. I haven’t told anyone yet, only my boyfriend and I know.
I think you should keep your baby, becuase if you got an abortion.. Once it’s done, there is no turning back. Most mothers reret when they get them. I know some are forced to, butyou have a choice. I am sure your parents and friends will help you out as much as they can.
Also, I think it’s a good idea you both move back in with your parents, and just go see eachother when it’s best. Maybe you two need a break from eachother, so seeing eachother every so often will let your relationship heal.
Talk to your boyfriend about his money spending issues too. Get hi mto relize if you guys are going to keep the baby, you guys are going to need everything you guys can get, and that means he’s going to have to manage his money.
If you ever need someone to talk to, message me I will listen.
Please update us on what you decide to do.
Good luck <3 !!