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A Story of Hope, Courage, and New Beginnings

Greetings from South Africa: A story received from one of our affiliated pregnancy centres touched me so much that I wanted to share it with you, as it captures the essence of hope and love that we strive to nurture in our community.




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Lesson About Her Unborn Baby’s Life

A pregnant girl not ready for parenthood, struggles to reconcile that her life will change forever. She resorts to ending her pregnancy. Her mother makes one last desperate plead to save the unborn baby’s life.




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I’m Pregnant Conversation with my Parents

Telling your parents “I’m pregnant” can be a challenging conversation but approaching it with preparation can make it easier. Here are some points to help you have the conversation. StandUpGirl has resources to guide your pregnancy journey.




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More Real Stories

A Catch-up

Well! After a number of times trying to write extra huge life-story blogs and them not working, I have a lot to say (I think). I need to vent....

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PLEASE GIVE ADVICE!!!!!!!

Hi. Well, I'm almost 16 and pregnant, but the doctor said I may not be able to carry my kids. Yes, it's twins and they are precious to me but...

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About me!

So I'm 16 years old and a Junior in High School. And I was with a guy for 5 years until I found out he cheated on me. When we were together, I got...

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hi please help xxx

Hi, I am 20 years old and have a 19-month-old child. I have just found out that I am pregnant again and I really do not know what to do with it. The...

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so now i wonder

So I wonder now what to do. How to move on, how to live my life with such a sin. I ask God for forgiveness yet I wonder if I really am forgiven....

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lost again!!

Hi... I'm 23. I have just found out that I'm 7 weeks pregnant... Although my initial reaction was to have an abortion...as I'm not with the father...

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why would u hurt me

Why did you hurt me? You were like my brother, I've known you since I was 5. Why couldn't you just go away? You knew it was wrong. Why did u rape me...

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HELP!!! im terrified

I'm 17 years old. I have a year-old son named Logan and I'm pregnant with twins. IDK what to do. I'm really scared, but I can't just leave my babies...

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no.

I'm writing this for my own closure. I found this site before I aborted my baby. I read a couple of things on here, but I didn't want to read a lot....

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Understanding.

I got back from my boyfriend's yesterday after staying there the weekend and over Valentines Day. He lives pretty far away now, so it's every couple...

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arrgghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I was on the pill but kinda got knocked up. I don't know who the dad is cos I've been sleeping with two guys. I told them both and they both want me...

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The Umbilical Noose

I wrote this one a little while after I lost my daughter to a m/c R.I.P N.T.V Cradled in the first room of life I am your protector before you...

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lied van die lappop

I recently unpacked some boxes that I had stored away in my closet and came across a poetry book that I owned in high school... Well, I still own...

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My journey

Hello, I am 18 years old. I have a five-month-old son Gabriel and he is absolutely perfect. Well, I am going to share with you my story... My...

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Holiday?

Tomorrow, I go to see my boyfriend. It's been a while since I've properly spent time with him... Since Christmas. Apart from that, he only came down...

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Labor Story

OK, so I started feeling a really tight cramping feeling on Sunday at 4:30 in the morning. I didn't tell my mom until 1:00 when I noticed they were...

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The First Blog. :]

Hi everyone! I'm 17 and I have an 8-month-old son named Trevor. I got pregnant when I was 16. I was 14 when I met Trevor's father and it was a...

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Disney

So I took my daughters to Disney this weekend and while standing in line at the Dumbo ride (my two-year-old asking me every two seconds if it was...

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Adoption

I want to educate the world. I want to educate women. When you are pregnant, you have a choice. You must choose life or death. Choosing life does...

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just found out

I just found out that I am pregnant. I am the happiest woman in the world - OK, one of the happiest ones. I am sure there are a million others who...

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Arguments.

Okay, so I've had my first meeting with my counselor. He's nice and seemed really considerate. I got upset a lot. It was so hard explaining the...

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a litle about me

I'm 16 years old. I have an amazing boyfriend who loves and supports me and I'm 5ft tall, brown hair, brown eyes. Family means everything to me. Not...

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