Hi… I’m 23. I have just found out that I’m 7 weeks pregnant…
Although my initial reaction was to have an abortion…as I’m not with the father and I never considered even having children… I have always done a lot of traveling and wanted to go and travel some more so it just didn’t seem the right time to have a child in my life… But after having a consultation for an abortion and talking about it, it made the whole process seem real and I’ve decided to go ahead with this baby..

Although the father is really supportive, I mean we have been seeing each other since September on and off. We got on, but there just wasn’t that complete spark there…
So it just hasn’t worked out… He wants to be completely involved with the baby…
I think he forgets that I’m the person carrying this child. He’s talking about him, his family, and the baby, kind of talking down to me… Well, you won’t be able to be on your own with the baby at first… Just makes me believe maybe I can’t do this… My family is completely supportive…and would back me whatever…
I’m just a bit lost at the moment with what to do (again)…

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