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Well first, I’d like to say congrats on your pregnancy. Now, to the bad stuff:S : I think you shouldnt have dated your cousin’s ex, let alone get pregnant, but what it is done is done. You must live with the consequences:blush: …I guess you will just have to pray & put it in God’s hands because your family will probably judge you about it…but hopefully, they will focus on whats important: the new life of a family member. I think you should write your cousin a letter about how you feel about the whole situation & hopefully she forgives you. Good luck with everything 🙂
You should go to the emergency room to make sure nothing is wrong, Sometimes you spot when you`re pregnant . So you can be just spotting right now. As long as you arent having any cramps like you`re period or your back isnt hurting then you are perfectly fine. Just dont stress over it too much & everything will be okay. I’m here if you need to talk. I`ve had a miscarriage before so I know ALL about that type of stuff & LOTS more because I feel as if I`ve been to hell & back. So if you ever need to talk…I’m here.
Congrats on ur pregnancy though.:woohoo:
NO. TO THE NO. TO THE NO.
iTS NOT POSSiBLE THAT YOU CAN BE PREGNANT BY ORAL SEX…AND iF YOU CAN BE…PLEASE TELL ME WHEN THEY DiSCOVERED iT CUZ i NEED TO KNO!!!!iF YOU’RE GiViNG iT & HE EJACULATES iNTO YOUR MOUTH…iTS STiLL NOT POSSiBLE BECAUSE THE SPERM WOULDNT PASS THROUGH YOUR REPRODUCTiVE SYSTEM…iT WOULD PASS THROUGH YOUR DiGESTiVE SYSTEM…THE SPERM WOULD DiE…
i DONT RECOMMEND YOU DO ORAL SEX BECAUSE iTS NOT SAFE & A PENiS iSNT SUPPOSED TO GO iNTO THE MOUTH…AND NEiTHER iS A VAGiNA:P
YES, A LOT OF WOMEN GET SHARP PAiNS & SOMETiMES THEY FEEL BABY MOVEMENTS TOO…i SUGGEST YOU GO TO THE DOCTOR THEY CAN TELL YOU AS EARLY AS 2 WEEKS
i HOPE EVEYTHiNG WORKS OUT WELL FOR YOU!;)
HI SWEETiE! WELL LET ME START OUT BY SAYiN CONGRATS ON UR BABY BOY. i CAN ONLY iMAGiNE WHAT UR GOiNG THRU…MY BABY’S DAD WASNT THERE WHEN i WAS PREGNANT & i STRESSED SO MUCH iT CAUSED ME TO LOSE MY BABY [AUGUST 28, 2006]…iT WAS A GiRL…i WAS SO DEVASTATED & ALL i GOT FROM MY BABY’S DAD WAS AM i OKAY & FOR ME TO CALL HiM LATER ON THAT NiGHT…i CALLED…HE DiDNT ANSWER…THAT LET ME KNO HE DiDNT CARE ABOUT ME! SO i JUST HAD TO LET HiM GO…SLOWLY…WE’VE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR 3 WEEKS NOW…i’M SO GLAD i GOT HiM OUT OF MY LiFE…BECAUSE HE WASNT WORTH iT…AND JUST LiKE YOUR BABY’S DAD…HE iSNT WORTH THE PAiN & SUFFERiNG & NOW YOUR BABY iS PAYiNG FOR iT…DONT BLAME iT ON YOURSELF BECAUSE HE iSNT BEiNG A REAL MAN & BEiNG THERE FOR YOU…BLAME iT ON WHOEVER RAiSED HiM! HiS MOM? HiS DAD? MEN ARE RAiSED NOT TO CARE…SO THEY LOSE GOOD THiNGS WHEN THEY DONT EVEN REALiZE iT. YOU JUST HAVE TO LET HiM GO FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR SON. BELiEVE ME WHAT ONE MAN WONT DO ANOTHER WiLL…ANOTHER MAN WiLL LOVE YOU 10 TiMES MORE THAN UR BABY’S DAD WHEN YOU LET HiM GO! HE WiLL LOVE YOUR SON EVEN MORE THAN UR BABY’S DAD WiLL TOO…EVERYTHiNG WiLL BE OK…i BET YOU WiLL FEEL 100% BETTER WHEN YOUR SON GETS HERE & HE WiLL COMPLETE YOUR LiFE…THE ONLY MAN A WOMAN CAN TRUST iS HER SON. REMEMBER THAT SWEETiE…JUST PRAY…GOD WiLL TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHiNG JUST TRUST & BELiEVE iN HiM…HE iS HERE FOR YOU…YOU KNOW WHAT? A GiRL NAMED SHANA WHO iS ALSO ON THiS SiTE ONCE TOLD ME WHEN i WAS GOiNG THROUGH A LOT THAT i AM A STRONG TOWER & iTS GONNA TAKE MORE THAN HiM TO KNOCK ME DOWN…SHOW HiM UR STRONGER WiTHOUT HiM…BECAUSE RATHER YOU SEE iT OR NOT…YOU ARE…iN THE END YOU WiLL BE HAPPY WiTH YOUR SON…AND WHOEVER WiLL LOVE YOU BETTER THAN HiM.
i’M HERE iF YOU NEED ANYONE TO TALK TO.
i HOPE EVERYTHiNG WORKS OUT WELL FOR YOU!!
Post edited by: acas, at: 2006/11/21 02:17
you sound pretty prego to me. you might want to go to the doctor & get that checked out. The sooner the better.
I hope everything works out for you,
Tiffany
No you’re mom doesnt have the right to say ANYTHING! I mean dont get me wrong she is your mom…but technically by law since you are pregnant, you are an adult until you have the baby & after you have it your mom signs for everything as far as your medical things, but its your baby, your body…. she is your mother…not your baby’s mother.
I hope everything works out for you!
TiffanyPost edited by: acas, at: 2006/11/18 17:19
i’M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT. i MiSCARRiED MY BABY. i MiSS MY BABY A LOT TOO & ASK GOD TO SEND ME ANOTHER ONE ALTHOUGH i DiDNT PLAN MY PREGNANCY iT MAKES ME WANT ANOTHER BABY. BUT i’M BETTER OFF KNOWiNG THAT MY BABY iS WATCHiNG OVER ME & HER NO GOOD DADDY:P THAN US WATCHiNG OVER HER. i LOVE HER & MiSS HE A LOT BUT i KNOW SHE iS BETTER OFF WiTH GOD! GOD PiCKED MY BABY TO BE AN ANGEL! 😉
E-MAiL ME iF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK SWEETiE!
MUCH LOVE & SUPPORT,
TiFFANY
CONGRATS! NOW ALL YOU HAVE TO DO iS WAiT & PRAY FOR YOUR LiTTLE SUNSHiNE TO ARRiVE!
MUCH LOVE & SUPPORT
TiFFANY:P
Totally normal! Lots of girls dont have symptoms & have no clue that they’re pregnant until like their 3rd month…sometimes 6 months….you better hope u dont get any symptoms! It sucks:sick:
Please don’t do it!
GOD PUT THAT BABY IN YOUR TUMMY FOR A REASON…IF HE DIDNT WANT IT TO BE THERE…HE WOULDNT HAVE PUT IT THERE! ITS MORE THAN JUST SEX…ALL THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON & THERE IS A REASON UR PREGNANT…YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IF YOU ABORT…IF YOU DONT ABORT…8 MONTHS FROM NOW YOU’LL KNOW…AND WILL BE TRULY BLESSED….A BABY CANNOT STOP YOU FROM DOING ANYTHING YOU WANNA DO…
DONT DO IT! PLEASE!
Post edited by: acas, at: 2006/11/16 15:13
Hi Ashley…I know right now it may seem as if you ruined your life…but every child is a blessing. Although you were doing things a young girl shouldnt and maybe things havent turned out the way you planned…your just gonna have to grow up & keep your head up about it. I know you may feel scared & all you want to do is cry…but the worst thing has already happened and you must go on & live your life…you and your baby…All things happen for a reason…rather good or bad…maybe this will teach you a lesson…we learn from our mistakes but make sure you dont make the same mistake again & keep pregnant after you have the baby…Stressing yourself out will not help…it will just make matters worse for you & your unborn child…crying never solved anything…you just need to pray for the healthy of your unborn child & ask God to help you in each & every way he can…He said he will never leave us nor forsake us…so he’s here for you even if everyone else turns their back on you [hopefully that doesnt happen] Jus stop stressing…you’ll make it…whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger…I promise
I hope things turn out well & keep us updated about your little one…
Love, Tiffany
well sweetie…yes it will be hard…but there are all types of programs that young mothers could enter until they get on their feet. I’m totally against abortions so I’d tell you thats a NO NO but adoption is another option…but more than likely when you get older you would want to gain custody over your child again so that will be kind of hard for you to go thru it. I’m not a young mother but a lot of girls I kno who are say its worth it. When they look at their kids they couldnt imagine killing them or giving them away…so before you make any sudden decisions make sure you think about all the options as well as the consequences.
I wish you the best of luck
I hope everything turns out good.Tiff
You sound pretty pregnant. You should go to the doctor. Jus to make sure.
Hope everything works out for you;)
Sweetie you are better off getting out of that relationship. He is abusive to you? then he will hurt your kids. I kno you want to best for your children. What is best for you right now really doesnt matter. Maybe he wasnt your soul mate. Sometimes God puts different people in our lives to make us realize certain things. But its up to you to find out what it is. He doesnt know how good he has it. Leave him alone. Let him be that other girl’s problem. Karma is a b&%&^ and he will learn that. Try not to stress about it because its not good for the babies & I know losing one of them or both of them would hurt even worse [ive been there] so just leave him be & worry about you…because he isnt…
Best wishes & I will pray for you & your kids 🙂
well I agree because I have seen pictures too. Woman getting abortions at 6 months and stuff & the baby is just about fully grown. I am against abortions too but everyone has their own reasons & opinions to it. But most girls regret it because they want their babies eventually. Like me…I miscarried & I cry for my baby all the time…while somebody out there is killing theirs…it hurts when you think about it…but things happen for a reason.
I think your just excited about the baby & cant really get it off your mind & you probably think that you have to eat all of the time just cause your eating for two…but its not really like that…you should try reading like some baby names books 🙂 or watch a really boring movie! lol…sleeping in really cold rooms makes me sleepy…maybe cut up the a/c a little bit 🙂 lol…but I hope you find a way to get more sleep…cuz its needed! 🙂
Yea a lot of girls need to read this! ESPECIALLY MY 17 YR OLD PREGNANT SISTER WHO DOESNT CARE ABOUT N*E THING!
If you are pregnant & regret your abortion…keep the baby! Its a blessing!!!! Your BF may not know it now… but you gotta show him…it might take him to lose you & your baby for him 2 know it!
Best wishes
There is nothing wrong. The baby was probably turned in a position that the doctors couldnt hear it. When we are pregnant we seem to over react sometimes & are very emotional. Try not to think of worse case scenario & just have fun being pregnant!!!! 🙂
Yea its pretty normal…the symptoms of pregnancy wont go away for like another 2 weeks or so…or whenever the baby is completly out of your body.
