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if you want to keep your baby then keep it! beleive me an abortion is one of the few things in your life you can never ever take back. u will live with it every day and once your due date comes around you will be miserable. its your body. no one can take your child out of it. no matter waht people try to say or convince you- stay strong for your baby. its living off you and relies on you, moms, decision. i told my parents through a note. i knew i would cry the whole time so i wrote a letter explaining that i understood what i had done. and now want to take responsibility for it. i wanted my miracle to have the best life possible as did my parents for me when they had me. expect them to be upst. but u may be suprised. my dad just sat up told me to stop crying and hugged me. i was sure he would shoot me, but he supported me. in your note explain what you expect of ur parents-support- because its the only way you will be able to stabily get through. good luck! let me know how it goes.
give your department of homeland security a call. If you dont know who to call or the phone number y ou can call your library and ask for it or even 411 or police station. I dont know where you live- but i live in oregon and the waiting list for help with a home is two years. its very long in a lot of states becasue there are so many people requesting it. check it out though. call dhs of your county and they can transfer you to someone who can answer your questions. good luck!:)
you should really talk to the police again. ask for someone diferent than u talked to before. thats bs. i have heard of people getting them against their own husbands!!! If ur in danget they shouldnt deny you of it. but it wont stop him from coming. what you should do is tape the threats or save the emails and show it to the police and see what morethey can do for you. good luck to you and your little precious baby.
~Melaniei got my period for a day a month into my pregnancy too. it was weird. but it can happen. and the baby is healthy still, it was just a loto f spotting and cramping.
definately try a test, but usually symptoms dont arise until after two weeks of being pregnany. the stress over this can also be delaying your period.
hey thats my birthday! Try taking some classes. they have birthing classes at your hospital and newborn care classes. theyre very helpful. also go to the library and they have tons of books on pregnancy that clue you in on all your questions. that helped me so much.
good luck
~Melanieya ifelt the exact same way a few weeks ago.it hurt to even walk. i was so scared. but i called the doctor and they said its totally normal and just to use a heating pad or take a tylenol. the reason its hapening is because your baby is growing it is pushing your internals out of the way (ouch). so its going to hurt. but i would definately call a nurse line just to double check since your farther then me 🙂
the doctor did tell me too about the vein in your back, adn that sleeping on your back isnt the best idea cause it can interrupt blood flow.
You should call a nurse advice line. They will give you the best answer on how to help ease them with out hurting the baby
Mine arent painful, But I am 23 weeks too and the kicks make me nautious if she continuously does them.
i am going through some of the same situations.l have even gone to talkto an attorney. your best bet would be to scedule a consultation (there are some free ones) with an attorney in your area (since i dont know your states laws) and talkto them about it. it helped me so much. calmed me down a lot. but if your the mom the bottom line is he cant take full custody no matter what unless he has a reason (which usually is heavy drugs or alchohol) and hopefully your not any of those. but i would say talk to an attorney and not listen to your friends or him. he is just a guy who thinks he has power over everything. hun you carried your baby in you for 9 months and he is more a part of you then dad. most courts grant sole custody to mother and visitation to fathers. and if he leaves state you even have a chance of getting full custody so that you can take care of the child. good luck. best wishes.
~Melanieshe is very right. just be nice to them. let them talk the bad. court will look at that. i was going to take the paternal dad to court too until i found out he wasnt the real dad. do everything you can to make yourself look better. if your still in school-get awsome grades. go to parenting classes, pick up more hours at work and start saving money. show you want this baby!!! You are carrying this child, they cant just take it away without a reason, give the court a reason for it to stay with you! Good luck to you and your little boy.
i havent had the baby.i am 4 months. i am thinking about adoption now. i dont know what to do. I dont want this baby to go through all this. I just watn to love it. i really do. but i do not want him around. at all.
I am keeping my baby. I may not be 100% financially reaady but I am ready to take on the miracle that is inside of me. good luck
Wow. I thought I was the onyl one in this situation. I am 17 and am about 15 weeks pregnant. I love this baby inside of me with all my heart, but the dad is being such a pricka bout it. He is treating this like its a pet or something. His girlfriend is telling me how she is going to be its stepmom (trying to hurt me by telling me she will be the mom) and its so hurtful. He is telling me that he is going to come and get this baby when ever he feels like it because he is paying child support. so what? I am going to b e paying for way more then just the 100 or 200 he will pay a month. I will also be carrying this baby and for the first year it cant be iwthout its mother. Im scared. But we are going to fight back. And so can you. get evidence that his family is not stable and would not give this child a fair upbringing. I am so scared for my baby to go in the hands of my ex, he wont treat it the way a child needs to be treated.
