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A Poem For You

 Dear Becky -- God has blessed me with 2 beautiful little girls. Ever since I was a teenager I wanted to be a mom. I was married at 25 and then...

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behind my parents back

Behind My Parents Back

I was afraid to tell my parents because of all the shame involved especially with being brought up in a Christian family but, eventually I did and while they were disappointed there was nothing they could do to change the situation.

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life is complicated

It’s Complicated

My story is complicated and hurtful, but I want to share it because no one deserves to be dehumanized nor alienated because of who they are, what...

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happy with having a baby and not abortion

My Baby Changed Everything

Ok, when I found out I was pregnant it was in June of 2003 and I was 19 years old (I was three months). So, luckily I was out of high school. But...

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Moving Too Quickly

Hello Becky. My name is Breanne, I'm 18 years old, a freshman in college, and just lucky to be here right now. When I was 16, and a junior in...

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alarm clock stomach

Goodbye Baby Boy

  < Jan.20,2004> I woke up at 5 am. I got sick one more time on the way to Cincinnati. They gave me an I.V. and told me my iron was down...

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Hello, my name is Kendra I am almost 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have not yet had sex but we want to but we also want to have a baby...

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So Not Worth It

I looked around me, woman around me , with no feeling in their eyes – while mine prickles with close tears.  They sit there laughing and joking...

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feeling alone after abortion

Walking into the Clinic

Hi my name is jenna and 3 weeks ago i went through an abortion. I hate myself for it and wanted to tell others to really make them think about...

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