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I am 12 weeks pregnant and I have been to the doctor and had a ultrasound and I am getting cramps as well. I did ask the doctor and he stated "Some women do get cramps that feel like menstrual cramps." He also said it is common and it should stop in between 3-4 months. I was also concerned but everything is fine with my baby. If you are still worried contact a doctor. You really need a doctor to check on the baby and you at this time. 😉
I am 19 years old and 9 weeks pregnant. I currently have a two year old with my baby’s father. We broke up last year becuase he had gotten some other female pregnant and I couldn’t take it. We still were messing around off and on while we both were in other relationships. I found out I was pregnant March 8, 2006 and informed him. He started actin crazy because I guess he didn’t want his girlfriend to find out. He wants me to get an abortion but, I just can’t do it. At first I was but, I realized I can’t . It is just not me. He is really upset and it is affected how he treats me and his first born daughter. He changed towards her and It hurts to see it. I don’t know what to feel about him anymore. I just keep on moving on with my life. I take care of my daughter and when this baby comes out I will take care of that one too. One day he will realize what he is missing. You just stay strong. A baby is a beautiful gift. Seeing my daughter smile changes my whole mood each day.
That is good that you are waiting. I am very proud of you. But, some girls have situations in there life where they think they need a male in there life. Like my situation, I am 19 years old. I never had I father figure in my life so I used to yearn for any male attention. I also was tought just to wait until you are married to have sex. I never was tought what can happen to you if you do just don’t do it at all. I beleive if I could have just sat down and talked to someone about me and my feelings instead of just being told not to have sex and to wait. Alot of things probably would have been prevented. But, I was 16 years old and a Junior in highschool when I became pregnant with my daughter. If I could turn back the hands of time I would be pregnant again. I am proud of my daughter. She changed my life. I graduated highschool I am also in college, I also have a excellent job as a transcriptionist. I beleive If I didn’t have my daughter I would have been headed in the wrong direction. But, I guess some people have there own opinion and perspective about things. I am not promoting teen pregnancy but, I believe things happen for a reason. 😉
Hi, with my first child I didn’t feel anything or get any symptoms until I was 6 months pregnant. I believe you are still pregnant. You may be just focusing on it too much. I considered it being lucky because I didn’t get all the nausea, sore boobs… etc. Jus don’t stress.. everything is going to be okay! 🙂
You should let your girlfriend know that you will be there for your baby. That will give her some kind of sercurity. You and your girlfriend and the family should get together and talk about the situation. It’s normal for you to be scared. Me and my boyfriend went through the same thing. Once we talked about it we felt better. Once everything was out and everyone new about it you start to feel better too. 🙂
