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I dont understand why women who arent in stable relationships want babies, and i dont really get why some think that its a good idea to have sex with random people just to get a baby, because in all honesty i think thats really really really dumb (but those are the kind of girls that make Maury interesting LOL)
anyways my first 2 children werent planned i made the choice to have unprotected sex with a cheater, loser immature stupid guy. It was a bad choice but i have 2 beautiful children because of bad choices so i dont regret that.
anyways my third child was planned, we tried for over a year to have her, yes i was 17, but i was engaged, i was in a good place, with a good guy with a good job, supporting myself and my children. Some women just have this maternal urge, its pretty normal, im sure a lot more young women have this desire to have children and be a mother, but they dont want to do it just yet. I would say its totally normal though, girls grow up playing house and being told they will be mommies…..
I just wanted to send you a million hugs and tell you how very sorry i am, i know that cant even begin to make it any better, but i am truley sorry for your loss
if you ever want to talk or anything let me know
My son Rocco is delayed, hes in speech therapy and is testing bellow his age for cognitive and intellectual skills, were currently in the process of having him diagnosed.
i know how you feel its hard to leave the kids, my husbands mom watches the kids while im at school and even though i trust her and i know my kids are well taken care of its still hard to leave them, i cant wait till i graduate so i can be home with them full time like ive always wanted to be.
It does get easier with time, and i love the fact that my kids are so close to their grandparents.
I switched both my kids to cows milk (whole milk) at a year old. With my first daughter i tried to take away the bottle a little at a time but it was hard because my son was still having the bottle, so it was hard, and i usualy just ended up giving in, so once Rocco turned 2 i just took all the bottles away all together and that worked a million times better then trying to take the bottle away a little at a time
Hey there hunny!! I can so relate to you, i was 14 when i had my daughter, my family was not very supportive either and i honestly think that they didnt accept that i was having a baby until she was born, so it might take your family a long time, its hard for moms to get the idea around their 14 year old having a baby, to her your always going to be her baby (even if you dont think so) and you will understand that once you have a baby too, i know i would be so upset if my daughter got pregnant young, because i want so much more for her, even though i am so proud of myself and i love my life and you certainly can make something great of your life even if you have a child young (so i dont want you to take this a negative thing, you will make it and you will do great things and achieve everything you want to and never forget that)
anyways its so awesome that your bf;s family is supportive, my bf was also very supportive when i told him i was pregnant (both times actually but things changed – which a totally different novel) its really important that your surround yourself with people who love, care and support you, because your an amazing person and you dont deserve to have all the negative stress put on you, and people who are being negative dont deserve your time.
As for your mom wanting you to get an abortion, she can want it all she wants but in most states (and provinces) though im not familiar with the laws in your state, your mother cannot force you to have an abortion, though personally i am against abortion (for me) i firmly believe that its is YOUR body and YOUR choice and if you want to continue with this pregnancy then no one can tell you otherwise.
Good luck with your choice, its very difficult and i wish you the best of luck in what ever you end up deciding
– Gabriella
if you ever want to talk please feel free to email me
Much Love
