katjah87

honestly i think the best thing u should do is tell your mom because if u havent gotten ur period and ur tests are comin out negative then she should be aware of this. if ne thing is wrong with u (God forbid) she should kno about it because shes probably the only one that would ever want the best for u. and if theyre all comin out negative then the doctors should look into that a little bit further. but yeah u should tell ur mom, basically one of the last people to kno i was pregnant was my mom and i regreted it so bad not tellin her because she was more upset and hurt becasue i didnt tell her than my actuall pregnancy. good luck with everything

wow i was in that same situation. im 19 and a sophmore in college and im 3months pregnant. im also christian and my mom or ne one expected this from me and they were dissapointed at first. but what i did was i told my aunt which i knew would take it better than my mom and she sat my mom down and talked to her. you can do something like that, u can either be present or just talk to ur mom one on one after she already knows. i also sat down and talked to my pastors about it and everyones real supportive. i thought that everyone was gonna hate me and talk badly about me but none of that happend. especially within the church. i got alot of love from them. you just have to be mature and confront the situation u kno. u already made the choice to have ur baby which is a blessing so talkin to ur mom as soon as possible is the best thing. i was considering abortion too but i came across this site that really changed my mentality. even if ur parents are a little upset now…dont worry theyre still gonna love u and support u no matter what especially if u come from a christian family.

yeah i agree with the person below me. i thought my parents where gonna kill me but even though my mom was disapointed she really supports me and she supported me from the start. theyre ur parents theyre gonna love u regardless.