jasmine7312007

I think this is a very hard situation to be placed in and I wish you luck. I can’t imagine having a three month old and finding out I am pregnant again. It will be very hard and very rought and I will not venture out to say that having an abortion is horrendous and you will regret it because I do not know you or fully in depth know your situation.
I do know fear. I think you should speak to as many open minded people as possible in order to get an unbiased view. I unlike many others will not readily tell you not to have an abortion but I think you should really consider the reprecussions of any decision you may make, that will affect you, your spouse and your children.
I will pray for you and your family and hope you are able to seek guidance in this time of need.

So it seems you want to be pregnant…..
Just take another test and cross your fingers.
Ignore the advice from below… Some people have to go through alot and having a baby young is always hard but all of us aren’t or havent had the same lives and others so generalizations are unwarranted.

It will become obvious soon enough.
I know that sometimes it freaks you out and you begin to make up possibilities. There have been several occasions where men have had children after vasectomies. They are not 100 percent guarenteed, and yet it is horrible when yuo are that 1 percent b/c it makes your spouse think you have been unfaithful.
Tell your husband, things will be hectic for a while but you should be able to with medical counsel explain to him that these things do happen and you have been a faithful and loving wife.
Good luck

Well I was 6 weeks pregnant when i began dicharging the dark reddish brown blood. It wasn’t implantation b/c i was obviously already pregnant but I went to the doctor b/c i was in denial.
I would just say go to the doctor, and any medicines you take that decrease the efficiency of bc make it very possible for you to get pregnant.
Good Luck

Taken from American Pregnancy Association:

[b][b][b]Tracking Ovulation:
A woman’s monthly cycle is measured from the first day of her menstrual period until the first day of her next period. On average, a woman’s cycle normally is between 28-32 days, but some women may have much shorter cycles or much longer ones. Ovulation can be calculated by starting with the day the last menstrual period (LMP) starts or by calculating 12-16 days from the next expected period. Most women ovulate anywhere between Day 11 – Day 21 of their cycle, counting from the first day of the LMP. This is what many refer to as the "fertile time" of a woman’s cycle, because sexual intercourse during this time increases the chance of pregnancy. Ovulation can occur at various times during a cycle, and may occur on a different day each month.[/b][/b][/b]

[b]The Ovulation Cycle Divided into Two Parts:
The first part of the ovulation cycle is called the follicular phase. This phase starts the first day of the last menstrual period (LMP) and continues until ovulation. This first half of the cycle can differ greatly for each woman lasting anywhere from 7 days until 40 days. The second half of the cycle is called the luteal phase and is from the day of ovulation until the next period begins. The luteal phase has a more precise timeline and usually is only 12-16 days from the day of ovulation. This ultimately means that the day of ovulation will determine how long your cycle is. This also means that outside factors like stress, illness, and disruption of normal routine can throw off your ovulation which then results in changing the time your period will come. So the old thought that stress can affect your period is only partly true. Stress can affect your ovulation which ultimately determines when your period will come, but stress around the time of an expected period will not make it late—it was already determined when it would come 12-16 days earlier![/b]

can’t ever be too ready

Well I am at a lost as to what is going on with you. My friend who I just asked to be my child’s godmother was anxiously awaiting her period since September…… Well she has all the classic pregnancy sypmtoms that you listed, fuller breast, darkening of the areoli and gaining weight….
Your pregnancy test could simply be a false postive/negative or you may have done it incorrectly (I took ten and believed the first one that told me negative)
I went to the Dr and got a blood test and had to believe that.
When you go to your doctor explain thoroughly what you have said here and DO NOT LEAVE without an answer whether pregnant or otherwise. It can be intimidating when at the doctor’s office but just say what you must to get the answers you need.
I wish you luck and hope you are just pregnant and nothing more serious
jasmine

Hi,
I am 22 and 11 weeks pregnant and am nervous. When i went to college a friend of mine discovered she was 3 mos pregnant. Her parents kicked her out and she moved in with her boyfriend. She has since graduated with honors and is on her way to Yale Medical School.
Your life isn’t over. Pregnacy changed your life but it doesn’t ruin it or end it, your life will be different should you decide to keep the baby but it is not over by any means.
Good Luck