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hi hun, hugs and a warm welcome to SUG. There’s nothing stupid about needing advice and support, I’m sorry that you find yourself in this position and without a support system close to home- you should applaude yourself for standing up and speaking out:)
My first question would be if you want to keep the baby and also of you’ve considered adoption. Abortion is not always as final as it seems.
I cannot stress how important it is to speak to your SO about how you feel about this pregnancy and about your options.Please keep us posted on your situation and how you’re doing, coping and feeling.
Peace and Light,
Evangeline.Hi there,
try getting a medical cert from your gp 🙂 mine gave me one without filling in that I’d had an ab.
Good luck.Hi and welcome to SUG:)
There is always a possibility that you could be pregnant if the condom breaks/slips off. You’ll have to play the waiting game untill it’s time for AF, some hpts can detect pregnancy upto 2 days before AF is due, but wait untill yr late…
try not to stress too much:) it does make you paranoid and see symptoms that aren’t really there.
Good luck and keep us posted!!!>>>HUGS<<< and welcome to SUG. I'm so very sorry that yr feeling this way, you must remember that yr a strong, brave young woman that has made an enormous and life changing decision... YOU CAN HANDLE ANYTHING:) I think your daughter would be better off with one parent who loves her unconditionally than have a second parent who doesn't really want to be there and floats in and out of her life. I wish you the very best of luck and hope that you'll keep us posted on both your and baby's progress. Take care. Peace and Light, Evangeline.
I was wondering the same thing, glad to know there’s some s.a ladies here. I’m Evangeline and I’m from Cape Town 🙂
You gotta learn to be assertive:) You can stand up for yourself without being rude. Tell him that even though you know he means you no harm, it makes you uncomfortable and you’d like him to stop…
Stay safe
Evangeline.🙁 >HUGS< I am very sorry to hear about your little one. I'm glad that you take comfort in knowing that he/she is safe inthe arms of the creator. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Peace and light, Evangeline.
Always trust your gut feeling, it’s a problem with us women, we don’t wanna appear rude, so we walk into a situation that feels wrong/ uncomfy just so we don’t hurt anyone’s feelings. Play it safe and follow yr instincts.
>big hugs< I know how yr feeling, it's not an easy decision to make but you did what you thought was best for you at that time. I think you'lll benifit from speaking to someone, maybe a close relative or a therapist who's familair with P.A.S.S and can help you with yr healing process. I've also just gone back to therapy and hopefully it'll work this time. Don't give up, sometimes you need to "shop around" for a therapist who is a good match for you and your needs. I hope you'll keep us updated on how yr doing. Peace and light, EvangelineHi, welcome to the site! Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy and keep us updated on your and baby’s progress:)
Peace and light,
Evangeline.I think alot of the girls here, including myself can relate to how you’re feeling…I know that doesn’t change anything or fill the void, but I hope that in some way that it offers you a little peace.
I hope you’ll keep us updated on your healing process and I look forward to reading more posts from you.Peace and light,
EvangelineI’m very happy that I’ve found this thread, I’m 19 and 16 months ago I had an abortion… It’s the biggest mistake I’ve ever made and it haunts me every day. I thought that wanting a baby as desperately as I do was a sign that I was going off the deep end, but I’m glad to know that I am not alone in feeling this way.
I am very glad for those of you that have conceived again and I wish you all a happy and healthy pregnancy:)
