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you dont just “let a life go”… I dont know how the last abortion affected you emotionally but please, listen to your instincts and give this baby life. It is not wrong for you to want this baby, infact, its the most natural thing in the world.
Wishing you all the best
EvaHi Hun, I dont know if you’re trying to fall pregnant… but there are so many things that can make one believe that you are pregnant (trust me, I drive myself crazy every month lol). Best thing to do is take an hpt and then see where it goes from there.
Good Luck
Evaif all the tests that you took came up negative and then one showed a positive result a while after taking it AND you tampered with it (by the shaking) then it is probably a false positive…. to be one 100% sure, go for a blood test.
Best of luck
EvaNot everyone has morning sickness when they’re pregnant… but if your period is about three months late, I’d say that it’s time to take a test just to make sure, because if you are pregnant you’ll need to start taking care of your body and your baby.
Hope this helps
EvaIf you had a normal period, the cahnces are very slim…. take an hpt anyway, just to make 100% sure that things are ok. THere’s always a chance and it is possible to be pregnant and have a period (weird but true).
Godd Luck
EvaBecca is right… antibiotics and birth control are not a good combination. And there is always a chance that you can fall pregnant when having unprotected or even protected sex. THere can be any number of reasons to explain the symptoms, stress, a change in your diet and even excercising more than usual can make drastic changes in a woman’s cycle.
Just try and relax do the infamous two week wait and take an hpt if your period is late this month.
Wishing you all the best,
EvaBig Hugs coming yr way B. I know that there’s nothing one can say to make the pain any less or to answer all the question that you may have… Just know that you have made it through so much already and that you’ll make it through this too in time.
Prayers and positive thoughts.
Evalol omg!!!!!! well whatever happens, good luck 🙂 hope your labour goes smoothly and that your little man is healthy.
Holding thumbs for you.well, its true….. there is nothing pretty or easy about abortion. I dont understand how someone can be so stubborn if there are so many people sharing their experiences and pain and you just walk all over it…. Honestly, had I known what I was letting myself in for, I would have made different choices.
Klaudia, how is the pregnancy going? Have you found out the baby’s gender yet?Studying journalism part time and working in retail while I’m waiting to write exams.
Anyone have wedding plans for this year?Omg Iswaggalicious!!! This is so graphic, but it really does hit home. Such a powerful post. It had me in tears. I really hope that it gets through to someone who desperately needs to hear this. *thumbs up to you*
Hi sweetheart, I am so sorry that you’re going through all of this on your own. I’ve been there too and I know what it’s like. The easiest thing for you to is to share what you are feeling with someone close to you… It sounds to me like you are suffering from Post Abortion Stress Syndrome (PASS). It’s a very real thing, quite similar to PSTD. You’re boyfriend needs to be more supportive and understanding about what you’re experiencing right now.
Have you considered speaking to a therapist, you can decide if that works for you or not, but it’s worth a try and perhaps getting all these pent up emotions off your chest could be very helpfull.
There are also other ways to cope with grief, personally, I enjoy writing poetry and keeping a diary about my thoughts and feelings. I light a candle for my babies when I miss them and also on the annimisery of the day that I lost them. THere are many other things that can help you cope. You just need to look around and find something that works for you.Please let us know how you are doing and if things just get too heavy, click on my page if you need to vent, I’m always willing to help where I can.
Love and hugs
Evayou’ll just have to wait till AF decides to show up. Remember that ALL methods of birth control are flawed. The only sure way to prevent pregnancy and STDs is abstinence.
you cannot expect people to lie to you about what you’ll experience after an abortion, especially on a site that is prolife. There are so many emotions that are going to assualt you after the procedure… they may not start immedietly, but they will be there sooner or later. There’s nothing worse than waking up at two in the morning, hearing a baby crying and knowing that there’s no one in the house with you. You can call me crazy, but thats just one of the things that wont leave me after my termination.
If you are really this hellbent on messing yourself up, I’d recomend having a therapist on speed dial and carrying some heavy anti deppressants in your purse.Please dont say that no one told you so.
yoga should still be fine and some slow jogging… sont think that the weight lifting is such a bright idea though.
Good Luck with the pregnancy
Love Evadont give up!!! you’ve come so far already. if he isn’t man enough to face up to his responsibilities, then he doesnt deserve to be a father. you have enough to deal with as it is, so dont let his immaturity and indecisiveness push you into something that you dont really want to do.
I think that this meeting with your paernts is a very good idea 🙂 a very positive step into the right direction. I hope that it goes well.
Love EvaI think Valentina Torres for a girl is soooooo beautiful and Hollister for a boy, so unique 😀
Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!
Love Evaok, I’m sorry that the next few sentences from me are going to be harsh… but I think that someone here needs to say it. “A baby that is going to be in my way”?! What is up with that?!!!! YOU are the one who chose to have unprotected sex NOT that innocent little life that you are carrying around. And selfishly stressing about a modelling carear instead of the health and wellbeing of your unborn child.
You need to grow up and get a grip! Go and see a doctor, because if you really are pregnant and against abortion, there’s going to be a bump pretty soon and the last thing that you want is for someone to push you into an abortion when you are way past the “safe” point for one.
I think that the only sensible thing that I read here was that you’re opting for an adoption, because that baby definitely deserves someone who will love him/her and not see them as the biggest burden on their path.try buying an hpt for now and then take it from there…. if the results are positive, then you need to see a gp to confirm the results for you, also you will need to start taking prenatal vitamins, eating healthily and stopping any bad habits that you may or may not have… its important that you find out for sure so that you can take the proper steps to ensure that you have a safe and healthy pregnancy, as well as a healthy baby.
If you are not able to ask your parents to take you to see a gp, then perhaps you need to ask another adult that you trust or a guidence counsellor at school or something… you’ll also need to get yourself ready to tell them sooner or later… I’d suggest sooner, because the last thing you want is them hearing from someone else. Parents can be surprisingly understanding, even though initailly they may be a bit angry and disappointed.
I wish you all the best.
Love Eva
