[i]What i dont understand is if your too concerned about your partying days and how your body looks, why are you so far along in the pregnancy. Its too late to be thinking about an abortion. There are other alternatives such as adoption. From the sound of it… your mad at the baby for what its doing to your body? You put your self in this situation, you need to take control of it,before it is possibly too late for your baby to have a healthy, safe, and loving enviroment when it is born.