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It’s very hard to find out your pregnant like this~ I know. I chose an open adoption~ I’ve never regretted my choice. It’s been a blessing for everyone involved ~ especially my daughter. If you want to talk or need any advise I’m around. Please choose the life of your child~ even if you don’t chose to raise your child.
please remember not to let anyone push you into a choice you don’t want to make. You may be young but this is your body, your baby & you will live with whatever choice you make all of your life.
& at some point the who the dad is issue will have to be dealt with, I think it’ll help you if your prepared mentally/emotionally, that your going to have to tell. but if it can wait for now, I know you’ve already got a lot going on. Let it wait a bit if you can- you need to care for you & baby right now.vit. E oil is suppose to help. Emu oil too but I think it’s $$$. I think using it during pregnancy works best but after helps. they do fade with time…lots of time.
I agree don’t worry about the threats the dad’s making. They will probably come to nothing. & even so the fact that you’ve been on meds for over a year shows you are being responsible & not ignoring your health.
there are organizations all over the U.S. that are set up to help out this kind of situation…. emergancy & long term housing. If you’ve been paying her rent already, you have the ability to pay rent somewhere eles. Sliding scale housing does exsist for low income folks. Please look into it. It sounds like if you & your bf can become self sufficient, (even if you need help at fisrt) you will have a more stable home to bring your child into.
I suggest doing an internet search for local agencies who can help in this kind of situation.
