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A Story of Hope, Courage, and New Beginnings

Greetings from South Africa: A story received from one of our affiliated pregnancy centres touched me so much that I wanted to share it with you, as it captures the essence of hope and love that we strive to nurture in our community.




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Lesson About Her Unborn Baby’s Life

A pregnant girl not ready for parenthood, struggles to reconcile that her life will change forever. She resorts to ending her pregnancy. Her mother makes one last desperate plead to save the unborn baby’s life.




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I’m Pregnant Conversation with my Parents

Telling your parents “I’m pregnant” can be a challenging conversation but approaching it with preparation can make it easier. Here are some points to help you have the conversation. StandUpGirl has resources to guide your pregnancy journey.




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No Matter Where You Are

The gynecologist wasn't in that day, so his wife attended to me. She asked me a couple of questions, and then asked me to lie down on the bed. On...

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We heard the heartbeat

A few days later, I began to feel weird. Everything I smelt made my stomach upset and I just wanted to constantly vomit and I did. I thought that I...

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Golden Slumbers

A Father’s Love is a celebration of the important role fathers play in their children’s lives. Each artist’s heartfelt performance expresses their...

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Life As I Knew It

This is the story of how my son came to be. I was 19, he was 37, I thought that he was the one. He was my first and as I saw it, my last. It was...

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A rush of love

I went to the clinic for a consultant and my heart was pounding. Seeing my little buddle of joy on the screen, I had this rush of love for my baby....

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The first time

I told him and he was really supportive, but nobody else knew, not my mum or any member of my family. I went to the doctor's who confirmed I was...

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His parents said …

One morning, I woke up and I ran to the bathroom and threw up. I stayed home from school, thinking I just had the flu. I didn't even think about...

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A guy who was a lot older

I went to a birthday party. It was like my first time going to a real party. I met a guy who was a lot older than me. At that time he was 23, we...

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Dreams can come true

I had my son Damon at age 16. It was one of the hardest things I had ever done in my life. I dropped out of school when I was 3 months pregnant and...

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Waiting Can be Cool

Hey Lisa. I am 16 years old and I need some answers. I am thinking more and more every day I am pregnant. Can you help? Dearest Emily - I would love...

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Nick Cannon Offers Help

Nick Cannon, actor and popular singer who's music video "Can I Live" relates so well to so many visitors to this site, is offering to help young...

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Abortion and Preemies

Abortion Raises the Risk of Premature Delivery Later in Life: Women with a history of induced abortion were at higher risk of very preterm delivery...

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My Baby, My Angel, My Life

I came across your website while doing research for a school paper and I was inspired by the stories I have read. I wanted to share my story with...

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