Hey everyone…….. This is a new profile. I was on here as asdcb1221 but I kinda had login troubles. Soooo yeah here, I am on here…. I have been a member of this site for about 3 years…………..
At the age of 13, I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend’s (of 3 years) baby… He was happy when I told him but that happiness faded within a few months… I found out that he was cheating on me with another girl and had been doing so for the last year of our relationship. I was crushed and upset and I cried for days…. Then when I was 5 months into my pregnancy, I lost the baby…..
After I lost her, I started a downward spiral. I started cutting my wrists and I felt like there was nothing to live for…… but then now at 16, I have found the man of my dreams and I love him sooooo much… And he has a profile on here too…. Me and him have been together for 7 months and we are planning on being together longer.
If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here for you and also, he is here for you too…..
TTYL love all. Peace..!
It all started 6 months ago in November with this feeling I couldn’t shake. It was the feeling that I was pregnant and that I wouldn’t get my period that month. Really, I had the feeling that I was pregnant since me and my ex-boyfriend had un-protected sex. And the feeling only grew when the weeks in November rolled by. It was the second to last week of November and my boyfriend told me over MSN that he had ALREADY moved away from Ontario to Alberta, and that our relationship was over. I was devasted. He had been my first boyfriend and we had been dating for over 4 months. After he told me that he was now in Alberta, I told him I was pretty sure I was pregnant. He was shocked. He told me it was my decision on what to do about it.
Well, the first thing I did was take a pregnancy test. I had hidden it in a drawer in my room. Well, I took it first thing in the morning before I went to school. And that stupid lil pink sign was positive. I was soo scared. I always thought I would have a abortion when/if I had gotten pregnant before I was 18. Well November, turned into December, then Christmas holidays. And before I knew it, It was the first Monday back after holidays. Well, I woke up that morning and had horrible morning sickness. I just told my mom I must be catching the flu or something. And stayed home sick that day. I sleeped till almost 3 in the afternoon. The next day, I got sick again. Well, then I told my mom I thought I might be pregnant. Well she was upset , but mostly just concerned. On Thursday, she came home with a pregnancy test for me to take. I prayed that it would be negative but no, it was positive again, I was definitely pregnant. 2 weeks later, me and my mom had a heart to heart about it. I told her it had been my first time, but it wasn’t really. But that night, we decided we we’re keeping the baby, I was staying in school and i would always be living with them. It was a hard road to decide that but its the only decision I could make and not regret.
And to this day, I still don’t regret it.
I’m 18 and I found out that I was pregnant months ago. Me and my fiancé had been trying to get pregnant and when it happened we were thrilled, but now things have changed.
I’m 5 months pregnant and we can’t seem to get along. He tells me I’m mad at him 24/7 and that’s so not true. When we have problems, he doesn’t talk to me about it. He goes to his older sister. I read in his phone a few text messages that he sent her about our fights and they upset me. I don’t want things to be this way because I’m afraid we will fight when we have our baby and I don’t want the baby to sense that tension. I love him with all my heart but I’m worried that we aren’t going to last. I grew up for a few years without a dad and I don’t want my baby to not have a dad.
What do I do? Things seem to be getting worse. We say things that in the end, hurt one or both of us…
I just turned 17 on April 9th. I am 25 weeks pregnant.
When I first found out, like most other girls, I was terrified. My boyfriend, who is 18 years old, really didn’t want a baby and he was leaning towards an abortion. Which is completely against my beliefs. We talked more about what each of us wanted and honestly, I too thought about having an abortion. But those thoughts didn’t last long. I finally got the courage to tell my mom and it was a lot harder than I ever thought it could be. But she was pretty cool about the situation, upset and hurt, but still supportive. My boyfriend and I went to the hospital and got to hear the heartbeat and see my baby and I knew that this was going to be an amazing opportunity, 16 years old or not.
My boyfriend, my mom, and I have all been going shopping for baby stuff. My boyfriend has been going with me to all my doctor’s appointments and he is extremely supportive and really excited to be a daddy. I can feel my baby kick and everytime I feel that little baby kick, I am so glad that I chose to grow up and accept responsibility. There is nothing more amazing. My boyfriend is in the navy and I am finishing up high school. I know life is going to be tough but I’m willing to work it out. I can’t even describe the love I feel for this baby. I would do anything for her.
I wish the best of luck to everyone going through this, but don’t focus on the bad or the hard things. Think about all the great things this can mean. Think of the good changes and affects this has on your life, not the negative ones. Not only for you but for your baby as well.
I don’t see myself as a mother to my child but just another girl who had an abortion.
On 7th March 2008 was the day my world fell apart. I aborted my 2nd child at 11 weeks. I had my first baby August 2007 and got pregnant when I was on the pill. I was going to continue with the pregnancy to start with and was bleeding at 5 weeks and had an early scan. My partner would support me either way but it was up to me. I was very confused and emotional and didn’t think I would cope with 2 children under 2.
I rushed into my abortion and now I am full of regret, guilt, and hate. I had no counseling, which I wanted, and was not fully informed of the aftereffects. I am different and my life will never be the same. As I feel I killed my baby. I keep wondering what if, how far, etc. I want another baby so badly that I feel all I see is newborns and bumps and think that should be me. Remember I made my choice and now wish I could rewind. I feel alone and people just expect me to get over it. I can’t. My baby should still be with me, growing, but I decided to end that and I regret it.
Please think before you act. Abortion is very hard and should not be taken lightly. I am only 25 years old and I have to live with this forever.
Hi, I’m 15 and 2 weeks ago, I found I was pregnant for the second time. I am now 5 weeks pregnant. The first time I got pregnant was when I was 13 years old. I chose the option to get an abortion because I knew that I couldn’t take care of a baby at that age.
It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I cried for so long after the procedure was done. I felt like I did a horrible thing. Till this day, I feel that I did a horrible thing. I promised myself if I ever got pregnant again that I would not get an abortion.
Exactly two years later, here I am again, pregnant again and by the same guy. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years exactly in June and I love him to death and we live together with his parents. The only problem is that he is 4 1/2 years older than me. He is way older than me but he doesn’t act his age at all. I have been through a lot in my life, so my maturity level is a lot more than most girls should be at my age. So in reality, I don’t look or act 15. Most people think I’m 18.
He is now 20 yet he looks and acts like he is 16 or 17. I do believe you’re as old as you act and that age shouldn’t matter. Anyways, I don’t want him to get in trouble with the law for getting me pregnant. I have talked to my family and they said I can just tell them I don’t know who the father is and they will leave me alone. Is that true? But I don’t want some random person to find out and anonymously report him as a sex offender and then I would never be able to see him again and I can’t handle that. I don’t know what to do.
All I know is that I don’t want to get another abortion as much as all my friends are telling me to do so. I can’t go through that again. Please someone, give me some advice on what to do. This is an emergency! Thanks.
