Some think it’s so sweet when you have an abortion, but I must tell you girls that it really hurts.
I committed no abortion, but my baby was snatched away from me even before I had the chance to see him or her. I had a miscarriage.
To this day, I remember how happy I was waiting for my baby until the day that I underwent the ordeal after the doctor confirmed that I had lost my baby at 3 months of pregnancy.
I am strongly against abortion. I’ve seen people who face a lot of trauma after they have had one and it isn’t nice at all.
I’ve been trying to think of why God can be so unfair but there is never a correct answer.
So the next time you think of an abortion, please think twice.
So last week I found out I was pregnant.
It’s with a guy that I only started seeing a few weeks ago. We were safe but it was just one of those freak 0.1% chance things that has scared the hell out of me. I’m just not ready for it. Family is a massive deal to me and I really really want one… but when I’m older and with the right guy. I’m just starting my life at 21, have already paid for a $20,000 overseas trip around the world and am just starting my acting career. The guy is nice and has taken this the perfect way. He said he’d support me no matter what choice I made and that if I kept it, he’d move so that we could be closer. I feel selfish, so selfish. But I’m not ready to be a mum. To make matters worse, I’m touring with the show I’m in at the moment and am in a city far from my family and friends. I have a very understanding boss who offered to give me more time off but I declined it. I get a week off next week to visit family then and am seriously considering getting a medical abortion when I get home. Please help, the doctor said that because it’s only a few weeks along, that it’s still not even the beginning of the formation of my child yet. But I still feel like I am taking it’s life away. I don’t know what to do. Give up my life for this baby, or be selfish and do what’s right for me. I need help in this decision. No one I know, except my boss, knows what I’m going through so I don’t know what to do.
I don’t want to be a mother, I know I don’t. But can I live with the fact that I took something’s life away? Please help me 🙁
The story of my life doesn’t flow like what I planned for it to be. I didn’t even expect to be a mom as early as my age right now. Because when I was young, I’d decided and planned for these things that if I graduated from college with a good job waiting for me, I would help my parents in return for the times they raised me.
But now things have changed. I finally now realize that I can’t control everything. You can’t even predict what could possibly happen tomorrow…
When I was just a kid, I told myself I wouldn’t want to have a boyfriend. But when my mom left to work abroad and left us to my old-generation-minded grandma, I then started to rebel… My mom is the type of person who if you ask anything, there are always some conditions… Doesn’t it suck to think that for every ask you make, you’ll do something first before u can get it? My mom is very different from my father… My father has a wide and long patience… I love my dad..so much… He’s the person whom I run to when me and my mom had an argument or something. She would hurt me or something… It’s horrifying! But I get used to it… Oh… I nearly forgot to mention my younger brother who just turned 14 this day… He’s a mama’s boy. In our family, I was considered the black sheep. I just laugh when my mom teases me like that… I just fake a smile… But behind those fake smiles that I make, my heart bleeds… I’m not the type of girl who usually cries. I might be sensitive, but I got a lot of pride… My teachers even compared me to my mom, which made me eager to improve and excel more… Just to prove to them I’m just the improved her that they haven’t discovered yet. I love to study… Yes, I do… Cause somehow, that time, they were my inspiration… My mom just ignores my efforts… Cause she’s busy with my brother.. I respect those who respect me also…
But as the calendars were slowly torn… There were lots of changes that happened… I in my second-year life of high school started to get in trouble… I tried to try those things that should be avoided… Including those intercourses, liqueurs, cutting classes, going to school late and going home late, watching pornographic scenes. Sometimes I lack sleep and I don’t focus on my studies anymore… I wish I could fix it.. but I can’t… Having 5 boyfriends at the time… But not all of them get all of me… I still have some respect for myself in spite of my messes… Then Mom went home last year from Dubai… I tried to be nice even though I’m not that comfortable having her around the house…but she’s killing me! Before going to sleep, she always gets my cell phone… There are lots of house rules for me! Does this include not making over myself??!! Come on! And one time, when we talked to each other… She told me that my uncle predicted that I wouldn’t graduate high school. I’ll be pregnant, and that serves as a warning for me…
But now. Yes! You’ve predicted it right! Here I am now, a struggling young pregnant lady… Nobody is helping me except for myself and my boyfriend financially…
Hi, I’m 15 and I am not positive but I think I’m pregnant.
I don’t know where to get an actual test from to find out for sure and it’s like my stomach just isn’t the same. I’m very active, but right now, I don’t have the energy to do all the stuff like I used too.
Plz give me some thoughts.
I’m 19 and my boyfriend, the FOB (Father of the Baby) is 22. I am 5 1/2 weeks pregnant.
I have been seeing the FOB for about 6 months on and off and have only known him for 8 or 9 months total. He’s a really great guy and is being really supportive. I have chosen to make an appointment to abort the pregnancy this coming Wednesday. I know a lot of people are very anti-abortion and I don’t want to be attacked for my choice. I plan to stay with the FOB for a long while and possibly have children later in life with him. I don’t think either of us are ready to be parents or have the resources without immense amounts of help from gov. funding to raise a baby. I guess I’m just scared and I need to talk to people who are in the same situation I am. I have not told anyone other than the FOB about the pregnancy.
With just the 2 of us knowing, it makes it hard to emotionally handle without the support of friends and family.
Heeey everyone. OK, so yah, almost 12 weeks now…
I told my parents and the dad. My parents were shocked, and said they would love me no matter what even though they were pushing abortion and aren’t talking to me much right noww… The guy, tripppped out. took off. Haven’t talked to him in a while. He wants the baby aborted too. But I decided on keeping it.
Holyyyy is this gonna be hard…
