When I was 16 years old, I had my beautiful little boy with a guy I loved with all my heart. About 2 months after our son was born, he took off. He wasn’t ready to “grow up”. My son will be 2 in February, and his dad started coming back around again in September. We reunited and tried to work out our relationship again. Needless to say, I couldn’t let go of our past, and I couldn’t allow myself to accept the way he treated me so horribly. I left, only to find out I’m pregnant with his child, again. I’m now 18. He nearly cost me my job, so I’m on a probation period of no more than 15 hours a week, and only getting minimum wage. My son’s father came to me today and told me he lost his job. That also means no child support. I was receiving about 400$ a month in child support. I have nowhere near enough money to support myself, plus two children. I forgot to mention that I live with my parents. My mother told me I have to be out on my own before the second baby is born. I cannot afford that either. I’m not sure what to do. I don’t think that I could ever really consider abortion, but I do think that maybe adoption is the right choice in this situation, although, I am not sure I could bear the pain of giving a child away to perfect strangers. I am not sure what to do. I have absolutely no support at all. I have no friends. I have very little family. I have no one. My ex was so controlling that he was all I had, and now that I left him I am left with nothing and no one. I don’t know what to do. Someone please help with some advice?
I have been dating my same boyfriend for three years now and this isn’t our first pregnancy. Our first year together, I got pregnant and was forced into an abortion by my parents and him as well. Anyway, now a few years later, I was actively taking birth control for three months and realized I didn’t get a period.
I’m not sure how many weeks I am pregnant yet I still have to go to the OBGYN this week. My parents, my boyfriend’s parents, and my boyfriend are all strongly pushing me to have another abortion. But I always promised myself, I would never go through that pain again. It changed me as a person and I regretted it so much. My boyfriend says he will back me 100% on my decision, but he really isn’t ready for a kid yet. He is 19 as well. We both work part-time jobs and attend a community college. Our jobs do not provide us with any benefits though. My Mom and Dad said I have to move out and live on my own and start paying for everything on my own… The baby, a place to live, car insurance, phone bills, etc. I really don’t know what to do with this situation. I know I want to keep the baby.. but I don’t know, if I can handle the responsibility, especially with no support from any family or with finances. I have a feeling my parents will help me out and are just trying to scare me right now, but they are pushing me and telling me I don’t have a choice and making me so stressed out. I don’t know if I should listen to my gut and do what I think is right and struggle alone. Or if I should get an abortion and do what I never wanted to do ever again. Please help with advice. Thank you.
OK. So, I’m 15. I had unprotected sex on November 2nd. He didn’t cum in me and I got my period the next day. It’s now December 18th. I usually get my period on the 3rd, so I’m late. Is there any way I could be pregnant?
It’s December 16th, just a week and a half before Christmas. This year will be my second Christmas with my daughter and my first as a married woman!
That’s right! I’m married! I met my husband on October 2nd, two years ago, and we became good friends, hanging out almost every day! On November 24th, he asked me out at 11:45 pm and I said yes! I couldn’t have been happier. On January 15th of this year, he moved into the basement room where my mom was, so that he could help out with my daughter without actually living with me. On March 9th, he stood beside me when my daughter’s father and I went to court for custody (which I got completely, thank God) and that really let me know he was there for me. On March 22nd, he proposed and I said yes! On June 23rd, – we married! He had just turned 21 and I was turning 21 on August 2nd. It was a great day, our wedding. My mom watched my daughter for the night and he and I went to the Comfort Inn in Brantford, ON for our Honeymoon. It was only one night, but it was worth it. It was also the first time we had sex. That’s right, he and I vowed to wait until our wedding day to engage in sex, and we did. I mean, of course, we did other things…You can only go so long without it…But for actual making love, we waited till our Honeymoon. I was extremely proud of myself.
During this entire time with my boyfriend/fiancé/husband, my daughter’s father was in and out. He was angry with my boyfriend at the time because my daughter woke up and called him “dada” instead of her father. And then he was angry because we got married and it was just on and off.
My daughter’s father has access through a supervised access center and he only sees her once a week for two hours. Since he’s been there, he has never changed our daughter’s diaper!
I already have a two year old daughter. I got pregnant a year after having her and ended up having an abortion. Now, I’m pregnant for the third time. I’m very torn. I don’t want another baby but I don’t want to go through the abortion process again.
I look at my own daughter and see her smiling and playing and I hear a voice say, “Why can’t you show this one mercy?”
I feel so lost. I’m 19 and I know people will be like, “Wow, she had another one?!”. I had split from my husband for two months and got a boyfriend (who I’m pregnant by now). Now, my husband wants to get back together, but he doesn’t know I’m pregnant. Oh, what a life I lead!
I was a virgin till I started dating this guy about 6 weeks ago. Now everything was going great, i lost it to him and then went on the pill. Didn’t feel any different till about 3 weeks ago. I started peeing a lot more, was hungry all the time, my back hurt, and my boobs were getting bigger, had a horrible taste in my mouth (which is still there) and I had light bleeding and cramping like I was on my period which had been two weeks beforehand. My friend told me I might be pregnant because we were having unprotected sex while I was taking the pill and had been drinking alcohol the same nights. I left it for a week before I went away to my parent’s place then I told him the night before I left, and he got really mad and dumped me for not wanting to abort the baby if I turned out to be pregnant. It’s now two days away from when I’m meant to have my period. I haven’t taken the pill in almost 2 weeks and I still feel the same. Can anyone tell me if I am pregnant or not? I’m really confused and worried.
