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I got preg very quickly after getting off my pills. I hope you’re not (if that’s what you’re wanting). Get a pregnancy test and go find out. What does your BF have to say about this.
I think you are doing a great job. Just keep giving her the support she needs. Offering to go to therapy with her is awesome. The only other thing that I can think of is to babysit her baby as often as you can. Maybe you could set something special up for her ( I know money is probably a main concern here) but maybe you could some how get a manicure set up for her, or get another one of her girlfriends to have movie and a dinner night together while you watch the baby. You emotional support is very important and you sould like a great friend!
How exciting! It’s all a personal decision on what color theme you go with, but I would suggest a neutral color theme because pink/blue over load can get a little carried away, and if you chose to have more kids you’ll beable to reuse some stuff! hey, I just always thing thrifty, but yellows and greens can be added into the masses of pinks or blues.
Let us all know when you find out!
It’s so shocking to fing out you’re pregnant. I cried and cried. Just follow your heart. I’m not telling you what to do because only YOU can make that decision. I will tell you about my experience. I chose not to have a baby. I cry about that choice too. If you need to talk, I’m here, so are a lot of other girls with many different experiencs.
I’m sorry you’re having a hard time right now. I would say you shouldn’t marry him just for the baby. He’s probably scared and confused right now, but it’s got to be hard to hear someone say they’re not sure if they really love you or not. Don’t rush into anything. Take is slowly, as you already have one huge thing going on in your life…a growing baby inside of you. take care, and try and keep your head up!
Sounds like this guy is more trouble than he’s worth. It’s also very dangerous that he would let your child crawl out to the pool unattended. I would NOT allow that kind of behavior. I know it’s hard cause he’s your baby’s daddy, but I would tell him that he’s not allowed at your house anymore. Tell him he can call you if he wants to come by, or you can set up dates and times, but he can’t just be waltzing in your home at any time that is convient for him. I would lay the law down. If he wants to be apart of you and your son’s life, he better pull it together and find a little respect and also learn how to make sure a child is safe from harms way!!
It does hurt, but after a certain period of time you will never regret your decision. I promise. It’s so hard to have the strength to leave an abusive relationship, but you’ve taken the first step. I’m so proud of you for leaving, Have you seen a doctor? You need to be seen after that man pushed you down the stairs. Someone listed a great website here that porvides so many wonderful resources for preg. women. Don’t feel like you have wasted anyone’s time. We are all here for each other, and we are all here to support eachother becuase we can all relate to some of the same curcumstances. Please stay strong. You will miss him, but you CAN NOT go back to him. I did it a few times and it makes it so much harder the next time and this guy could become even more scary if he knew you were trying to ‘run away’ from him. You are not running away, but he may feel thus way because he sees you as his porperty. Please stay safe.
xo
