There’s two years between my two. They’re a handful but it’s worth it!
Harry can get jealous at times but I let him help with GemGem a lot, like when im changing her nappy or giving her a bath. It helps him bond with his sister and not feel left out.
Its a bit harder in the beginning, but we found that if one of you bonds with the baby in the day and the other at night, then which ever one isnt preoccupied with the baby can look after your little girl.
Time splitting is really hard but it just gets into a pattern!