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filledwithjoy1
ParticipantKeep the baby … by the time your 6 months pregnant you’ll be 18 …. then your mother can’t tell you that you have to abourt it….. think about what your mother is telling then think about what is right!!!!.. and i can tell just by the way your wirting it sounds like to me you know what the right thing to do is… now all you have to do is just make that choice… take care
filledwithjoy1
ParticipantIt really sounds like you are … i would get a test asap or make an appointment to go to your dc’s and have them check … take care
luv Erica xxx:Pfilledwithjoy1
ParticipantFunny that… that happened i actually did the same thing 2 days ago …. which will make it show up wrong…. another thing would be to take another test to see how that turns out to be…. your period could be late b/c of being worried so much so just try to calm down and take the other one if that turns out neg then you should try to tell your parents and go to the dc’s to find out…. i know how you feel i’m only 16 and have been w/ my bf for a little over a year now but we have been ttc for a while…. well sweety let us know how it goes i hope everytniogh turns out for the best …. take care
luv Erica xxx:Pfilledwithjoy1
ParticipantWell im against abortion alot so of course im going to say NO DON"T DO IT!!!… first of all you said you think your pregnant so you might want to find out 1st….. if you are then talk it over w/ your biological parents!…. yes he’s your stepdad but ya’ll are not blood tell him how your going to handle it…. don’t let him tell you how…. theres a living life inside of you….. you have the choice to save it …… and if worst comes to worse you can still have the baby and put it up for adoption….. just think about what your doing 1st….. 1. find out 2. tell someone 3. talk it over 4. THINK ! 5. make your decision …… i hope this make sense….. tell us how it goes and good luck ….. make the right chocie…… take care
xx Erica πfilledwithjoy1
ParticipantWell sweety your not in the boat alone on that one im kinda in the same situation you are in ….. my period hasn’t came for a month…… me and my bf are a very sexual couple too…. and don’t use protection….. :whistle: ….. and i took a test about 3 times and im still not sure….. the 1st one was neg the 2nd one was nothing at all and the 3rd one had a small faint line +…… we know were not ready for a baby but there’s a 99% chance were going to be parents…
i get sick every evening and the smell of coffee makes me sick :sick: ….. but we talked it over and decided thatwhen we find out for sure were going to try to tell our parents and see if they can help and were both well im gonna get a job , he already has one …… and try to make it work believe me me and him are both against abortion 100% ….. so were going to try to make it the best we can were not that old ( me-16, him-17) its going to be hard but it’s like that for evryone…. but when you do find out you are believe me you’ll do anything gor that baby and you’ll be so Happy too :laugh: well take care
xx Erica :kiss:filledwithjoy1
ParticipantOMG congrats i wish you two the best of luck starting your new life and new little family together…… take care
xxErica πfilledwithjoy1
ParticipantThat’s a tough question to answer well, you say you had an abortion right? …. so my guess would be to see if there was any symtoms with that short pregnancy like you feel now…. if they add up together then you could be but i don’t know if you can get pregnant after an abortion…. but my best bet would be if you really think your pregnant then go get a test and find out…. or go to your doctor’s office and have them run a blood test….. wish you the best …. i hope i was some help….. take care
xx Erica π
filledwithjoy1
ParticipantIt sounds like you could be i but i would take a test first and find out…
xxErica πfilledwithjoy1
ParticipantWell sweety it sounds like to me that you are and if i had to take a guess i’d say that there’s an 80% chance you are… i had the same symtoms and didn’t start feeling like i’m going to get sick till about a month into it.. good luck let me know how it all goes… take care ..
xx Erica πfilledwithjoy1
ParticipantWell, it kinda sounds like you are…. but kinda not try to take another test just to make shure…. and if that one says negative also…. try waiting until you missed your peroid then take it again a cuople days once that has happened… let us know when you find out..!
Take care
xxEricafilledwithjoy1
ParticipantHunny believe me you don’t want to do it….if your having BIG 2nd thoughts now… think of how it’s going to be when you do…im only 16 and might be pregnant but i wouldn’t have an abortion…it’s still a baby it’s alive and it’s inside of you…your it’s mother….im not telling you what to do just think about what your doing…or might be doing…if your b/f really loves you he’ll let you get your feelings out and you guys can talk about it…just wait until you can feel the joy of being able to fell him/her kick….be born…..look up and smile at you…being called mommy…. lots of people would love to have a baby and can’t….im hoping that i might be a prego because i want em’ but,….i’ve been trying for a year now and still nothing….your lucky to find out your going to be a mommy take an advantage of that be a great mother!…i can tell you will look how much you accomplished…just think about what i said.. good luck …do what ‘s in your best intrest
take care xxErica π
filledwithjoy1
ParticipantWow! sweety im so so sorry that happened if it was up to me no one would ever have to lose a baby….but i did see the piture and i don’t care what anyone says….your baby girl would of been the most prescious miricle of your life and at least you did get to see her… that’s all you think is that she knew her mommy was always there for her…and that you did what you did because it would of been her best intrest.. and just doing that shows me that when or if you do have another child that your going to be the best mommy ever… 14 is a young age and your mother should be proud of you that you were willing to step up to your responsabilities and be a parent….hunny i know you miss your daughter but all you can do is thank god for being able to see her…and that hopefully she’s looking down on you and smiling thanking you for being there.. And don’t worry about the kids at school just try to stay away from that for a while (the kids , not school…you need that) just try to get back into your routine… i hope i hepled any….if you need to talk im here…. im only 16 and might be having a baby myself…
take care sweety…..xx Erica π
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