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Being a mommy takes WORK, some see that as bad some see it as good, no one who is a mother really believes it’s easy, but sometimes it’s a lot easier to say everything’s great and wonderful then trying to go into detail about all the behind the scenes things you may be dealing with.
Hang in there sweetie! It is hard, I had complications during my pregnancy and I gained a total of 80 lbs! About 40 of it came off pretty quick but the rest has come off slowly over time, with exercise, even just making a point to walk around the house more will help, and try to be aware of the foods you’re eating. Having a baby is a big change and I don’t know many new moms who don’t struggle with how they look afterward, but remember you’re not alone on this and we’ll be here for you!
Congratulations! Those are both beautiful names, I would suggest looking up the meaning and seeing what meaning you like best!
Congratulations on your baby girls! I hope they are both doing well. Two new babies and school wow! I will be praying for you!
That sounds a lot like where I was when I was 16. I desperately wanted a baby, well I got pregnant at 16 and miscarried, it was devastating and almost destroyed me, I got pregnant again at 17 and had my daughter when I was 18. She is 4 years old now and I love her dearly. Her father has never been a part of her life and from the age of 2 she started asking questions. I have been very blessed to have wonderful people in my life and hers and she knows she has a heavenly Father, but that does not change the fact that my precious baby girl is missing out on having a daddy to hug and love and develop a relationship with. It’s because of my selfishness, (Which I never saw that way), that my daughter has to suffer this way, it breaks my heart to know I can’t give her a daddy. Yes there are many other reasons that children grow up with out a daddy, but this is my fault, this is something I chose by having sex in the first place with someone who I did not have a lifelong commitment to, marriage.
My advice for now is to love on everyone else’s baby. There are plenty of babies already to love on, I know it’s not the same as having your own but I promise you won’t look back and regret waiting to have your own.
