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when i was pregnant i couldnt do anything- coz all i done was throw up. anything i ate would be out of my system within an hour.
but i dont know if thats normal- i assumed it was.i wouldnt worry to much- but if you want to go to the doctors to check, go for it. it wouldnt hurt to be double sure would it?
hope it stops soon 🙂
xxxx
i dont think you can forget about it no matter how hard you try.
i had an abortion 10 months ago which i was forced into by my mum. not a day goes by when i dont think about my baby.there are girls on here that had an abortion over 10 years ago and still think about their child. so i dont think you will forget about your baby.
But i want to say something that alot of girls here have said to me
‘Your baby and God have forgiven you’now its time to forgive yourself- i know its hard as i am trying but failing to do it.
im here if you ever need to talk 🙂
take care xxx
hello sweetheart, my name is Bernardette and im 16.
i also lost my baby to abortion nearly 10 months ago and i go through alot of stuff nearly the same as you.
im going to say what a lot of girls on here have said to me-
‘Your baby and God have forgiven you’
the hard part i find is beliving they have and forgiving yourself. some people find it easy some people such as myself find it hard. i find it better when i talk to the girls her at SUG about how i am feel and they like sort of guide me through my days- maybe that might help you to.
you could also see a counsellor if you feel you are ready to, some people dont want to. it sounds like you are still depressed, so maybe talking to a professional or just to the girls here might help you abit.
i hope a have helped a little bit, well mainly not made you feel on your own. Because that is one thing you are never be, is alone especailly with all the support avaliable here.
dont be afraid to talk to me if you want to. i come on here nearly everyday so…
take care sweetie and try and stay strong
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hello sweetheart, i think you should wait and see if your period comes within the next week.
try not to stress or panic as that can delay it. have you ever been late before?
if it hasnt come within the next week, do a pregnancy test if you have the money or go to the doctors and get a blood test done (blood tests are more accurate anyway).
if you want to talk, dont be afraid.
take care xx
hello sweetheart-
first of all if you panic and get stressed you can delay your peroid, so that could not be helping as you are panicing about pregnancy.
wait a few more days and then take a test or have a blood test (blood tests are more accurate).However if you are pregnant seriuosly think about your options, if you dont want this child then think about adoption. abortion is not the answer. trust me!
let me know.
take care sweetie xx
Victoria, i had an abortion 9 months ago and it has destryoed me!
sweetheart, you need to really sit down and think about- there are loads of women on this website that stood up to the families and had there children and they have not regretted it.
maybe you should also think about adoption- that way you are not killing a life and also you could be giving a couple a child to start the family they have always wanted
take care xx
i know what you mean myangel.
its just, well i dont know. i fell like i have to please everyone except myself; like i dont matter.by the way i came on my period x
Stop worrying sweetie, i personally dont think you are pregnant. if he didnt come then i cant see a way that you could be pregnant.
how normal are your periods? coz if they are normal and come every month then you still have a few days until you are due on.
try not to panic because stress can delay your peroid which by the sounds of it will make you worse.
let me know though yeah?
take care 🙂 xx
Browneyedgirl, i had an abortion 9 months ago. it has ruined my life. there is not one moment when i dont think that my innocent baby was killed all because i was too scared to stand up to my family.
dont make the same mistake that i and many others make. nothing can prepare you for an abortion. it has killed me- i find it extremely hard to find reasons to get up in the morning.
Be the voice for your child. Stand strong and let no one hurt you and your little baby. You will not regret it when you see your child smile at you, when you hear your child tell you they love you.
Your a mother now. stay strong sweetie!
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Everyone is saying this is normal- but this feels like the most un normal thing in the world.
My baby was taken from me; why?!
thats what i dont understand; im i that bad of a person that no one would of stuck by me and support me and my baby?!
would i of made such a bad mother?!Everyone that knows acts like its not a big deal!
am i the only person that thinks it is!
to me it is a huge deal!!!i want my baby back!!
thats all i want!
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well when i was pregnant; i went to the doctors and they got the midwife to contact me.
Have you got a number or something to contact them with? if you have- ring themx
i feel the same way everyday- i had my abortion 7 months ago, i was 15weeks and 3days gone. I thought i was the only person who felt like this!
i want a baby so much- no i want my baby back!
all i want is to a be a mummy!!
xit could possibly be your implant- i had it in for 7 months and i went through exactly the same-
but i was actually throwing up and i went to the doctors and done 5 tests within a month of each other and it turned out it was just my implant and it was making me ill.go to the doctors if your not too sure sweetie, good luck
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I was really touched by what you said. I am also 16. I had an abortion when i was 15weeks and 3days. I have never forgiven myself. I had mine 6 months ago and my baby would of been born on the 20th december 2008. My mum gave me no choice, but now me and my boyfriend are trying for another baby. This time i am giving my mum the choice of supporting me or walking out of my life.
Keep strong sweetie, your not alone.
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