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      its been over a year and hes he/she is still all i think about. ive had such a rough time i just wonder when is it all going to end?
      Mums now got cancer, the babies father and i broke up after three years i am struggling to work and finish school. i dont the see the light at the end of the tunnel. i feel as though if i had’ve kept my baby i would actually have a reason to want to be here.
      now all i want is to go to heaven to be with them.

      please if u r thinking of abortion think of ALL your OTHER options first. its the worst pain emotionally that ive ever been through. i feel my heart break every single time i think of what i did.


        i dont think you can forget about it no matter how hard you try.
        i had an abortion 10 months ago which i was forced into by my mum. not a day goes by when i dont think about my baby.

        there are girls on here that had an abortion over 10 years ago and still think about their child. so i dont think you will forget about your baby.

        But i want to say something that alot of girls here have said to me
        ‘Your baby and God have forgiven you’

        now its time to forgive yourself- i know its hard as i am trying but failing to do it.

        im here if you ever need to talk 🙂

        take care xxx


          Hi sweet pea,

          you aren’t meant to forget it and you never will, but it is possible to live with the decision you made. It takes a while and many ups and downs… but you will make it through all of this and you’ll be stronger because of it. You’re supposed to think of yr baby. It’s normal and healthy under these abnormal circumstances. It’s the first step towards healing and forgiving yourself.
          You still have a reason to be here hun, you’re here because you have so much to give and by sharing yr story yr helping so many young girls… you have a purpose and yr making a difference.

          Have you considered seeing a therapist? It could make a huge difference in how you look at the situation and how you learn to deal with yr emotions.

          I really hope that you find yr way ini all of this.
          Much love and support
          Evie xox


            I am so sorry to hear of your pain! Listen hun, I’ve been through times when I couldn’t ‘see the light at the end of the tunnel’ either. I know what it’s like to want to die.
            But Jesus helped me through it. Even though you’ll always regret your abortion, you don’t have to always be a slave to your guilt. Jesus can set you free.
            He can help you through this really hard time with your Mum’s cancer, your break-up, your school and work, and your abortion. I’m not saying that it will be easy, but you can survive this. Jesus can give you a reason to live.
            I wish that I could give you a big hug, but instead of that I will be praying for you.

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