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I dont think you could get an abortion now, i think your too far along. You can always give the baby up for adoption, or you can keep the child and raise him your self.
Well i am a mom at 17 to a 4 month old and are you calling me selfish for having my child? even though it wasn’t planned i would have never gotten an abortion or gave my son up for adoption. He is everything to me and i am still in school. I DO NOT have a job and i STILL live at home but that DOES NOT make me a bad mother. My mom doesn’t take care of my son. Me and my boyfriend share the responsibility for raising our son. He dropped out of high school but he has a job. Even though we aren’t “STABLE” we still manage and do a great job at being parents. It doesn’t matter what age you are it matters how mature you are and how well you can handle stress and care for a child. I’m not saying Yeah go ahead and have a baby because its not easy but you have to understand that everyone is not you. Even though her parents don’t approve right now i think that when that baby comes her parents will help out. I just found that very offensive because im not selfish for having a child young.
I seriously wish that i would have been 22 with a boyfriend that had his own house and a steady job when i got pregnant. Its really not the end of the world, im 16 and still is high school and im having a baby boy. My boyfriend has a job but doesnt make alot. Its alot harder for me considering i have no job and i live with my parents and i have to manage school. Im not here to judge you but i think that you should keep your baby, it will change your life for the better. :] hope things are well.
I think what you are doing is great! You turned you life around for your baby and your parents should understand that but i guess they don’t. Just keep doing what you are doing your making a life for you and your daughter. School is very important, it will help out in the long run. i hope everything turns out okay.
I definitely think you should wait. He he says he loves you then he will wait in till your ready. I lost my virginity at 15 and i was almost 16 and now I’m 16 and pregnant i really wish i would have waited but my boyfriend at the time pushed me into doing it then he left me a month later. You should just wait, and let your boyfriend know how you feel about the situation.
