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I have some advice..Avoid thinking about it! It’s natural. He gave you the most precious gift of all, your baby. You will always feel something for him, but don’t be tempted. Avoid looking at him when circumstances say you must be together. Other than that don’t be with him. Out of sight out of mind.
Darling, are you that naive???? I mean granted it would be wonderful, but I think it’s unrealistic to even consider it. Also, I don’t want his filthy money…..it’s drug money….thats like saying "I hate that you deal, but keep dealing because I need child support…"
Are you serious? You want me to ask my maniac ex to pay child support? That’s got to be the funniest thing I’ve heard all day. I mean how would I do that? I’m sure as heck not going to appraoch him and be like you need to pay me child support. Oh god I can just picture that. Can you say hello intensive care?:laugh:
You’re right, that was my mistake. I didn’t go far enough. He still calls my phone, drives past my house and haunts my dream. He’s never approached the baby, but I’m scared. I can’t help it! I miss him so much, he’s all I have. How can I not love him when he gave me the most precious gift of all?
I left and it’s been a little over a year since I’ve been gone. I still miss him, but I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. He’s celebrating his first X-Mas and he’s almost a year old now! I know I can’t go back to him, but it doesn’t make it any less hard, you know? You all say you’ve been there but how did you make it? He still calls me, and haunts my dreams. I don’t know what to do.
Heck no! My baby boy is the highlight of Christmas. It’s his 1st X-Mas with him and he’s almost a year old! So, I know exactly how you feel. My mother is a druggie, an alcoholic and my younger siblings call me mom. YOur mom has NO right to make you second guess yourself. Stick to your gut. If you think they’ll be hateful don’t go. You don’t need all the stress on yourself. It’s hard enough being a teen mom, or soon to be mom. I know because I was pregnant last Xmas too. When are you due?
My baby……..i left him….as for birthright there’s none even relatively close to me. he calls my cell all the time. im sorry i wasted ur guyz time…..really i am.i cant get a rerstraining order against him. i miss him so much….no1 said it would hurt so bad to leave him….my pushed me down stairs, he almost killed me and baby…:angry: i have bruised ribs and a sprained wrist. my wrist doesn’t hurt so bad anymore. anyone know if people would hire me? i need the money. i have some money saved, we’re living in a 1 room apartment.
Thank you for all your feedback, but you see I can’t leave him. I couldn’t go to the police and I sure as hell can’t go back home. I wish that this baby wasn’t there. He’s wearing me down. He said he knows someone who will do it regardless of how far along I am. I can’t say yes, but scared to say no. I’m more that a coward I’m so terrified I won’t even protect my own child. I couldn’t bare to loose another child. You see, he would kill me or my baby or make me wish he did, if I leave him again. I don’t have anywhere to go.
Sweetie, here’s something you should consider. Take a look around. Open your eyes hun. I’m going to be straight forward with you. So if you don’t want hard truth stop reading this. I’m not being insensitive, cuz i’ve been there. i have had two pregnancies. Yes, I’m aware that im only 14. But, hey i’m almost 15. Anywayz, first if your parents don’t know. TELL THEM. Consider your options. No one can tell you what you do. You have to deicide 4 urself. Secondly, i dont care what you think is the easist. i’m not saying ur bf doesn’t luv u, but maybe he’s not the best choice 4 ur BABY. Stop thinking about urself. Rite now u need 2 do the following: Make a list of all the possibilites. (i’m glad u r thinking ahead) i know u may want 2 continue school, but maybe put it on hold 4 a little while. i’m not saying never go back. Maybe wait until they stop nursing, so u don’t have 2 shift the baby. Also some schools, have a daycare 4 students w/ kids. u should check out that possibility.
All I can say is tell her about me. Tell her I was raped. It’s called date rape. I couldn’t bare to tell my parents either. In fact to this day they don’t know. I wish with all my heart I could go back and give my baby life. I see children running around and I think that’s about how old my baby would be. Don’t let her make the same mistake.
