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I went for 7 months with no one knowing i was pregnant. I drank and did everything normal. I didnt really do much to hide it. Just wear maybe baggie tops or sumin thats all i did.
Bit of advice though dont hide it from your friends, i still havent told my friends and am trying so hard to tell them now but i really cant find the words because i hide it for so long. You will need your friends for support. I needed my friends but I chose not to tell them and i regret itIm in the same boat as you, my boyfriend left me when i was pregnant and i havent heard from him once and my baby is now 4 months old! Atm my baby is foster care because i wanted her adopted i went and saw her yesterday and i cant let her go. Yeah im scared about being a single mum and carrying on with college and working its gonna be hard but like my mum says there only babies for a short time and when she’s older i will still only be young and will still be able to do the things i wanna and so will you even if you have the baby!
Hi whe i first found out i was pregnant i hid it and didnt tell anyone till i was 7 months. you need to tell your mum asap. The longer you leave it the worse it gets, you never know she might surprise you. Just tell her you need her help or sumin. hope it goes ok
I was in the same situation as you a few years ago i was totally in love with my boyfriend at the time then met someone else and fell for him. I ended up dumping my boyfriend for this guy and it was the biggest mistake i ever made!! Everything was great with the new guy until a couple of months ago when he finished with me for someone else.
If i could go back i would never of dumped my boyfriend.bweber wrote:
hun i know how hard it is to be 18 with a baby, i am doing it. and i also know the other side of the adoption thing because i was adopted when i was little, my birth parents were really young and i was the 4th baby they had and they couldnt take care of us so they decide to let us go and i am now back in contact with them both and it hurt them so much to let us go butbeing so young with 4 kids they just couldnt do it, but that doesnt mean they didnt love us…….im not saying give her up or keep her and not be able to take care of her im just saying follow ur heart!…keeping her may make it harder and take a little langer to get into college but u can do it, i am still trying (i had my baby june 2nd of this year and got married feb 2nd of this year)….
Thanks a lot. That helps a lot. Was ment to see social worker today but she’s cancelled.
Erm with the adoption i may be able to have very little contact letters etc but that is all. I have been having counselling atm which i recieved from Social services i i got a grant to have 8 sessions free.
Thanks for all the comments it really helps. I just hope i can come to a decision soon because its not fair on her she’s almost 3 months and not really knowing anything. Would help if her rather would grow up and take some resonsibility but that will never happen!
