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Dear Becky…Thank You For Helping Me!

Dear Becky…Thank You For Helping Me!

Hi Becky, I live in Nigeria and am 24 yrs old, my story is very long, so I will summarize it, ok? I just discovered that am 5 weeks pregnant and there is a lot of problems now because I don't even know the particular guy that owns the baby, I have two guys I am...

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I Am Making It!

I Am Making It!

  Dear Becky, I'm excited to have someone like you for support! My due date is January 30th. Your story is incredible and I look up to you for the way you have learned to live. You are a very good person and have a lot to offer! I wish more people knew about you...

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Thank You StandUpGirl For My Twins!

Thank You StandUpGirl For My Twins!

I just wanna thank everyone for posting their stories. I am a young girl who always dreamed of being a parent but, of course when the time was right. I could always picture a perfect picture with beautiful kids. I wanted to give my child so much more than I got. Well...

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So Surprised!

So Surprised!

I am going through a hard time at the moment so I wanted to share my story. Just over a month ago I found out that I was about 5 weeks pregnant, I was so surprised because I had unprotected sex so many times and nothing had happened so I guess I considered myself...

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It’s Complicated

It’s Complicated

My story is complicated and hurtful, but I want to share it because no one deserves to be dehumanized nor alienated because of who they are, what they have been through and what they are going through. People tear others down to build themselves up.  Everyone's story...

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What An Impact You Make!

What An Impact You Make!

Dear Becky, First off I would like to say what you have started is amazing! When I was going through my situation, I wish there was a place I could turn to where I was not the only one. I visited many pregnancy sites while I was pregnant and most were filled whether...

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Grow And Learn

Grow And Learn

Dear Becky- Having read over many of the letters written by young beautiful girls, I hope that my letter will help. When I found out I was pregnant in 1972, I was 14 years old (I am now 53), abortions were illegal in Michigan. A friend of the family took me to a place...

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Standing Up To Pressure

Standing Up To Pressure

My first baby would be 22 this week. I was a 17-year-old drug-using high school drop-out, but when the lady wearing scrubs told me I was pregnant, I already thought of myself as a new mother. Everyone wanted me to get an abortion  except me.  I actually stopped using...

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Julia’s Story

Julia’s Story

My maiden name is Julia Holcomb and I am writing in response to Kevin Burke’s article Post Abortion Trauma from the National Review.  I found the article he wrote about Steven Tyler remarkably compassionate while outlining the trauma of abortion. My name was mentioned...

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What Is Done Is Done

What Is Done Is Done

We had planned everything. We had decided to have this baby. Our baby… I am 18, I just graduated and have already applied and got into the best university of interior architecture. However, we have been talking about this for a few months now. I don’t see myself going...

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A Call, No Answer

A Call, No Answer

Dear Becky, I was looking up things on teenage pregnancies and I came across this very insiteful website. I am 18 and 2-days ago I took a  pregnancy test that came up positive. When I found out so many  thoughts rushed through my head. The first thing I wanted to do...

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On With My Life

On With My Life

Having read over many of the letters written by young beautiful girls, I hope that my letter will help. When I found out I was pregnant in 1972, I was 14 years old (I am now 53), abortions were illegal in Michigan. A friend of the family took me to a place where they...

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