Here’s my story…
I’m 18 years old, and 3 months pregnant. The father of my baby completely abandoned me, saying that I cheated on him with my boss and that it’s really his. He demands a DNA test… which I will get when the baby is born, but if he thinks I’m gonna put that little life at risk, he’s got another thing coming. He’s blocked me from his life, Facebook \ MSN \ anything, I’ve gotten rid of my cell phone so I would stop getting harassing text messages from his friends, one of which wants to kick me in the stomach and kill the baby, or I quote in his words, have the baby in the alley, it’ll do you good. My father’s girlfriend let me know about this site and I was pretty interested. You all have really interesting stories and to know that I’m not alone in the least… makes me feel so good, but at the same time, I know that a lot of you are going through so much…
I started seeing my ex-boyfriend of 2 and a half years before I found out I was pregnant. When I told him I was pregnant, he was kinda excited. He thought it was his. Then when I explained that it wasn’t his, and he had no clue I had been seeing someone else while we were broke up for a few months. He was devastated. He started calling me every name in the book, saying and promising he’d stand by me anyways, and then telling me off everyday, making me feel completely useless. Then there’s my best friend who promised she’d be there, about a week or 2 after she found out I was pregnant, I didn’t see her, talk to her, or hear from her in weeks just when I thought she wanted something. I was raised by my father sole-ly cause my mom died when I was a baby, and he raised me pretty decent and although I tell him absolutely everything, I find this really hard to talk about.
I considered abortion. My current ex/boyfriend (whatever he is ), they both wanted abortions. Then when the baby’s father read up on abortions he really thought it was in my best nature to have it. I mean I didn’t wanna get rid of it in the first place, and its not someone else’s decision… Then my ( whatever he is ) tried to tell me that he was gonna take me to Cuba in December and ask me to marry him in the fall of 2011, but only if I’d get an abortion… That’s sick in my opinion… Basically, I kinda wanna get some of your opinions on this, or advice or anything.
Keep in mind guys, I really do love my whatever he is. I just don’t know what to think anymore.
O my sweet love, you are out there somewhere,
on the wings of an angel.
You have been placed in your mother’s tummy.
You don’t know it yet,
but you are loved by so many.
Your mother fights for your life,
a fight she will not lose.
Abortion she will not allow,
she knows you’re alive.
She may not be ready or able to give all that you need,
but she loves you enough to do the best that
she knows how.
She will meet a couple that will love not only you,
but her as well.
With open arms, she is invited,
to enjoy your life and share in your love.
Her hurt few will know,
Her courage; a glorious show!
Tears will fall,
both of sadness and joy,
but your life is worth it all.
You will have two mothers,
one, an angel on earth,
the other, a soul filled with love and hope,
praying for your life.
As such is a beautiful opera
your first cry,
we all await.
You are tiny right now,
but you are strong,
You are My Angel, You are My Hope,
You are my life’s opera.
I’m fourteen years old.
I met a boy in February, and I fell in love with him immediately. So in love that I wanted to lose my virginity to him! Inside my heart, deep, deep down… I wanted a child with him.
All I thought about was the cute little chubby face and the fun time we’d spend together with our baby and I thought he’d become so much closer to me and we’d be like our own little family.
So…I had sex with him without any sort of protection and now I’m PREGNANT.
But now, I don’t want to be pregnant anymore. I think about if he leaves me and I’m only FOURTEEN! I just began high school and I’m not ready for a little baby to have to feed, take care of, etc.
I told my mom and his mom. We went to the doctors today. My mom is against abortion and will not let me have one no matter what. So my boyfriend wanted me to get an abortion, he’s only fifteen by the way.
Anyways, we decided on adoption. I’m really skinny so I don’t think anyone will be able to tell.
What do you think? Please, give me your suggestions!
I am 15, going on 16 in a month, and I really want a baby.
I have picked out names, clothes, baby gear, furniture, EVERYTHINGGG. I know how hard it will be and I know the money it is gunna suck up… I know I might….WILL prolly lose friends…but I am willing to risk it. I just need advice as to what I should do.
Should I follow what my heart has been saying to me, for the past 8 years I thought I was meant to be a teen mom, or should I worry about what people will say??
Been to see the doctors today after spending much of last night at the hospital with fears of an ectopic pregnancy(again) or a miscarriage.
Luckily everything seems OK for now. I am going back for a scan tomorrow so fingers crossed. Even though this angel wasn’t planned and the dad and I aren’t really getting on, (I think I am going to be alone through this pregnancy too), after what happened last night, I feel so sure that I will be ok when my new baby arrives. Even though I am feeling a mixture of emotions, I feel blessed and so so lucky. Would love to hear from others in the same situation or anyone who would like to chat. xxx
Write again soon.
chilipepper
My husband and I are going to start trying to have a baby.
This decision has made me extremely happy. Knowing that sometime soon we’ll have our own little bundle of joy makes me feel like life is all the more worth living. I have too much love to give to only have my husband to give it to, and he feels the same way.
So, we want a baby. It’s going to be amazing.
